Slow progress.
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- Tightly Hogtied
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RE: Slow progress.
Hello everybody!I think I'm making a slow but considerable progress in getting my "vannilla" wife into some bondage.Last weekend I managed to convince her to let me put her in my leather SJ, after we had normal sex and she had a couple of orgasms. Once she was bound, I got our small vibrator, slid it inside her, and bound her legs together with the bathrobes' waistbands, at the knees and ankles, and let her there for a while, teasing her. Then, I untied her legs, took the vibrator out and to her surprise, I tied her thighs to the shoulder's O-rings of my SJ, leaving her open to me. I came inside her nice and slowly, until I had my orgasm.The surprising thing is that she told me later that she enjoyed it! And she wants me to do it again! She loved the improvisation with the waistbands.I can't wait to do it again. Maybe she is getting more open to my "deviation"...Regards, BL.
RE: Slow progress.
Sounds great, but remember go slow, introduce new things carefully, at this point you don't want to do anything that might scare her away from the fun you have introduced her too. cagedsgt
RE: Slow progress.
CONGRATULATION! YOU DID IT!But don't burn your luck being too pushing
PART DEMON, PART GODDESS, ALL CAT!
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RE: Slow progress.
Thank you Hypercat and Cagedsgt, of course I will still handle it slowly and carefully. It will take a while until I try to make her wear my rubber gas mask.Regards, BL
RE: Slow progress.
I would recommend that every now and then, you do not mention bondage at all. It is important to ensure that bondage is not automatically associated with sex.That way, your gf will 'learn' to see bondage etc as another way to enhance the sexual act, not as the ONLY way you like it.Also you will know she is hooked when she suggest bondage...
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RE: Slow progress.
I agree with most of the others, don't really push the bondage issue.The fact that she let you put her into the leather straitjacket at allis a huge step. You might want to get her a leather jacket that lookssimilair to your straitjacket and see if she'll wear it when you aretogether. It is acceptable from the bedroom to the boardroom, and shemight start associating that with the pleasure she experienced in thestraitjacket. If she enjoys weearing the jacket, she might wearit the next time she puts you in the sj. Who knows; I used to usewomens own leather (and rubber) coats and clothing on them whilefooling around, sort of as foreplay. Put it on her backwardswhile she dommes you and let her associate the jacket with the fantasy.When I met my wife, we were both rubber and leather bondage fetishists,but we were used to playing solo more than with a partner. The processthat led us to where we are today took years, involved many differentgames and scenes where we used her own leather and rubber wear, my owngear, and in retrospect were very wierd, if not plain silly! We almosthad to learn to enjoy our fetishes all over again, making our partnerpart of the learning process.If she is truly vanilla (hard to fathom after you've had her strappedinto a leather straitjacket for sex); suggest she dress more in linewith your fantasies on, say, one night of the week for dinner, a movie,etc. If you need to see her wearing a rubber hood or gasmask, as her totry it on while watching television or reading. Make sure she iscomfortable. Make bondage funny. Make her laugh at you, make her laughat herself. Hopefully she'll start taking charge of the situation allon her own, very soon. Good Luck!
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RE: Slow progress.
Thank you guys and girls for your support.Of course we have lots of great vanilla sex, and just ocasionally I bring bondage on the spot.Jackstrapped, she already is a leather enthusiast. But I will follow some of your suggestions.I think I'm going through the right way, and at the right pace.Regards, BLBrazil Leather38740.6329282407
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RE: Slow progress.
Brazil, if she's already into leather you're on your way! When I metJen she had quite an extensive leather wardrobe, however, Germany andBrazil have quite different climates.The first night we slept together, she was completely open to playingdressup, wearing some jackets and coats backwards, being strapped up,etc. If your wife enjoyed the sj, you should be able to enjoyyourselves for many years. No pressure, no problems... good luck!
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RE: Slow progress.
Jackstrapped,Unfortunatelly, Brazil and Germany HAVE different climates...I HATE the tropical heat here in my city. It goes over 40 degrees Celsius on the summer, and never below 17 degrees Celsius on the winter. We escape to places colder than here always we can, but travelling is expensive...We (my wife and I) love to wear our leather street clothes. I have 3 pair of pants, a trench coat and a biker jacket, and she has a trench coat, 2 pants, a short dress and 2 skirts. Too bad we can't use them as often as we like.As for the bondage part, my progress is even bigger than I thought. She asked me to frogtie her! (not that she knows what a froggie is, she just asked me to tie her legs in a "different way, maybe my ankles to my thighs". I can't wait to try it.Regards, BL
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RE: Slow progress.
Congratulations, Brazil!From her wardrobe, there is one ore thing you can do...I have often taken my wife in her leather pants, heels, put a blackleather straitjacket on her, then one of her trenchcoats, then buckleher arms around her over it. Since its all leather, no one reallynotices.... if you can, just buckle the collar up tight and walkwith your arm around her... it drives my Jen wild!Good luck!
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RE: Slow progress.
Jackstrapped,Sometimes I think you can read my mind! You have just described a very old fantasy of mine! The only change is that in my fantasy I put my wife in the car and take her to a motel, but she is dressed EXACTLY the way you said.But she is very shy, and since we live in an appartment, I don't think I'll ever be abble to really accomplish this fantasy. The odds of running into someone are very, very high. But I want to dress her like this, even if just for fun in the bedroom.Regards, BL
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RE: Slow progress.
Brazil;Screw (pardon the pun) the odds; it's fantastic! Just the element ofknowing she could be discovered will drive her wild (trust me); andthat means you reap the rewards after she does. Good Luck!
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RE: Slow progress.
I don't know, I don't think she's that into bondage already for such advanced move. Maybe later (I'm suposed do go slowly, aren't I?) when I feel she's hooked to the point of no return.Regards, BL