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It's building up again.

Unread postby restricted » Sun Nov 27, 2016 8:02 am

How many of you have a clear out and think that's it. I'm finished with it, just to find that a few weeks later you feel the pressure building up to slip into a nice skirt or dress?

Okay, most days I wear a skirt around the house. But as you can see from my posts, I am into buying more stuff. I have more female clothes than male. No, I don't want to be female all the time. Just when pressure builds up. I feel an idiot and can relax by sitting round in a skirt and blouse. I can't go out in daylight obviously.

The more I try to fight it, the more I want to slip into "something comfortable" like a nice soft blouse and skirt.

Does anyone else get this overwhelming urge that they HAVE to go en femme? Not completely acting feminine, just wearing a skirt and top.

Earlier this morning my wife said she could see my knickers as my skirt wasn't long enough. For all this, she hasn't moaned at me for doing it so I suppose she accepts my problem.

My big problem will be telling the kids.

By the way, now getting a dress that can be taken for a schoolgirl's pinafore and I have ordered a blouse and tie plus a boater.
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Re: It's building up again.

Unread postby stephanie_cd » Mon Nov 28, 2016 4:34 am

restricted wrote:How many of you have a clear out and think that's it. I'm finished with it, just to find that a few weeks later you feel the pressure building up to slip into a nice skirt or dress?


This first sentence makes me worry that you're talking about the "crossdresser purge cycle" that seems to hit about 90% of most CD's at one time or another*, where the person thinks "that's it, I'm finished with it, never again!" and throws out all of their clothes or donates them to charity. Then a few days or weeks later they again feel the urge, regret their decision, and end up buying even MORE stuff than they threw out!

It's SO common that if you Google "crossdress purge" you'll find thousands of blog and forum posts and articles on the subject, mostly full of regret, despair, and financial woe.

*Happily, I'm one of the 10% who has FELT the "urge to purge" several times, but was lucky enough to have had a large enough place to hide all of my stuff the first time, and then to have read up on the subject before the next few times. ;)

restricted wrote:Okay, most days I wear a skirt around the house. But as you can see from my posts, I am into buying more stuff. I have more female clothes than male. No, I don't want to be female all the time. Just when pressure builds up. I feel an idiot and can relax by sitting round in a skirt and blouse. I can't go out in daylight obviously.

The more I try to fight it, the more I want to slip into "something comfortable" like a nice soft blouse and skirt.

Does anyone else get this overwhelming urge that they HAVE to go en femme? Not completely acting feminine, just wearing a skirt and top.


Like you, I've probably got more female clothing than male clothing (which can be a problem since I've also got a lot of male clothes)! :D And like you, I usually find it relaxing to change into female clothes and just sit around the house, away from the windows. In many ways, drastically changing my style of clothing means changing my mindset, and sometimes I wonder if that might be part of why I love locking myself into my outfits so much -- because when I do that, I CAN'T change back quickly or easily! :D
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Re: It's building up again.

Unread postby restricted » Mon Nov 28, 2016 7:14 am

Since I put that post on yesterday, my wife has had a stroke and is now in hospital. :(
Hopefully she will soon be back indoors with me. Who else can I show off my Santa's helper outfit this year? Plus the maid in the short skirt and frilly undies. On top of that the schoolgirl and make me do my homework.
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Unread postby Petrajane » Mon Nov 28, 2016 8:58 am

restricted wrote:Since I put that post on yesterday, my wife has had a stroke and is now in hospital. :(
Hopefully she will soon be back indoors with me. Who else can I show off my Santa's helper outfit this year? Plus the maid in the short skirt and frilly undies. On top of that the schoolgirl and make me do my homework.

Best wishes to you both, a stroke is not trivial so my thoughts are with you.

Have they said if it was a TIA, CVA or "full stroke"? The first two are recoverable from, with treatment and a stubborn attitude.
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Unread postby MsBehavin » Mon Nov 28, 2016 9:46 am

Love and best wishes Res,
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Re: It's building up again.

Unread postby steellover » Tue Nov 29, 2016 4:21 am

Here's hoping she pulls through. Meanwhile, hang in there.
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Unread postby stephanie_cd » Tue Nov 29, 2016 4:43 am

Very sorry to hear as well -- best of wishes and good luck!
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Unread postby happily_locked » Tue Nov 29, 2016 8:16 am

I wish you and her the best result that can happen. It is very difficult when a loved one is not well.
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Re: It's building up again.

Unread postby restricted » Tue Nov 29, 2016 9:29 am

Thanks folks. Already she is talking. Not much but enough. She moaned at me so she is getting better. A big grin came on her face when I told her Honey G had been thrown of X factor.

We are having our roof fixed and electrics brought up to date. So everything is in store. I will be getting everything out next week and starch my uniforms up.

Apart from making me relax (feeling an idiot and not able to go anywhere) it does seem to make her relax. I was surprised when she teased me about seeing my bum when I was in my ultra short skirt.

I'm looking forward to being Santa's helper and the French (ish) maid over Christmas.
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Unread postby Petrajane » Tue Nov 29, 2016 10:07 am

That's good news, please keep us updated on her progress and what you can do to keep her spirits up! :D
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Unread postby restricted » Tue Nov 29, 2016 11:33 am

She has been moaning that more and more of her independence has been taken away. So I have ordered a schoolgirls outfit and have to beg her not to send me to school. At school she will be the teacher and set me tasks and make me go out and play in the garden. Stand in the corner with hands on head as punishment.

I'll keep you informed how this works.

Outfit. navy pinafore that will do as a school dress. Navy knickers, white socks and blouse. Straw boater and tie. Need Mary Janes.
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Re: It's building up again.

Unread postby restricted » Wed Nov 30, 2016 11:17 am

This is my blue satin skirt, but this is the image I want for my wife to see as I totter around doing the housework!

As for my schoolgirl thing. well, I have ordered a vest so I can wear just navy knickers and vest for exercise.
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Unread postby happily_locked » Wed Nov 30, 2016 7:42 pm

Lovely dress, and lovely view, too! Thank you.
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