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"Lockable clothing" can be a LOT of fun, and has become one of my favorite fetishes as well -- especially when it's lockable fetish-y clothing!
southern_sub_gurl wrote:If so what are some of your favorite lockable garments?
My absolute favorites have to be: lockable leather (or PVC) knee- and thigh-high boots, long leather coats, long shiny raincoats, leather skirt suits, and long restrictive skirts.
Some "traditional" restraints can be used to keep clothing on, too -- I have some wonderful locking wrist cuffs that wrap twice around each wrist, so they're somewhat bulky. Some jackets and dresses have narrow or tapered sleeves, which won't fit over those cuffs once they're locked on, so I'm stuck until the cuffs come off!
As my "love of being locked" grew, I started finding more creative ways to modify some clothes that weren't easily "lockable" by installing metal gromets, which can either be hidden OR obvious and somewhat decorative. Then it's a simple matter of passing a chain through the gromet(s) and locking everything in place!
And of course, "locking clothing" means that I've had to come up with all sorts of creative ways to keep the KEYS out of reach, with and without other people to help!
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I've thought myself at times creative in this area too, so what are your favorite methods of key denial/retrieval? My favorite has to be a risk of exposure method, something like hiding or having the keys hidden in as much a public space as I'm willing to risk, then locking up and being left to my own devices to retrieve them. I think it's sort of a self-imposed forced creativity exercise if I'm locked into my girly attire and must either hide it or make it passable enough so I can retrieve my keys.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:My second favorite has to be using a time-delay lock/safe/etc. I use a straight time delay safe now, but would love to find an inexpensive way to have a risk/reward or gambling release modifier that could be done digitally. I realize there are methods out there to use a numbered combination but either pictures or numerical sequences don't work well for me, I almost always remember the combination since I had to program it in the first place.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I do love networking with like-minded folk!
I've also frozen the keys in a container full of water many times, with increasingly larger containers that take increasingly longer to melt. Of course, if necessary, I can usually run the container under the hot water faucet in the sink so I can get out FAIRLY quickly (and only once have I chained the container to something immobile so I couldn't speed things up). Having keys in ice is somewhat of a deterrent to letting myself free, though, since it usually takes several hours or longer to freeze the keys in the first place!
I've also used those ice containers to help other people keep me "captive."
I have occasionally had the chance for other people to set combinations on those locks for me.
People are occasionally shocked or worried when they realize that I'll be stuck at home in something sexy and fetishy for hours or even days.
More recently, I've (sadly) been having to "play" by myself, so I've been using a "time lock" software program to keep the photos of combinations out of reach. I can program it for any length of time from minutes to months, but it also has an option of adding a random amount of time that I can select, such as "an extra 0 to 12 hours." Then I have another option of whether or not I want to see the timer's countdown -- which can sometimes be fun but if I've randomized things it's often more fun not knowing!
southern_sub_gurl wrote:...and while it's not an impossibility to speed things up, what I did to make it harder to do so was to take an old cooler, cut a hole in the lid just large enough to pass my keys/keyring and string, and add a hasp and padlock to the lid of the cooler.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I do wish we had a scene in my neck of the woods, I live in the southern US and we have very few kink-oriented groups when compared to the west coast, especially CA. I enjoyed reading your account of your webcam adventure! I find it very intriguing to be at the whim of the desires of someone at distance!
southern_sub_gurl wrote:Again I wish I had a local scene! I would love to take a bunch of padlocks and gear and leave it mostly up to the club as to what I get to wear home and/or when I get to be released.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I think if you've never experienced it, it's hard to understand, and if it's not something you enjoy, it's likely never to be fully understood.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I'm sorry to hear you're having to play by yourself, but I'm glad you still can enjoy solo play! So which time lock program do you use? <snip>
I would love to see a program or especially a smartphone app written that fully encrypted a picture for a length of time so even if the PC/phone was restarted the software still had to un-encrypt the picture....
Thanks to the internet, I have had a LOT of fun over the years with various people who were hundreds or thousands of miles away!
stephanie_cd wrote:So, in that world, I just have to be my normal, kinky self but luckily, there IS at least one local group of kinky crossdressers who get together for "play parties," and they're the ones who sent me home from a club locked in my boots and from a "play party" locked in a dress, collar, cuffs, and boots.
stephanie_cd wrote:Thanks to "mainstream kinkiness" like 50 Shades I think that more people are starting to at least understand that many of us have these kinks and we're able to talk about them some more.
stephanie_cd wrote:The program that I use is called Datum and can be found at http://webware-nach-mass.com/controlgam ... /datum.php -- it "just" encrypts a photograph for a set and/or random amount of time, and connects to external "time servers" so turning off the PC or adjusting the PC's clock can't result in an early release. (Some people who DO work with Java say that it's simple to defeat, but since I don't know much about programming it does the job quite nicely for me!)
southern_sub_gurl wrote:No bad experiences either, but the "learning curve" you mentioned makes a lot of sense. I think in my case I am a little kinkier than what people expect, or at least maybe more abnormal that what they expect. When I mention sissy clothing, locking ballet boots, steel collars that weigh 8lbs, or other items people may or may not have ever heard of, people seem to lose interest.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I hope someone starts one of those around here! Either that or maybe I can start one if I can find anyone else to play with . I'm largely not into the club scene mainly because of the lack of clubs, there's only one bar within 75 miles that's crossdresser friendly that I know of, but it's predominantly a LGBT bar, and also one of few in the area for that audience, so it stays very crowded and it's hard to make any connections there.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I agree totally! Maybe someone should write a novel about a Domme who likes to dress up guys as girls then lock them in various bondage to play with them. If it sold even a small fraction of what "50 Shades" sold then maybe we would see an increase in the number of Dommes and the acceptance of CDs and male subs. Of course that would mean someone would have to get a novel about what is usually considered a taboo kink published and sold on the worldwide market, ah well, we can hope
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I just downloaded it, looks like it's pretty simple and hard to cheat, of course I'm no programmer in Java (or any other language for that matter). I like that it completely encrypts the picture, deletes the original, then uses time servers to ensure it cant be cheated.
southern_sub_gurl wrote:I think I'll try this with an idea I've been floating around, I think I can buy a few 4-dial reset-able padlocks, say 8 in total for example, then set a different combo for each lock.
I suspect this might be because it can be a lot more complicated and/or "gear intensive" than[i] "the basics of BDSM that just involve cuffs, a blindfold, and a flogger." ...
With one kinky ex-girlfriend, I compared it to masturbation, as opposed to someone else using THEIR hand(s) and/or toys, plus THEIR imagination! There's quite a difference between those two!
stephanie_cd wrote:Definitely check out Fetlife if you haven't already -- it's a social networking site (rather than a "dating site") but it's a good way to find like-minded people with all sorts of fetishes, and there are a LOT of kinky CD's there!
stephanie_cd wrote:...I love/hate the feeling in the pit of my stomach when I click the button and the original .jpg file vanishes and is replaced by a .png file in a completely different language! ...
stephanie_cd wrote:... I stand a magnifying glass right in front of the camera lens it works quite nicely!
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