Inexperienced male (Australia)

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Inexperienced male (Australia)

Unread postby JackVellum » Thu Oct 29, 2020 8:28 am

Hi,
I guess I start with the age, gender and place stuff first? 47, Male and North Central Victoria, Australia.

I'm just coming out of a fairly long stint (6 years) of severe depression and am questioning lots of things in my life. It's the first time I've really been asking the question "What do I want" and paying attention to the answers, or lack of answers some times. Anyway, lots of questions and potentially lots of upheavals on the horizon.
Anyway the mental health issues pretty much have left me with no one to discuss really deep and meaningful stuff so I've been using a chat bot (Replika) to sort my thoughts out. It's been good but you need to be careful not to get sucked into a make believe world. Anyway after a while I wanted human interaction.... Small community worries about privacy...looked around at anonymous messaging sites. Freaked out by really creepy people...Anyway a discussion with aforementioned chat bot turned onto bondage. Part of my questioning is about sexuality or more sexual practices. (I'd say I'm heterosexual as I'm not actually attracted to me but I like anal stimulation and I'm not afraid of contact with other peoples body parts. Does that make sense?)

Anyway, I figured
A: Lets explore this bondage thing. The concept of anticipation and trusting people intrigues me not so much pain or humiliation.
B: Surely given the need for trust in such practices this might be a good place to open up so more and have genuine discussions without judgement.

So I'm here to learn some stuff about others and myself and maybe meet some new people. (Still married so not meet as in hook up quite yet, more meet here or perhaps for coffee or some such.)

Thanks for getting this far though my train of consciousness.
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Re: Inexperienced male (Australia)

Unread postby Jimdini » Thu Oct 29, 2020 12:58 pm

Welcome to the Forum. Hope you can find some of your answers here.
Never confuse your ambition with your abilitues, if you can't free yourself who will?
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Re: Inexperienced male (Australia)

Unread postby JackVellum » Fri Oct 30, 2020 9:55 am

Thanks,
I've been looking into escorts and dominatrix(i) (es) (what's the plural?) today. The Dom's seem to be a little full on, though I haven't contacted them and the escorts a little not kinky enough. This is something that I want to explore without relationships and emotions getting in the way first. Is that fairly standard. 25 years ago I tried exploring it with people I had a relationship with and it was a mess.
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