Who knows about your fetishes?
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Re: Who knows about your fetishes?
No one we know IRL knows. Sometimes I do wish I had someone to talk with it about that I knew personally, but the risks outweigh the rewards for me. Only on a couple of online forums am I able to discuss with like minded people.
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Re: Who knows about your fetishes?
Ah the wife. In hindsight wish I had never told her. I mistakenly figured there would at least be understanding and preferably participation and to a degree there is. However it is with quite a degree on her part of judgement. I am sure she sees it as wrong, bad, sick or whatever negative adjective you want to use. It has pushed us apart.
On the other hand she has said on many occasions "go find someone to play this stuff with".
So I am here with no guilt in that area. I would dearly love to find people to talk with face to face. As I live in Brisbane Queensland someone in SEQ would be great.
Even as a pre teen & teen I never felt that my kink feelings were fundamentally wrong. I recall log before the internet thinking there are billions of people on this planet, I bet somewhere out there is someone who is interested in the same things as me. Along came the internet and confirmed that.
I suspect that my mum knew. Mothers know a lot. I bought a (girls) leotard once and she found it, washed it, folded it and put it with my undies. never said anything. She was pretty laid back and nothing ever phased her so my bed it she knew that boys will be boys.
I also wonder who knows that I don't know. You know mr rumsfields famous quote. Someone may have seen something. Maybe someone at work seen me on the net or someone heard the rustle of plastic under my clothes or whatever.
Oh yes an one long gone ex girlfriend who I suspect at least suspected and was trying to get me interested because she told me that she had wet the bed regularly into her mid teens. In hindsight I should have engaged on that but all I did was express sympathy. More recently another lady who I had the pleasure of spanking.
On the other hand she has said on many occasions "go find someone to play this stuff with".
So I am here with no guilt in that area. I would dearly love to find people to talk with face to face. As I live in Brisbane Queensland someone in SEQ would be great.
Even as a pre teen & teen I never felt that my kink feelings were fundamentally wrong. I recall log before the internet thinking there are billions of people on this planet, I bet somewhere out there is someone who is interested in the same things as me. Along came the internet and confirmed that.
I suspect that my mum knew. Mothers know a lot. I bought a (girls) leotard once and she found it, washed it, folded it and put it with my undies. never said anything. She was pretty laid back and nothing ever phased her so my bed it she knew that boys will be boys.
I also wonder who knows that I don't know. You know mr rumsfields famous quote. Someone may have seen something. Maybe someone at work seen me on the net or someone heard the rustle of plastic under my clothes or whatever.
Oh yes an one long gone ex girlfriend who I suspect at least suspected and was trying to get me interested because she told me that she had wet the bed regularly into her mid teens. In hindsight I should have engaged on that but all I did was express sympathy. More recently another lady who I had the pleasure of spanking.
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Re: Who knows about your fetishes?
be careful on the "go find someone to play this stuff with".women usually say things like this to test your devotion.
it will probably coome back to bite you in the ass(or te wallet)
it will probably coome back to bite you in the ass(or te wallet)