I have been self bonding for several years. I love rope bondage and I have some fun toys for enhancing the experience. I also enjoy combining self bondage with cross dressing (satin nighties / stockings etc.). The thing I really long for is a trustworthy bondage partner with whom I can get together from time to time for mutual fun. Ideally taking turns to be bound, gagged etc. we could decide on what happens next. I personally fantasise about being used for the dominant's pleasure when I am totally helpless. I realise that others just want the feeling of total helplessness which is hard to achieve in self bondage.
PM me if you are interested in further discussion / information. I am in the Worcester - Wolverhampton area.