Crossdressing/Self-Bondage

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harmoni
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how about pics? anybody got any they want to share? Show us yer best.

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penny
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I dream all the time about dressing up as  lady and going outside and walking around. I bring myself to do it I need help to come out. I like to tie myself up and dream that some do this to me and they have there way with me and dance with and make me do thing thay want me to do .

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wow that was intense and I so agree. I always feel naked and vulnerable and wondering whos going to hurt me beccause I'm a woman. My job I will never be good enough to be in a man's position and I will never EVER make the same amount of money as my male counter part. Thats what really feeling like a woman is. don't forget our moodswings either.

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*um*not wishing to enter the "who has it worse" contest, but *some* of these things are feelings that can, with time, care and work, be overcome.society likes to pigeon hole people, this is what people are putting into these lists.might one suggest dressing up as a pussy cat, so that you can be assertive, boss humans around, sleep where ever you want, and always look down your nose at things? :)  before anyone replies sensibly to this, i know it is not always like that.perhaps a more interesting question is, when people decide to look all feminine in their bondage, do they prefer the sultry sexy look, or the lots of clothes, very restrictive look?

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[quote="feline"]perhaps a more interesting question is, when people decide to look all feminine in their bondage, do they prefer the sultry sexy look, or the lots of clothes, very restrictive look?
[/quote] Personally, I like to be fully dressed from head to foot, but in very tight clothes - catsuits, leotards, mini-skirts in lycra, PVC or latex.Dunno if you think dressing like some kind of specialist hooker is feminine but it works for me!

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[quote="feline"]perhaps a more interesting question is, when people decide to look all feminine in their bondage, do they prefer the sultry sexy look, or the lots of clothes, very restrictive look?
[/quote] Me, I usually prefer to be dressed in lots of clothes, with masses of silk and satin involved, especially in several overlapping layers. Ball gowns, maids outfits, nightdresses and such. ziptieguy2006-10-13 12:46:36

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[quote="sheffukcd"][quote="feline"]perhaps a more interesting question is, when people decide to look all feminine in their bondage, do they prefer the sultry sexy look, or the lots of clothes, very restrictive look?
 I prefer a slightly different approach - very restrictive, but only foundations and lingerie, ie., girdle(s), support hose, long-line bra, waist cincher, power slip, and heels. 

Bondagelover
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I love to cross dress whether I'm doing self-bondage or playing with my wife as either the dom or submissive.  My favorite being a silk chemise, pantyhose, long opera length satin gloves and heels.  Fortunately, my wife doesn't mind and actually has fun doing my make-up for me since I basically suck at it.  But we rarely get the chance with two teenage kids.  (Funny, you never know when they will show up.) Funny how so many of us love the idea of being dress up, tied-up and left.  Many years ago I got to experience just that.  Once we have the house to ourselves again, I am positive it will happen again and I can't wait.  So, if you have the time, here is what happened... Very early on, I shared a fantasy with my wife that we had the opportunity to act out.  I dressed up in a pair of black pantyhose, leotard, black leather mini-skirt and black 4" pumps.  My wife tied me to the rocking chair using rope everywhere except my wrists which were handcuffed behind me to the chair.  She then did a complete make-uo job on me.  She even sprayed me with some of her perfume and put on pair of clip-on earrings.  Then she got herself ready while I had to just sit there and watch.  She put on a pair of black pantyhose (no panties), jeans, bra and low cut top.  Then she did her make-up and put on a pair of 3" red pumps.  She took the handcuff key that was sitting on the bed and put it in her pocket, gave me a light kiss on the cheek, turned and left the bedroom closing the door behind her to go out with friends.   Needless to say, since this was my first time being left alone in bondage, I was scared, especially when I heard the car drive off but horny as hell.  She turned the clock so I couldn't see it and had to sit there in the dark, completely bound and wait for her return.  I tried the best I could but I could not escape.  Finally, almost 5 hours later she returned.  I was so relieved and now more horny than ever.   She teased me for a few minutes then untied me.  What followed was nothing more than some of the best sex I have ever had.    

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Bondagelover, now you are making the rest of us envious!  You are a lucky fellow having a wife like that!
I used to be weird and kinky. But then I joined Bound Forum and became normal.

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we should rise above our envy and happiness for this incredibly lucky man!  otherwise it could lead us to temptation, and we might end up posting ideas, and trying to get him tied up in new and interesting positions, at the mercy of his wife!now we would not want that, would we?  *innocent expression number 21*

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[quote="restricted"]Bondagelover, now you are making the rest of us envious!  You are a lucky fellow having a wife like that![/quote]  It certainly isn't meant to get anybody envious, but maybe some hope to know that there are women out there that do enjoy sharing in our fantasies. And yes, I am a VERY luck man. 

harmoni
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Rock on.... Bondagelover.   Nice to hear about your story.

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