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by ruru67
17 Apr 2024, 02:36
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Should I be tied up and punished for breaking My Mistress' Hitachi Wand?
Replies: 6
Views: 488

Re: Should I be tied up and punished for breaking My Mistress' Hitachi Wand?

you should also replace her Hitachi Wand. Also note that if it was a real Hitachi (or "Magic Wand Original") with the motor in the body rather than the head, it needs to be replaced with the real thing, not a Chinese knock-off. The latter look similar but are absolutely not the same thing...
by ruru67
13 Apr 2024, 00:33
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Trapped in a teddy bear
Replies: 31
Views: 15446

Re: RE: Trapped in a teddy bear

Petrajane wrote: 10 Apr 2024, 11:10
anonemouse wrote: 09 Apr 2024, 18:13
Hypercat wrote: 24 Jul 2008, 04:52 [TUBE]JSzZpzDYCMI[/TUBE]
Hi, how do I access this link?
No longer a valid link.
The [TUBE] syntax is no longer valid - BoundForum has had a few changes since 2008 ...

The video is still there and works fine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JSzZpzDYCMI.
by ruru67
02 Apr 2024, 04:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Have you ever been in long term bondage?
Replies: 21
Views: 2017

Re: Have you ever been in long term bondage?

I've done a couple of overnights in the cage, wrists and ankles loosely cuffed/chained, and once with thick mittens locked on as well. For this I have a water supply and a urinal (with a hose to a bottle outside the cage). But that's not "immobile" bondage, although the inability to fully ...
by ruru67
25 Mar 2024, 00:45
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: The Psychology of Kink: Does relational trauma impact interest in BDSM? (academic research)
Replies: 3
Views: 800

Re: The Psychology of Kink: Does relational trauma impact interest in BDSM? (academic research)

Lisa9019 wrote: 24 Mar 2024, 11:06Link doesn't work
ducttapelover wrote: 24 Mar 2024, 23:20Didn’t work for me either
I get an error saying, "the experiment is inactive", which given that this was posted back at the start of February, isn't really a surprise.
by ruru67
19 Mar 2024, 08:24
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Gag strap problem
Replies: 12
Views: 7481

Re: Gag strap problem

The best gag I've ever found is called "The Big One", sold by Silencilicone. But stupidly expensive! No matter, there is the cheap Chinese knock-off (although I have reason to suspect that it's not so much a "knock-off" as a "product re-positioning"): https://www.aliex...
by ruru67
28 Nov 2023, 21:34
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?
Replies: 35
Views: 130212

Re: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?

Aliexpress is good but I had bad experiences with shipping, long waiting times and in the end I received a refund because I didn't receive anything. I use AliExpress a lot - literally hundreds of orders. To be honest, I've found it more reliable than eBay - if something doesn't turn up you do get t...
by ruru67
27 Nov 2023, 23:56
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?
Replies: 35
Views: 130212

Re: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?

Those don't look very "home made" ... more like these: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005002611272355.html ... but twice the price plus shipping ... That's one of my pet hates about Etsy. it's flooded with people reselling stuff you can get on AliExpress. It makes finding unique and diff...
by ruru67
27 Oct 2023, 03:47
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: A new metal bondage lover
Replies: 5
Views: 5910

Re: A new metal bondage lover

And a very nice leg shackle it is. Chinese? Where did you get it?
by ruru67
27 Jun 2023, 06:28
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: blindfold in sb
Replies: 11
Views: 16871

Re: blindfold in sb

Question is: Do you enjoy, at least a bit, those "panicky moments"? I should note that usually these panicky moments are despite having double or triple checked everything, and put backups in place. Two timers - but I can't see either of them so ... are they both set? (Of course they are....
by ruru67
26 Jun 2023, 10:16
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: blindfold in sb
Replies: 11
Views: 16871

