Why are you on this forum if you think submission is it dumb? Any form of bondage involves loss of control by one person. The first definition of Bondage on Google is about being a slave.
I agree with Charlotte. I love it when I am told what to wear, what bondage to endure or what punishment to inflict upon myself. Especially if the person in control also has control of my chastity belt (that way, even a remote controller has more confidence in my obedience).