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Am I Alone?

Unread postPosted: Mon May 25, 2020 1:50 pm
by Tesgri
It seems like chastity is a field dominated (haha) by men, zero issue with that of course but I am just curious. Am I the only woman here who enjoys it? I've had a belt for a long time, about five years or so, eventually got the bra and thigh cuffs to complete the set. Just a week ago I got my second, more secure, belt and am acclimatizing myself to it. The wife often holds the keys but we've not gone much over 24 hours with the new belt yet.

Any other woman out there into chastity (on themselves)?

Re: Am I Alone?

Unread postPosted: Tue May 26, 2020 12:20 am
by tiemeupalso
you u are one lucky person

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Unread postPosted: Tue May 26, 2020 3:21 am
by Tesgri
tiemeupalso wrote:you u are one lucky person

How do you figure? It's not really a topic I've been able to share or discuss with anybody.

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Unread postPosted: Tue May 26, 2020 1:49 pm
by d3vious.g3nius
Tesgri wrote:How do you figure? It's not really a topic I've been able to share or discuss with anybody.

How is it that you don't have anyone to share or discuss with? In the "Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage" thread you stated:
Tesgri wrote:Pretty much all of my friends know too, most of them are just as kinky as I am, and of course my wife knows and has been in the lifestyle for longer than we've been together so that's great fun.

I'm a bit confused, sorry.

Unless you mean specifically another woman who is into chastity exactly as yourself?
- d.g

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Unread postPosted: Tue May 26, 2020 2:36 pm
by Tesgri
The latter mostly. My wife enjoys holding the keys but isn't into it herself.

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Unread postPosted: Tue May 26, 2020 7:17 pm
by rmcingle
I have chatted with several women who were locked in chastity, so you certainly are not alone, although I will admit that you are probably a minority compared to the number of men that are into it.

One of the women that I used to chat with occasionally was a lesbian pair, and they were both locked in chastity, each holding the other's key.

I agree with what another poster said about you being lucky, because you have a partner that is holding the key. There are a lot of people who would like to be even more into chastity control but lack a keyholder. About a decade ago my wife was willing to be my keyholder, and I was locked essentially 24/7 for two years before she decided that she didn't want to participate any more.

Most of us who are into chastity control can only discuss it in online forums such as this. So, let me ask you: does being locked in the chastity belt have a positive effect on you? (such as how you behave, attentiveness to your partner, etc.)

For me, one of my faults was an excessive amount of masturbation, generally while viewing online porn. I felt that being locked in the chastity device made a big difference towards my relationship. I became a lot more attentive as masturbation had been outlawed and the only way I was getting relief was to get my wife into the mood so that she would want to have intercourse.


Re: Am I Alone?

Unread postPosted: Wed May 27, 2020 2:41 am
by Tesgri
I suppose my title was a bit of an exaggeration, I know I'm not alone in the interest for woman, but it would still be nice to talk to others interested as I am for the more, female specific, aspects of being belted.

I can certainly agree I'm lucky to have found a wife who holds my keys when she feels like it. We've never gone for very long before she gives them back, out of either disinterest or concern for my well being (she worries the belt hurts me, it's sweet, even if the belt is just fine). I hope to at least, with the belt I just acquired a bit over a week ago (had one for years but this new one is more secure) be in it longer.

I do think wearing a belt has a positive affect on me, I was never really one for excessive, or even really much at all, masturbation but there was always the sense of "well I can just do it later if I feel like it". With a belt it's more like, well now I feel like it and I can't so I have to wait for the wife to be ready and then it becomes about us rather than just me. So in a sense the same thing as you.

You know, come to think of it, I should apologize for being so dismissive, for some reason I just didn't think of the fact that the psychological and physical would be similar between us. I'm sorry. *hugs*

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Unread postPosted: Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:15 pm
by passioncraftstore
I find it wildly sexy

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Unread postPosted: Sat Oct 24, 2020 8:42 pm
by dsteve
speaking of gender differences, it seems that there are way more women into submission than dominance, and the reverse for men. Makes it hard for submissive men to find what they are looking for.
I believe in Darwinism so I wonder what survival advantage is given by a male being submissive. Where is the logic?