Re: blindfold in sb

I do like blindfolds or hoods for SB. They do complicate getting in and out though, especially if other sensory deprivation factors are involved (e.g gloves / mitts). I've had some panicky moments when I haven't been 100% sure they keys were where I put them ... or that I've set a timer correctly, o...
by ruru67
09 Apr 2023, 05:41
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: utopiastories.com offline
Replies: 18
Views: 27134

Re: utopiastories.com offline

It is working for me ... The site works, for small values of "works". Static content, including the stories and links, but excluding the image galleries, is present, but no updates are being done, no new stories are being added, and the active components such as keyword search are no long...
by ruru67
07 Apr 2023, 12:09
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: What would you do if you saw me in this situation?
Replies: 7
Views: 10109

Re: What would you do if you saw me in this situation?

I'd get you down and safe. Then, ask how you got there, and whether you need anything and whether I should call police, get medical assistance, et c.
SBadiction wrote: 07 Apr 2023, 07:47... and start edging you towards a climax ...
So you'd sexually assault a helpless stranger without asking if they consented?
by ruru67
26 Feb 2023, 22:00
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Chained in Leg Irons
Replies: 53
Views: 59853

Re: Chained in Leg Irons

fancybondage.com is selling a leather armbinder for $19.00. I am wondering how good that can be at that price. I didn't even need* to see the item to tell you it will be made from crappy PU, including the straps which won't take much abuse, and it'll be on the small side. The PU won't hold the eyel...
by ruru67
08 Jan 2023, 05:24
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: permanent cuffs
Replies: 28
Views: 53621

Re: permanent cuffs

It was a 10mm thick neck ring type collar. Here's the actual product: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/32955245494.html . It's passable enough to wear to work; my current partner also wore an identical collar 24/7 (but not "permanently" attached) for an extended period to her public service...
by ruru67
07 Jan 2023, 00:27
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: permanent cuffs
Replies: 28
Views: 53621

Re: permanent cuffs

for the hex bolt type closures I think a tiny drop of epoxy on the threads prior to screwing it in would do the job. Epoxy or a threadlocker like Loctite Red will do it. The latter is really the "right" tool for the job. I had a "permanent" collar on a former partner locked with...
by ruru67
02 Aug 2022, 02:38
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: hood vs. blindfold/gag
Replies: 3
Views: 5776

Re: hood vs. blindfold/gag

I prefer hoods for their coverage and non-removability - single strap blindfolds always seem to slip with only a little eyebrow waggling. They also inevitably let in light around my (largish) nose.

A set of headband style headphones inside with a noise source makes that even more isolating.
by ruru67
13 Jun 2022, 23:58
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Headbox
Replies: 3
Views: 2717

Re: Headbox

I'd note that a rigid head box actually causes very little trouble with breathing as long as it's not actually sealed to the body - when you breath out it pressurises the box and the air escapes; breathing in does the opposite, so while it can be a bit stuffy, if you breathe normally there is regula...
by ruru67
27 Feb 2022, 23:11
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Does Anyone Else know?
Replies: 42
Views: 147780

Re: Does Anyone Else know?

I think your friend is less "vanilla" than you or she have been making out ... and also a bit of a flirt.
by ruru67
18 Feb 2022, 03:33
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: utopiastories.com offline
Replies: 18
Views: 27134

Re: utopiastories.com offline

Totally get not wanting to push to some random in the Internet. I wonder if it's worth passing the stories to an existing site like Gromet's Plaza . I'm not sure if Teann ( teanndaorsa ) is up for curating a bunch of stories, not all of which will be appropriate for that site or its sub-sites, but i...
by ruru67
17 Feb 2022, 04:19
Forum: Author's Corner
Topic: Angel's Chastity Belt Part 2
Replies: 14
Views: 29315

Re: Angel's Chastity Belt Part 2

The full story is here: https://web.archive.org/web/20201112022 ... ecid/63298

It's an archive link since UtopiaStories is not in a good way.