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Would you ask?

Unread postby restricted » Sat May 05, 2018 10:10 am

I know a nice girl who is desperate for money. She often asks if she can stay a few days to get away from her place. She doesn't earn much. However, I don't have locks on my bedroom doors. :(

I am wondering if I should ask her if she wants to stay for a few days and for her safety, lock me in the box. She is a nice girl and although it isn't prostitution, it's along those lines. I'm wondering if I could get her to record a few plots and pretend she is a domme. I would pay her well.

She was one of my late wife's carers who people told lies about so they could take her hours. They are on zero hours contracts.

She has seen me as the slave girl, the belly dancer and as Nurse Ratched. She loved them.

So would you ask? if so, how would you put it?
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Re: Would you ask?

Unread postby boundBinder » Sun May 06, 2018 7:05 pm

That's...kind of a tough call. I admit I haven't the first clue how to begin to phrase a question like that, particularly because I don't know anything about your interactions with each other. The only suggestions I can even think of, other than to be open and honest, would come off as manipulative. Please let us all know how things work out.
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Re: Would you ask?

Unread postby RAE123 » Sun May 06, 2018 7:38 pm

You might want to error on the side of caution;
Letting her lock you up anywhere could open a door you might not want to go through.
She could take anything she wanted to, and leave you locked up forever.
You might want to reconsider letting her in to your deep side.
Please be careful.
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Re: Would you ask?

Unread postby restricted » Tue May 08, 2018 8:33 pm

She had plenty of opportunity to steal from me. But she didn't.
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Re: Would you ask?

Unread postby Stahlketten » Tue May 08, 2018 9:38 pm

If I were you, I would invite her over to stay a couple days or however long and "accidentally" leave something like a pair of handcuffs in a not very obvious place but a place that she is likely to discover it and gauge her reaction. How she reacted in the presence of you as her client may be different than how she would react if she doesn't need to be as agreeable.
Maybe she might say something interesting if the subject of roleplaying with your wife comes up in conversation.
Remember also that there are people that are very dedicated and responsible in their professional lives but rather careless in their private lives and you don't need someone like that holding your keys.
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Re: Would you ask?

Unread postby boundBinder » Wed May 30, 2018 11:41 am

Did you ever approach her? How did it go? Inquiring minds want to know!
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Re: Would you ask?

Unread postby slpnot » Sat Jun 09, 2018 10:39 am

You know it just be honest about what you want that will help you . As you explain make sure she knows that the money will be quick and easy . Don't forget to talk to her about the role and offer bonus for some imignation and other stuff .who knows she is reading all 3600 post you have made wow . Good luck and let us know oh yah lock up anything , anything I say anything you don't want to lose . Just speaking from personal experience
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Re: Would you ask?

Unread postby this_girl » Sat Jun 09, 2018 4:17 pm

I too would suggest that you err on the side of safety. You say that the young lady in question is aware of (some of) your proclivities so ask if she would be interested in helping you enjoy them. Start simply with situations that you can easily escape from and progress if you feel that there is mutual trust.

Do not offer money as this will be an invitation to take advantage of you. I'm sure that you can find other ways to express your appreciation
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