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gaby0001 wrote:So far I haven't been able to sleep bound and gagged. It turns me on too much to be able to sleep.![]()
Natyropes wrote:I would like to return to this subject because I find it interesting to find a way to be able to sleep like this. For me it is difficult to sleep all tied up (even worse if I'm gagged also). Only way that I was able to sleep tied up (not gagged) is when I asked my wife to tie me up when I was already asleep. I woke up for a moment but then I kept sleeping until the next day.
lotharj wrote:Natyropes wrote:I would like to return to this subject because I find it interesting to find a way to be able to sleep like this. For me it is difficult to sleep all tied up (even worse if I'm gagged also). Only way that I was able to sleep tied up (not gagged) is when I asked my wife to tie me up when I was already asleep. I woke up for a moment but then I kept sleeping until the next day.
Still sleep like this almost every night. http://boundforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=16&t=106453
Cd Tammy wrote:My first few times that I secured myself they were smaller ice releases and I got loose long before needing to sleep. The first time that I actually wound up sleeping restrained, I was crossdressed in pantyhose, a skirt, corset, blouse, and pumps. I had a vibrating egg inside me. My ankles were attached to a spreader bar. Then, before I could chicken out, I cuffed my wrists to a chain over my head. I cuffed as high as I could, almost too high. I had to stand on my toes. It was a cool night and the ice took far longer to melt than I expected. After many hours, I fell asleep. When I woke up, it took me a minute to figure out that I was still restrained.
I hurt in so many places. My toes hurt from them being bent so long. My feet hurt because the shoes were a bit too tight. My ankles were killing me. My thighs hurt from being spread so long. My waist hurt from the corset that I wore. But the biggest hurt? My arms from being above my head so long. And of course, my wrists hurt.
Another time I did the hogtie on a workbench. That was a good long one, too. I like releases that are going to take at least a couple hours.
Haruka wrote:so it seems lot of people able to sleep when get tied up. im still new so i wonder if anyone could tell me usually how long or how many times it take for until you guys 'get used' to it and get a nice sleep instead?
lotharj wrote:Haruka wrote:so it seems lot of people able to sleep when get tied up. im still new so i wonder if anyone could tell me usually how long or how many times it take for until you guys 'get used' to it and get a nice sleep instead?
It's hard to say as we worked our way into the current way I'm extremely tied at night. With just my collar, wrists, and ankles cuffed in leather by connecting chains (not attached to the bed anywhere) it wasn't a problem sleeping. This was scenario in the beginning and was a wonderful way to sleep with my owner holding my leash while they slept. I'm a bit mischievious thoughand quickly figured out a way to gently pry my leash out of my owners hand without waking them and get into trouble elsewhere in the house at night.
Shortly thereafter my collar was then locked to the headboard and this wasn't much of a change either as I could still roll around in bed. However the key to the headboard lock was usually nearby as my owner sometimes didn't want to get up to unlock me if I needed to use the bathroom (I would be punished though harshly the next day, so I try my hardest to never use it at night). Using some contortions though and some ingenuity with materials around I was able to reach the key and get loose again.
The biggest change came when my owner then decided to prevent me from getting at the key at all by restraining my ankles and wrists. My wrists chain was then attached to the bed at the head corner and likewise my ankle chain to the footboard corner. Initially out of my owner's initial frustration and spite my wrists and ankles were additionally locked together ring to ring. That first night I was having challenges getting comfortable and I got a few painful cramps in my arms from being bent all night. Didn't sleep much, however, started having wonderful bondage dreams when I did. I was in this situation for about a month and it took about a week or two to figure out how to position myself better, determine certain way to stretch a bit, and really get some solid rest like this.
After a while adding the additional lock to connect my wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs was stopped and actually now don't have to go through any special routines or positions now while I'm chained in bed.
There was a time where I managed to lasso the keys off the night stand with an extra rope nearby and get loose which resulted in me being in a straight jacket, leg sleeve, and blindfold with 15+ body straps going all the way to my big toes for a couple of nights thereafter. I wasn't very used to the straight jacket and that was a painful series of nights that I dont care to repeat.. Trying very hard to be a good pet in bed from now on.
I love having bondage dreams though and believe that by feeling restriction when moving at night is constantly cueing that in my mind. It's worth the restlessness in the beginning for sure. So many creative bdsm ideas have come from this that we end up playing out in real life.
passioncraftstore wrote:this is dangerous
Tesgri wrote:gaby0001 wrote:So far I haven't been able to sleep bound and gagged. It turns me on too much to be able to sleep.![]()
I can certainly get that, fatigue doesn't eventually win out?
Stahlketten wrote:passioncraftstore wrote:this is dangerous
I have to agree with passioncraftstore.
This is VERY dangerous. A leather collar at night isn't the best idea in my opinion. Having it attached to something with limbs restrained is allowing the possibility of getting something tangled and choking to death. You may think you have a lot of slack, but getting a leash or belt tangled may happen without you being aware.
lotharj wrote:I'll definitely be thinking about this tonight though.
Stahlketten wrote:Last night, I was just playing with a pair of handcuffs and fell asleep while still wearing them.
Woke up this morning without remembering that I had them on. It was a nice surprise.
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