Advice Needed: Wife as Pet for 24hrs.
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- Chair Bound
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RE: Advice Needed: Wife as Pet for 24hrs.
Hello,Thisis Baubleheads, I hope you have enjoyed my stories as much as I, andI'm sorry that I have not written lately. But on to my question:For Christmas my wife gave me a "coupon" for her to be my "personal pet for a 24 hours". Even though I write about all this stuff in real life we have neverreally gone past basic spread eagle bondage (and she's done selfbondage for me twice). What I'm asking is for advice on how to start out as a new dominant with a new submissive. We HAVE a safe-word, we have trust and love. Neither of us are into pain or damage inflicting activities, the only thing dangerous about what we like is the bondage itself (which will be fairly mild safety wise). So I'm not looking for suggestions on safety. What I'm looking for is suggestions on how to act, what it's like to be a Dom for the first time, and what she can expect as a sub for the first time. I'm also looking for some suggestions on how to roll play my part well. I'm not much of a roll player thus far. I'm also looking for some suggestions on activities or sensory play that might be interesting. I'm thinking of maybe getting a Hitachi wand (as she only likes external vibrations). We have tried Liquid V. Another thing I was wondering about is different bondage we could try. I have ALWAYS been a fan of medium to strict restrictive bondage where the sub is bound in such a way that they are unable to escape and are completely vulnerable to vaginal penetration (Just check my stories if you need proof). Well I can't fuck her all day, so I was wondering what kind of positions or activities I could use on her for other parts of the day to keep both of us entertained. I've never been fond of some of the more popular positions but I'm being more open minded now that I need ideas that don't involve intercourse. I also know that it would be unreasonable to expect her to stay in bondage and/or sexually stimulating situations for the entire 24 hours (especially being our first time lasting more than 3 hours), so comments from women on this would be great. I don't even know what I'm asking here, I just need ideas and such on what it's like to be a woman sub, or being bound and stimulated for extended periods of time. Also ideas for what to do doing our down time would be GREAT. Rambling Notes for your comments: My wife, for 8 years, told me that she did not have a fetish. I explained that everyone has at least one, and we just needed to find hers. Last year she mentioned that she thinks maybe being bound while wearing high heels could be one of hers. So (as mentioned in my other question post) I'm going to get her a pair of locking high heels to wear for at least part of her 24 hrs as a my pet. I figure maybe I'll get a nice choker for her to wear instead of the heels if she needs a rest from it. Alternatively I was thinking of making her wear our set of purple fur lined wrist and ankle cuffs when not wearing the heels. This way she will have on something the entire time that will be a symbol of her submission. I once tied my wife up spread eagle, pressed a Rabbit Style dildo into her and turned it on low (held in with a pillow propped up against it). Then I just up and left the room, surprising the hell out of her! For me it was a total turn on to leave her there stuck and stimulated while I went off to my computer to "ignore her". Turns out it worked for her also cause about 10 minutes later she was screaming, panting, and shaking. I think part of the turn of for me was that I was, at least in my mind, objectifying her. I think in my my mind she, being tied and helpless, without me there, had become a "sex toy" herself. This idea really gets me going. I'm not sure that she knows that about me, or that I would be able to properly explain to her the subtitles of what I mean without confusing or disturbing her, but I'm sure that some of you would understand. That being said, comments or ideas on how to objectify her while I take a break during our 24 hr game would be GREAT!Thanks in Advance!Baubleheadz
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- Tightly Hogtied
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RE: Advice Needed: Wife as Pet for 24hrs.
as far as positions I like the idea of using saran wrap and duct tape to force her to walk on all fours by taping the forearm against the bicep and the calf against the back of her thigh, I have done this with my wife for an hour or so and it provides good access, some mobility where she can "walk" around but cannot get out of the bondage as her hands are taped and arm movement is very restricted, and it looks great. If you add the choker that will add to the effect as well, maybe put her hair in pig tails?
Hope you have fun, let us know how it goes
Also you might get more replies if you post this in the bondage section
Hope you have fun, let us know how it goes
Also you might get more replies if you post this in the bondage section
- stephanie_cd
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RE: Advice Needed: Wife as Pet for 24hrs.
[quote="bound4life"]Also you might get more replies if you post this in the bondage section[/quote]I have to agree -- I'd been wondering why the other thread about locking high heels was down here in "Story Discussion" as well, since there isn't an actual story to discuss yet! On the other hand, if you're planning to write a story based on your and your wife's experience afterwards, I'd love to read it and I'm sure I'm not alone!stephanie_cd
RE: Advice Needed: Wife as Pet for 24hrs.
here's something from personal experience, my birthday I bought a butterfly for myself.
My hubby did a full body rope harness complete with crotch rope to hold the butterfly firmly in place. The remote control was clipped between my shoulder blades.
We went out for a movie and shopping and he had fun keeping things interesting for me. The butterfly isn't strong enough to make me climax but it does keep me very conscious of it.
He basically kept me on edge for most of the day. Playing me like an instrument. When I finally achieved my goal... it was sweet and sweeter cos it was soooo long overdue.
just something for you to consider.
My hubby did a full body rope harness complete with crotch rope to hold the butterfly firmly in place. The remote control was clipped between my shoulder blades.
We went out for a movie and shopping and he had fun keeping things interesting for me. The butterfly isn't strong enough to make me climax but it does keep me very conscious of it.
He basically kept me on edge for most of the day. Playing me like an instrument. When I finally achieved my goal... it was sweet and sweeter cos it was soooo long overdue.
just something for you to consider.