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Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2018 5:00 pm
by Binky Bunny
Hi all,

I am from the UK – North West. Female, in my early 40s and married.
I have always had an interest in bondage, and when I stumbled on this forum I was pleased to find that I was in no way alone in tying myself up as a teenager all those years ago. It definitely seems to be something that some people are drawn to, no matter their background. Over the years my interest has developed into other BDSM areas.
I would say that I am kinkier than my husband, in fact I think he’d be happy with a vanilla relationship. However, I know I am lucky as he has been very willing to explore my kinks and has admitted that he enjoys tying me into compromising positions and then playing with me. But it is nice to know there are others out there with similar needs. I love reading, particularly erotic literature and romances. I am also a budding author. One of these days I may get around to finishing something and post it on the forum.

Anyway, looking forward to meeting people with similar interests.
Binky

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2018 10:08 pm
by Petrajane
Welcome Binky! Lucky lady and a lucky hubby too! :D

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Fri Jan 12, 2018 12:45 am
by Hypercat
Hy Binky! I got you an avatar:
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I'm happy your husband is at least willing to explore your kinks.
Who of you is the dom?

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Fri Jan 12, 2018 3:43 pm
by Binky Bunny
Aww, thank you for the welcome and the avatar.

My husband is the Dom, and although not a natural, he is learning ;)

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Fri Jan 12, 2018 4:35 pm
by this_girl
Binky Bunny wrote:Hi all,

I am also a budding author. One of these days I may get around to finishing something and post it on the forum.

Binky


I have a similar problem. At the moment, I have four or five stories that need finishing. Previously, I have reread my nearly-finished stories and decided that they were derivative rubbish and deleted them. I have not deleted anything recently but the constant rework does not help me finish anything.

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Sat Jan 13, 2018 1:49 am
by Hypercat
Binky Bunny wrote:Aww, thank you for the welcome and the avatar.

My husband is the Dom, and although not a natural, he is learning ;)

Maybe it's too early but you might try to switch the roles so he can get more empathy.

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Sat Jan 13, 2018 3:45 pm
by this_girl
Hypercat wrote:Maybe it's too early but you might try to switch the roles so he can get more empathy.


Role switching can be fun and helpful to develop the relationship. However, I would imagine that you would be more gentle with him than you would like him to be with you.

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Mon Jan 15, 2018 3:17 pm
by Binky Bunny
We've discussed switching and it isn't something either of us is interested in.

Re: Hello everyone

Unread postPosted: Sun Feb 04, 2018 8:09 pm
by TheBoundArtist
welcome to the forum,

i'm new myself and looking forward to getting to know more people like yourself. thank you for sharing your experiences, I'd love to read some of your work sometime. If you ever need some illustrations to go along with that writing please feel free to let me know.