Hello
I am a male sub, 23 years old and i am trying to start a relation ship with someone that can put me in bondage.
But how could i ask a female dom to put me on bondage.
For a female, should i just tell it here on the first date, or should i ask her when we know each other already for couple of months.
I am not really looking now to meet someone here, because i more trust it in face to face, because i am still the one that get tied up and get abused. So i need someone that i can trust 100%. Meeting someone here or in another forum / date site would be my 2nd plan if it doesn't works well.
So the main question is: How can i ask as a male sub to a female (that already or will become a dom) to put me into bondage
how to ask
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KinkyTrash
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Re: how to ask
I think it would be best to try it on the first date, so that if it is a no, she won't hate you for not being completely honest later, and lose a girlfriend. First you should mabye hint at it gently. And if that is not working, just sort of ask her upfront.
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plstiemeup
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Re: how to ask
Hey, thank you for the advice, i will try itKinkyTrash wrote:I think it would be best to try it on the first date, so that if it is a no, she won't hate you for not being completely honest later, and lose a girlfriend. First you should mabye hint at it gently. And if that is not working, just sort of ask her upfront.
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KinkyTrash
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Re: how to ask
your welcome. Will you tell me how it goes?plstiemeup wrote:Hey, thank you for the advice, i will try itKinkyTrash wrote:I think it would be best to try it on the first date, so that if it is a no, she won't hate you for not being completely honest later, and lose a girlfriend. First you should mabye hint at it gently. And if that is not working, just sort of ask her upfront.