How long have you been in bondage

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Re: How long have you been in bondage

Unread postby Tesgri » Sun Sep 27, 2020 8:49 pm

I certainly agree, when practicing bondage; or various other pursuits in the BDSM category you should never leave the person(s) alone.
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Re: How long have you been in bondage

Unread postby Stahlketten » Mon Sep 28, 2020 5:04 pm

I believe it isn't unsafe to leave a person locked in handcuffs and leg cuffs and possibly a few other toys alone.
They still have pretty good mobility and can get out of the house/apartment if something happens.
They may get a bit embarrassed wearing all the jewelry in public but it isn't a safety issue.
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Re: How long have you been in bondage

Unread postby lotharj » Fri Oct 02, 2020 1:13 pm

passioncraftstore wrote:I just want to clarify: isn't it dangerous to leave someone immobilized in an apartment ALONE? Anything could happen!


We have 2 safety's if I'm chained to something alone.
- All the locks are keyed the same and we have a spare key in a sealed envelope that I can reach (it has a string attached to my finger if I don't have mobility)
- We have Google home assistant devices in every room. If not gagged, I can make phone calls easily with that. (I can also play games. Don't tell my owner :) )
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Re: How long have you been in bondage

Unread postby gaby0001 » Sun Oct 04, 2020 7:01 pm

Tesgri wrote:I certainly agree, when practicing bondage; or various other pursuits in the BDSM category you should never leave the person(s) alone.


It is not a good idea to leave a person alone in that way. Bondage is a game that indeed has its risks. You can mange them to keep them as low as possible but not eliminate them completely.
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Re: How long have you been in bondage

Unread postby snakeman » Mon Oct 26, 2020 6:17 pm

12 hours is the longest for me. Usually on a sunday my wife will have me cuffed to the bed and keeps me there for about 6 hours. She plays for a while then goes down to watch tv. During the day she will come up and have a bit of playtime, leaving me begging to cum while she goes back to the tv. One day she had said that she would pop over to her friends house for a brew. By about 10am i was cuffed to the bed. She left about 2 ish and returned about 6. She finally let me go about 10pm. I know about never leaving someone tied up in the house alone but as that scenario with her going out was a one off we weighed up the odds of something going wrong. Have to admit that it was a big turn on knowing that i was completely helpless when i heard the door shut.

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Re: How long have you been in bondage

Unread postby Natyropes » Tue Oct 27, 2020 7:02 pm

snakeman wrote:12 hours is the longest for me. Usually on a sunday my wife will have me cuffed to the bed and keeps me there for about 6 hours. She plays for a while then goes down to watch tv. During the day she will come up and have a bit of playtime, leaving me begging to cum while she goes back to the tv. One day she had said that she would pop over to her friends house for a brew. By about 10am i was cuffed to the bed. She left about 2 ish and returned about 6. She finally let me go about 10pm. I know about never leaving someone tied up in the house alone but as that scenario with her going out was a one off we weighed up the odds of something going wrong. Have to admit that it was a big turn on knowing that i was completely helpless when i heard the door shut.

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12 hours is plenty of time. Can I ask if after some time you started to get bored or wanted to be let go because you didn't want to be like that anymore? Or did you enjoy the experience the whole time it lasted?
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Re: How long have you been in bondage

Unread postby snakeman » Tue Oct 27, 2020 9:08 pm

Natyropes wrote:
snakeman wrote:12 hours is the longest for me. Usually on a sunday my wife will have me cuffed to the bed and keeps me there for about 6 hours. She plays for a while then goes down to watch tv. During the day she will come up and have a bit of playtime, leaving me begging to cum while she goes back to the tv. One day she had said that she would pop over to her friends house for a brew. By about 10am i was cuffed to the bed. She left about 2 ish and returned about 6. She finally let me go about 10pm. I know about never leaving someone tied up in the house alone but as that scenario with her going out was a one off we weighed up the odds of something going wrong. Have to admit that it was a big turn on knowing that i was completely helpless when i heard the door shut.

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12 hours is plenty of time. Can I ask if after some time you started to get bored or wanted to be let go because you didn't want to be like that anymore? Or did you enjoy the experience the whole time it lasted?



Hi natyropes. Yeah it is a long time. There were times when i started to hope she would be home and come up. Usually when playing bondage games she comes up and spends time playing and teasing which stops me getting bored but the 4 hours or so when she was not in the house was strangely different. Obviously there was going to be no playing for that time and i was just going to have to wait it out. At first it was fine and i was enjoying the time but after a while i found i was starting to listen for the door to open and she would be home. I did try to pull hard on the cuffs but they held me tight, so i tried to go back into my own dream world of what she would be doing when she came back. Although i enjoyed it i dont think we will be doing that again. Will just stick to our usual way of bondage, about 6 hours, that nowadays is enough for me. Got a bad shoulder at the moment so not been able to do anythiing for the last month.

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