How can I overcome the difficult time of chastity

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Louis2008
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How can I overcome the difficult time of chastity

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I always have the fantasy of being locked up in chastity and I like the feeling of being denied.

However, at the same time, fantasy is fantasy, reality is a lot more difficult. I once tried to wear a

cock cage for 48 hours, and I put away the key, I remember not more than 24 hours I was almost like

..collapse. I felt so badly want OUT. I was unable to sleep , I slept and woke up and it was like a hell.

I was not able to concentrate on my work and life in that two days.

It was the first time and the only time I've ever tried a chastity device. However, the thought of

and the fantasy of wearing a chastity belt never stop and always make me so aroused....


Does anyone understand me?

Any one experienced in this would give me some advice on - To do it or Not ? if To do it, How?

In fact, I am planning to buy a more advanced chastity device - A chastity belt from Neostel.

which is also more expensive.....

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this_girl
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Re: How can I overcome the difficult time of chastity

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Louis2008 wrote:I always have the fantasy of being locked up in chastity and I like the feeling of being denied.

However, at the same time, fantasy is fantasy, reality is a lot more difficult. I once tried to wear a

cock cage for 48 hours, and I put away the key, I remember not more than 24 hours I was almost like

..collapse. I felt so badly want OUT. I was unable to sleep , I slept and woke up and it was like a hell.

I was not able to concentrate on my work and life in that two days.
Men are "graced" with a "safety valve". A full bladder puts pressure on the prostate and this stimulates an erection, which prevents urination. In a chastity cage or other chastity device, an erection is not possible and this may be what is making it difficult. Try not to drink anything for two or three hours before bed and, if you wake during the night, go to the bathroom and urinate; this should make it a little easier.

Erotic thoughts can also stimulate an erection, which will be painful. Try to control these thoughts (keep away for internet porn etc.) for the first few days. After a while, you may begin to "enjoy" the feelings of confinement and frustration.
Any one experienced in this would give me some advice on - To do it or Not ? if To do it, How?

In fact, I am planning to buy a more advanced chastity device - A chastity belt from Neostel.

which is also more expensive.....
Neosteel devices are more expensive but they provide a more inclusive experience.

As for how, there are websites like EmlaLock.com and CarliLock.com that can help you control your locked session or, if you want to go it alone, there are programs like PictureLoKit (see; http://forum.boundanna.net/board/viewto ... =28&t=4855). All these require that you have some sort of combination lock safe to store you keys.

Louis2008
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Re: How can I overcome the difficult time of chastity

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this_girl wrote:
Louis2008 wrote:I always have the fantasy of being locked up in chastity and I like the feeling of being denied.

However, at the same time, fantasy is fantasy, reality is a lot more difficult. I once tried to wear a

cock cage for 48 hours, and I put away the key, I remember not more than 24 hours I was almost like

..collapse. I felt so badly want OUT. I was unable to sleep , I slept and woke up and it was like a hell.

I was not able to concentrate on my work and life in that two days.
Men are "graced" with a "safety valve". A full bladder puts pressure on the prostate and this stimulates an erection, which prevents urination. In a chastity cage or other chastity device, an erection is not possible and this may be what is making it difficult. Try not to drink anything for two or three hours before bed and, if you wake during the night, go to the bathroom and urinate; this should make it a little easier.

Erotic thoughts can also stimulate an erection, which will be painful. Try to control these thoughts (keep away for internet porn etc.) for the first few days. After a while, you may begin to "enjoy" the feelings of confinement and frustration.
Any one experienced in this would give me some advice on - To do it or Not ? if To do it, How?

In fact, I am planning to buy a more advanced chastity device - A chastity belt from Neostel.

which is also more expensive.....
Neosteel devices are more expensive but they provide a more inclusive experience.

As for how, there are websites like EmlaLock.com and CarliLock.com that can help you control your locked session or, if you want to go it alone, there are programs like PictureLoKit (see; http://forum.boundanna.net/board/viewto ... =28&t=4855). All these require that you have some sort of combination lock safe to store you keys.
My biggest concern is if I can get over the difficult time of wearing a chastity belt and enjoy the chastity belt for long-term.

My fantasy is to wear it as long as possible, not necessarily permanently but at least up to weeks or months

I don't take it as a short-play game.

Is it possible?

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Hypercat
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Re: How can I overcome the difficult time of chastity

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Maybe you should try six hours the first week, twelve hours the second week, twentyfour hours the third week and so so on...
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