I'm male, middle-aged and looking to get a bit more involved in the 'bondage' life. Not looking for sex but ....
I'm straight, but have a fairly androgynous outlook. That means I'm happy to tie both men and women.
I don't have any boundaries, well, as long as the person being tied is over 18. I'm happy to be a 'safety key' holder, to help complete a scene, or to devise one. Perhaps take you out tied in a car, even if you would like to be tied and kept in the boot of a car (for a short while). I wouldn't be happy to incapacitate anyone and leave them, in case they got into difficulties, but as long as I had something to do I could wait for a fairly long period to ensure there was a safe conclusion.
I'm in Herts. I travel to Milton Keynes, and South Cambridge. I get into North London quite a bit. I'm happy to travel 20 or so miles, and am not looking for an exchange of money either way. I'm a qualified photographer which might also be useful if you want a record of your scene. I would not be looking to have copies of any images taken.
What's in it for me? The pleasure of incapacitating someone maybe. I've been tying women up for our mutual pleasure for quite some time, and I quite enjoy it. Sadly, most my age would prefer a glass of wine and an early night - to sleep. Not for me.
If anyone is interested, please let me know via PM. I will answer every query. I am discreet, and absolutely never get embarrassed about anything. If I agree to a meet, I will arrive.