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by ruru67
15 Jan 2022, 10:57
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Replies: 11
Views: 799

Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs

Why don't they make them oval instead of round? :/ There are plenty of oval cuffs out there. I'd note that oval cuffs don't easily rotate around your wrist like round ones do, so you often find the chain pulling at a funny angle, trying to rotate your wrist for you. But, yes, oval cuffs are a lot s...
by ruru67
18 Dec 2021, 03:35
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Replies: 11
Views: 799

Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs

I have a theory that maybe the fact that im bathing with it, and my conditioner/soaps are getting between my cuffs and skin and since I cant really get under the cuffs to dry it, maybe the residue of the conditioner/soaps or maybe even just the water not being able to dry and the skin being constan...
by ruru67
15 Dec 2021, 23:26
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Replies: 11
Views: 799

Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs

Could it be a nickel allergy from rivets or any other hardware in contact with the skin? Most "silvery" types of leatherworking hardware is, sadly, nickel plated. I'd note that rashes from nickel allergies usually show up within hours rather than days, and they're usually highly localised ...
by ruru67
10 Oct 2021, 10:10
Forum: Links & Site Reviews
Topic: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8
Replies: 119
Views: 164797

Re: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8

Just an update on this thread - it seem Richy passed away recently. RIP.
by ruru67
25 Jun 2021, 11:47
Forum: Links & Site Reviews
Topic: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8
Replies: 119
Views: 164797

Re: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8

He's still around - occasionally posts to DeviantArt and pops up on FetLife as well.

If you're a paid-up FetLife supporter, he has some videos posted there; if not there's still a couple of thousand photos to perv over.
by ruru67
17 May 2021, 00:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: public bondage, discretely
Replies: 26
Views: 28534

Re: public bondage, discretely

Cloaks and cold days are great for hiding bondage. I had a friend who really liked to be bound in public; we went to get take-aways a couple of times, with her arms in a box tie under the cloak, once in broad daylight.
by ruru67
09 May 2021, 03:35
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: welcome back online
Replies: 22
Views: 12787

Re: welcome back online

Shrug, I always preferred images to be available, so you can use them inline, and because image hosting sites, IME, aren't very stable. It's not like this site encourages dick pics...

Does phpBB have the ability to scale images down to a reasonable size? Or just limit the upload size?
by ruru67
30 Apr 2021, 08:31
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: welcome back online
Replies: 22
Views: 12787

Re: welcome back online

The old site worked on HTTP and just operated insecurely; this updated version redirects you to HTTPS, and it looked like it was picking up the bondagejunkies certificate, and producing a warning because it was for the wrong domain.
by ruru67
16 Mar 2021, 01:12
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?
Replies: 85
Views: 96753

Re: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?

I just use 5mm or 6mm steel chain, and open/close it. Basically: Cut through one side of a link - I usually cut the original weld. Stick one end of the link firmly in a vice, close a big crescent (adjustable) spanner over the other end, and twist. You want the cut ends to move parallel to the cut - ...
by ruru67
24 Feb 2021, 23:30
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: The Straitjacket Megathread
Replies: 8
Views: 12453

Re: The Straitjacket Megathread

I myself want a canvas jacket, and this one looks to be the perfect one- https://www.etsy.com/listing/765214896/heavy-straitjacket-for-bdsm-play-with I have the earlier version of that same jacket, but all light coloured, more like this one, with the turtle neck option . It's nice - it's not too he...
by ruru67
19 Feb 2021, 02:20
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 95
Views: 66530

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Re getting a Darbys open without a key, I just opened a pair by tying a simple slip knot in a piece if paracord inner (thin, strong string) and placing it over the inner screw with a the small tweezers from my mini Swiss army knife. Pull the sliding end to tighten the loop (holding the fixed end dow...
by ruru67
23 Jan 2021, 02:11
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Dungeonmouse is back
Replies: 11
Views: 8461

Re: Dungeonmouse is back

Ooh, nice to see you and your stories back online! Been a while!
by ruru67
03 Dec 2020, 10:56
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Losing Hope :(
Replies: 6
Views: 5016

Re: Losing Hope :(

The belt is just aluminium strip. I rounded the edges a bit, but what stops it digging in too much is simply not being tight.. The lock is one of these, cut short and filed down a bit: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/32824137126.html I do know how to pick a cylinder lock, and I don't expect this one...
by ruru67
03 Dec 2020, 01:26
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Losing Hope :(
Replies: 6
Views: 5016

Re: Losing Hope :(

I'm similarly constructed. What worked for me is a simple stainless steel ball trap device, coupled with a metal hip belt: IMG_0303.jpg Note that the belt does not hold the device up. It's fairly loose - I can push it over my buttocks if I want, and I don't even open it to get in (the latch is just ...
by ruru67
30 Nov 2020, 22:32
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Posey straitjackets
Replies: 6
Views: 5848

Re: Posey straitjackets

You might try Harry Tasker's site: https://www.zwangsjacke.net/ (FetLife: @HarryTasker)

He has both original and replica Posey jackets listed under Sales -> Straitjackets. No prices on the site - you'll probably need to start a conversation about exactly what you want, pricing et c.
by ruru67
16 Oct 2020, 01:17
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: rope cam cleat
Replies: 1
Views: 2866

Re: rope cam cleat

this is called a rope cam cleat: download.jpeg I can see lots of possibilities for using this in self bondage, but, how to open it. Obviously, the rope slides easily in one direction, but the harder you pull in the other direction, the tighter the jaws (cams) close. Any ideas for an opening mechani...
by ruru67
10 May 2020, 22:40
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Self-Bondage caused pain & fatigue
Replies: 3
Views: 3500

Re: Self-Bondage caused pain & fatigue

(ouch) I'd say you've probably just pulled a muscle reaching for some place you don't normally reach. Those sorts of injuries usually sort themselves out fairly quickly. I get those moderately often - sometimes just a twinge, sometimes lasting a longer, but as you say, more fatiguing than actually ...
by ruru67
25 Nov 2019, 02:26
Forum: Answer Archive
Topic: GrometsPlaza Forum Blacklist
Replies: 5
Views: 12839

Re: GrometsPlaza Forum Blacklist

Petrajane wrote:And yet, here you are?
I think they're referring to the forum on Gromet's Plaza, i.e. http://forum.grometsplaza.net/
by ruru67
18 Oct 2019, 22:04
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Leather harness/cuffs quality
Replies: 6
Views: 5244

Re: Leather harness/cuffs quality

You'll find the cuffs with oblong holes have locking buckles - that is the buckle prong has a loop on the end which can take a padlock. Since the loop is larger than a simple prong, it needs an oblong hole to allow it to pass through the strap.
by ruru67
14 Jul 2019, 13:22
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How to turn fake handcuffs into real ones?
Replies: 4
Views: 7228

Re: How to turn fake handcuffs into real ones?

You can't. Even if you disable the quick-release, they'll still be garbage, likely to injure you or fail in some potentially embarrassing way. Get a proper pair.