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RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 07 Feb 2012, 06:13
by Louis2008
as for me, i bought my first latex full catsuit in 2008 and since then i enjoy wearing it.

My perfect scene is to wear my full catsuit and be bound up by someone. However, over the years, i don't have any partners or girl friends to do such kinky things with me. I could only dress up myself with the latex and try to sleep over the night (without being bound up), however, i never succeed because my mind is full of struggling after a few hours - continue or give up. I always choose to give up then i masturbate and undress the suit. Not even when the time I feel very exhausted and quickly dress up the latex, i will finally awake in the middle of the night. I could NEVER sleep my latex throughout the night.

I have been trying to understand my mind over the years. Recently, after a deep and thoughtful thinking, I have some ideas about why this happens, but I am not sure. That is, when I am not in bondage, I could Subconsciously think that I still have the 'choice' to undress at some time. After feeling excited for some time with the latex then i will naturally come to the 'decision time' and feel confused in mind. My goal is to 'continue' but my body wants to stop. However, if I am in bondage, then I will not have such a trouble and 'decision time' because i subconsciously know that i have no choice, i will not be able to masturbate or undress, then i will think nothing but resort to sleeping.

Most people will probably think that when there is no more fun, fun will not come. How about when we can overcome the pain, then pain will not come? What I mean is, could one feel excited or even more with the latex if he could overcome the hard time of "eager to masturbate and undress". If you have the experience and understand my poor English, please comment. Thanks













RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 07 Feb 2012, 12:39
by stephanie_cd
Louis, this sounds a lot like the issues I used to have with my kinky leather crossdressing! "This is fun, and now I'm getting turned on...okay now I'm REALLY turned on...and now I'm...I'm...uh...yeah...that...."  "...okay, that was fun, and now I want out!"Sometimes I'd spend more time picking out what clothes I wanted to wear and getting dressed than I'd actually spend wearing those outfits. Eventually, I think that led to my "locked into leather" clothing bondage -- when I'm locked in and taking the clothes off isn't an option, I still find it kinky and fun and erotic, but it's also more relaxing too, knowing that I won't be able to undress any time soon! And then that sense of relaxation helps delay the inevitable actions that lead to the "I want out!" part.  Maybe finding a way to lock your catsuit to a collar or chain -- then making the keys inaccessible for a few hours -- will be the solution for you too? 

RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 07 Feb 2012, 13:24
by Louis2008
[quote="stephanie_cd"] Louis, this sounds a lot like the issues I used to have with my kinky leather crossdressing! "This is fun, and now I'm getting turned on...okay now I'm REALLY turned on...and now I'm...I'm...uh...yeah...that...."  "...okay, that was fun, and now I want out!"Sometimes I'd spend more time picking out what clothes I wanted to wear and getting dressed than I'd actually spend wearing those outfits. Eventually, I think that led to my "locked into leather" clothing bondage -- when I'm locked in and taking the clothes off isn't an option, I still find it kinky and fun and erotic, but it's also more relaxing too, knowing that I won't be able to undress any time soon! And then that sense of relaxation helps delay the inevitable actions that lead to the "I want out!" part.  Maybe finding a way to lock your catsuit to a collar or chain -- then making the keys inaccessible for a few hours -- will be the solution for you too? 

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i have collars, chains and padlocks but i can't think of ways to make the keys inaccessible for a few hours. I could only think of putting those keys in water then freezing it but the water will melt too soon.

RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 07 Feb 2012, 13:55
by stephanie_cd
Go check out the chastity and self-bondage forums for suggestions on keeping the keys away from yourself? Some of the ideas include: You can, as mentioned, put them in a container of water and freeze it. If it melts too soon, get a bigger container, like a plastic ice cream tub!You can hide keys outdoors, where you'll have to wait until dark to retrieve them. People talk about mailing the keys to themself, but that requires a good postal system and a good knowledge of how long it'll take for them to arrive in the mail. "If I mail them on Thursday, they'll show up on Saturday. Which means I could get dressed on Thursday night, or Friday, or Saturday morning...." The chastity forum talks about a couple of software programs -- Timelock and Datum -- which encrypt a picture for a certain amount of time. All you need is one of those free programs, a camera or a scanner, one or more resettable combination locks, and a container to lock your padlock keys into -- I use a small metal box with a chain around it.Blindfold yourself, set a random combination on the padlock, take a picture of the lock or scan a picture of the dials, and without looking at the picture, encrypt it for the length of time you want to stay locked -- or in this case, dressed. Then lock up the padlock keys! ...and you can wind up stuck like I am at this very moment!! 

RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 07 Feb 2012, 14:21
by Louis2008
[quote="stephanie_cd"] Go check out the chastity and self-bondage forums for suggestions on keeping the keys away from yourself? Some of the ideas include: You can, as mentioned, put them in a container of water and freeze it. If it melts too soon, get a bigger container, like a plastic ice cream tub!You can hide keys outdoors, where you'll have to wait until dark to retrieve them. People talk about mailing the keys to themself, but that requires a good postal system and a good knowledge of how long it'll take for them to arrive in the mail. "If I mail them on Thursday, they'll show up on Saturday. Which means I could get dressed on Thursday night, or Friday, or Saturday morning...." The chastity forum talks about a couple of software programs -- Timelock and Datum -- which encrypt a picture for a certain amount of time. All you need is one of those free programs, a camera or a scanner, one or more resettable combination locks, and a container to lock your padlock keys into -- I use a small metal box with a chain around it.Blindfold yourself, set a random combination on the padlock, take a picture of the lock or scan a picture of the dials, and without looking at the picture, encrypt it for the length of time you want to stay locked -- or in this case, dressed. Then lock up the padlock keys! ...and you can wind up stuck like I am at this very moment!! 

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The last method about using computer is extremely creative. How can people think out such a method. Bondage really turns lots of people into creative

RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 07 Feb 2012, 14:23
by Louis2008
btw, why you wound up that box? what's that box?

RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 07 Feb 2012, 14:30
by stephanie_cd
[quote="Louis2008"]btw, why you wound up that box? what's that box?[/quote]Did you READ my post, or just look at the non-latex-y pictures?  [quote=stephanie_cd]The chastity forum talks about a couple of software programs -- Timelock and Datum -- which encrypt a picture for a certain amount of time. All you need is one of those free programs, a camera or a scanner, one or more resettable combination locks, and a container to lock your padlock keys into -- I use a small metal box with a chain around it.[/quote]That box holds the keys to the padlocks on my clothes!

RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 10 Feb 2012, 08:14
by LatexHood
I like that!A less technical way to do it is to use ice.Put a key in an ice cube tray.Let it freeze.Once frozen, you get into your bondage, lock the padlock and let the ice melt.Just make sure that the icecube has been removed from the freezer and that you can actually get TO it. :)Time to defrost depends on the temperature.But in a house. You're looking at about 1.5-3hrs.You can also use this for chains and similar things.Freeze two rings into an icecube. Half of each ring sticking out of the ice.One side is padlocked to a chain perhaps attached to the bed.The other padlocked to a chain locked to you.Making the keys inaccessible ( out of reach ) means you're stuck there until the ice melts.:)J.

RE: do we have the same feeling towards latex?

Posted: 11 Feb 2012, 03:20
by Jerry
Humm, I say that stephanie CD is looking for a computing hardware failure and does not want to be released. Kind of like most of us.