napy666 wrote:stephanie_cd wrote:Congratulations!
Did you arrive at any major discoveries or breakthroughs this time?
Ha well things are back to the way they were, and he says he wants sex, he wants that bonding, close-ness with what comes when having sex with someone, and he wants sex in his relationship, but again goes back to wanting us to breakup and then says he wants us together. And that he's frustrated with his life and this and that. So I am thinking him and I may have to break up this time but still not sure.
So short answer: "no, nothing changed. Again."
napy666 wrote:How I can get that intimacy that he is referring too then? Isn't us making out, and doing other sexual acts, oral sex, hand jobs, finger, etc. Good enough?
Obviously not, or he wouldn't be wanting "sex."
napy666 wrote:Well it could be, couldn't it?
You should probably start reading "Cosmo" instead of hanging around here -- seriously. Explaining sex to a virgin is like explaining music to someone who was born deaf, and no matter how good the explanation is, it barely scratches the surface of the real thing.
Really great sex is an intimate, full body, mentally engaging experience of mutual give and take that ideally should leave both people laying there panting and saying
"oh, wow!"
It's (sort of) the equivalent of you both having an amazing six course dinner at a fancy restaurant, while a blow job is the equivalent of
"hey, can you pick me up a burger on your way home?" The first will leave both of you saying
"omigod, that was amazing!" while the second will leave him saying
"thanks" and merely leave you with the satisfaction of doing him a favor.