It really depends upon "what your thing is" ! If you are turned on by being tied up against your will, that is one aspect and you may also be into the kidnap / rape type fantasies ? If this is you then you may feel a need to be tied up.
If you are more the submissive type and understand that you have misbehaved and need to be punished, then you should be able to accept being tied up if it happens, but you should be strong enough to just take your spanking. Such fantasies as "stand there, drop your knickers, bend over and hold onto the back of this chair". "And don't you dare move, or you will get more" from your master or mistress.
A third option is where you are seeking a spanking because the discomfort and pain turns you on, makes you wet / cum ? and again, being tied up may be part of the fantasy.
It may also be that you deem the spanking to be part of a sexual roleplay and seek / expect that you would immediately be involved in some sexual activity immediately post your spanking ? if this is the case, then perhaps best not be bound up ?
The main thing is that YOU should KNOW what YOU want and not be asking others "should I let him/her tie me up first ?"
Any sane person would / should tell you NOT to let some Total Stranger tie you up, even someone you have known for a while. You need to know what the person is really like, and what they are into FIRST.
Once you are alone with them and tied / handcuffed to some immovable object, you will easily be gagged, have your feet tied, be stripped, raped and tortured, have your throat slit and never be heard from again.
I am not trying to freak you out, just make you think about the reality and risk of your actions.
And, whenever you arrange to meet up with an unknown . new kink contact, write all the details you know about them, phone numbers, email addresses, forum sudenames etc, meeting place etc. seal it in an envelope and give it to a trusted friend with instructions like "if I do not call or ring you by .... take this to the police and tell them i am in trouble?
I have done that myself.