by Cd Tammy » Fri Jan 05, 2018 10:18 pm
I have the same problem. Here’s how I have been handling it. My girlfriend lets me wear pantyhose or tights during our bondage adventures but really hasn’t expressed interest in my going farther with that. When she restrains me, she’s not that creative, and sometimes I think that I could get free without too much difficulty.
When we do a bondage adventure, I tell her that I will secure myself at a certain time. She is free to arrive whenever she wishes. She can come right away or later but I will be helplessly secured until she arrives. Before the time, I laid out a wooden spoon, a ping pong paddle, a riding crop, and a belt. All lined up and ready. I put out some additional restraints, zip ties, and rope. Again lined up. Then I secured myself using a spreader bar and wide Velcro ankle restraints. I had a chain suspended from a hard point that I’ve hidden under a fake smoke detector on the ceiling. I pulled a nylon hood over my head, that has a blindfold sewn in, and then added the largest ballgag. The final step was to handcuff my hands above my head, high up on chain.
I had secured myself early, so I was feeling it when she got there. I wasn’t in pain but I had discomfort in my wrists, arms, mouth, ankles, and toes. I did say that I went high on the chain. She got the hint. Me there helpless, my ass facing her, and a line of things to use on it. Her first smack was a bit timid but I may have squirmed a bit extra for her. She liked the red marks through the pantyhose and that got me a few harder licks.
Seeing all the other restraints, as well as the cage and a saw horse set up, I think she saw that I was willing. She kept me helpless until morning but did move me to other positions. I’ve discovered she likes me blindfolded or hooded when she in charge.