Hello everyone
- Binky Bunny
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Hello everyone
Hi all,
I am from the UK – North West. Female, in my early 40s and married.
I have always had an interest in bondage, and when I stumbled on this forum I was pleased to find that I was in no way alone in tying myself up as a teenager all those years ago. It definitely seems to be something that some people are drawn to, no matter their background. Over the years my interest has developed into other BDSM areas.
I would say that I am kinkier than my husband, in fact I think he’d be happy with a vanilla relationship. However, I know I am lucky as he has been very willing to explore my kinks and has admitted that he enjoys tying me into compromising positions and then playing with me. But it is nice to know there are others out there with similar needs. I love reading, particularly erotic literature and romances. I am also a budding author. One of these days I may get around to finishing something and post it on the forum.
Anyway, looking forward to meeting people with similar interests.
Binky
I am from the UK – North West. Female, in my early 40s and married.
I have always had an interest in bondage, and when I stumbled on this forum I was pleased to find that I was in no way alone in tying myself up as a teenager all those years ago. It definitely seems to be something that some people are drawn to, no matter their background. Over the years my interest has developed into other BDSM areas.
I would say that I am kinkier than my husband, in fact I think he’d be happy with a vanilla relationship. However, I know I am lucky as he has been very willing to explore my kinks and has admitted that he enjoys tying me into compromising positions and then playing with me. But it is nice to know there are others out there with similar needs. I love reading, particularly erotic literature and romances. I am also a budding author. One of these days I may get around to finishing something and post it on the forum.
Anyway, looking forward to meeting people with similar interests.
Binky
Re: Hello everyone
Hy Binky! I got you an avatar:
I'm happy your husband is at least willing to explore your kinks.
Who of you is the dom?
I'm happy your husband is at least willing to explore your kinks.
Who of you is the dom?
PART DEMON, PART GODDESS, ALL CAT!
- Binky Bunny
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Re: Hello everyone
Aww, thank you for the welcome and the avatar.
My husband is the Dom, and although not a natural, he is learning
My husband is the Dom, and although not a natural, he is learning
Re: Hello everyone
I have a similar problem. At the moment, I have four or five stories that need finishing. Previously, I have reread my nearly-finished stories and decided that they were derivative rubbish and deleted them. I have not deleted anything recently but the constant rework does not help me finish anything.Binky Bunny wrote:Hi all,
I am also a budding author. One of these days I may get around to finishing something and post it on the forum.
Binky
Re: Hello everyone
Maybe it's too early but you might try to switch the roles so he can get more empathy.Binky Bunny wrote:Aww, thank you for the welcome and the avatar.
My husband is the Dom, and although not a natural, he is learning
PART DEMON, PART GODDESS, ALL CAT!
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Role switching can be fun and helpful to develop the relationship. However, I would imagine that you would be more gentle with him than you would like him to be with you.Hypercat wrote: Maybe it's too early but you might try to switch the roles so he can get more empathy.
- Binky Bunny
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Re: Hello everyone
We've discussed switching and it isn't something either of us is interested in.
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welcome to the forum,
i'm new myself and looking forward to getting to know more people like yourself. thank you for sharing your experiences, I'd love to read some of your work sometime. If you ever need some illustrations to go along with that writing please feel free to let me know.
i'm new myself and looking forward to getting to know more people like yourself. thank you for sharing your experiences, I'd love to read some of your work sometime. If you ever need some illustrations to go along with that writing please feel free to let me know.
lets try on a gag so I can draw you