I've loved the look and feel of spandex since the eighties. The soft compression is very sensual.
Although I have to dress somewhat conservatively for work, I've found that women's skinny jeans and leggings can actually be daily wear outside of my job. And now my fiancee/Domme actually insists that I change into spandex "play clothes" when I'm not at work. We often go out with me in leggings or jeggings.
I have to admit that, although I love the feel of skin tight clothing, I sometimes have to fight the laziness that makes me want to just plop down on the couch after coming home. :-p
I wouldn't consider myself a cross dresser and I don't think I could pass, so I'm still hunting for the right shirt to go with leggings that is a bit modest (covers the bulge) but is still pretty form fitting.
If anyone has any fashion hints, I'm all ears.