My first lockup

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dufty2
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My first lockup

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Hello everyone and thanks for accepting me.

10th March

I have had an interest in tease & denial & bondage for sometime but have always found it hard to bring up with my long term girlfriend. We are in our mid thirties and having sex a couple of times a month has usually been enough for her.

That said in recent weeks we have both been making more of an effort and have started to introduce some mild role play. It was after one such session that I took the plunge and brought up the subject of chastity play. At first she was a little reluctant and surprised however I did bring up the benefits for her:-

The "power" she would have in controlling my orgasms and the extra attention she would get as a result.
Improvements in my general attitude - although I am very pro active around the house the threat of an extended sentence would make me even more eager to please.

The final deal clincher came when she asked how often I masturbated when she was at work (she does shifts & I work office hours as a manager). When I told her it was at least once if not twice a night she was visibly shocked and said that now I would defiantly need to be locked up!

As an added bonus I asked if she would like to spank me as punishment for such prolific unauthorized wanking and ended up going to bed with a really sore arse. She used her hand and a wooden spoon and did not hold back!

She is currently doing her own research into male chastity and in the next few days will select my cage and decide the length of the initial lock up.

A little more about me. I have found sweetgirls thread "boyfriends first time in chastity" inspiring and love the story "the tender bitch". I also like my porn and love Czech models such as Grace C, Iwia and Tess L.
I will update when my cage is selected and lockup begins.

Time for an update

14th March

I am now safely locked up in a CB 6000 which arrived just after my first post. Wrongly I thought I would get a last chance to cum as it had been 3 days since we last had sex. Instead she locked me up and told me that there was no need for a final release before lockup. Currently my wearing the device is classed as an "adjustment period" and will not count towards my first sentence which is yet to officially start!

Over the last week I have been extremely attentative to her needs and she has received foot and forehead massages every day before being licked to orgasm. The house has never been cleaner!

I thought all was going well until she came home from work on Friday extremely pissed off about how her day went. After listening to her problems she was still unhappy so I offered to let her take her frustrations out by giving me a spanking.
She absolutely jumped at the chance and using her hand first and then my belt did not hold back at all. Unfortunately this was not enough and I ended up getting ball busted as well before she told me I would not be let out of the cage for the weekend. I have now been locked for 4 days and not cum for 7. With the weekend it will have been 9 days locked before my first lockup official begins.

later on she was a lot sweeter and said she was sorry for ball busting me and extending the trial lockup but that it had made her feel better and that life isn’t fair!
:)
More to follow........................

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Closed_doors
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Re: My first lockup

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It sounds like you have made a great start to chasing your fetish. From someone who had to play solo for so long, I absolutely love having a willing and keen partner who really makes these times something to cherish.

I wish you all the best with your ongoing adventures in chastity.

Mike the unchaste!
It has been said, 'Life is too Short!' but I cannot think of anything you can do longer. Anon
"Its not the man in your life but the life in your man." Mae West

Nil Illigitmus carborundum.

Mike and Carmen

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happily_locked
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Re: My first lockup

Unread post by happily_locked »

You are going very fast in terms of getting your chastity properly fitted, getting used to wearing it, etc.
Your gf seems to be moving extremely quickly in terms of locking you, spanking you and denying you.
Too much too fast?

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