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by ruru67
02 Aug 2022, 02:38
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: hood vs. blindfold/gag
Replies: 3
Views: 586

Re: hood vs. blindfold/gag

I prefer hoods for their coverage and non-removability - single strap blindfolds always seem to slip with only a little eyebrow waggling. They also inevitably let in light around my (largish) nose.

A set of headband style headphones inside with a noise source makes that even more isolating.
by ruru67
13 Jun 2022, 23:58
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Headbox
Replies: 3
Views: 832

Re: Headbox

I'd note that a rigid head box actually causes very little trouble with breathing as long as it's not actually sealed to the body - when you breath out it pressurises the box and the air escapes; breathing in does the opposite, so while it can be a bit stuffy, if you breathe normally there is regula...
by ruru67
27 Feb 2022, 23:11
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Does Anyone Else know?
Replies: 17
Views: 7128

Re: Does Anyone Else know?

I think your friend is less "vanilla" than you or she have been making out ... and also a bit of a flirt.
by ruru67
18 Feb 2022, 03:33
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: utopiastories.com offline
Replies: 15
Views: 8112

Re: utopiastories.com offline

Totally get not wanting to push to some random in the Internet. I wonder if it's worth passing the stories to an existing site like Gromet's Plaza . I'm not sure if Teann ( teanndaorsa ) is up for curating a bunch of stories, not all of which will be appropriate for that site or its sub-sites, but i...
by ruru67
17 Feb 2022, 04:19
Forum: Author's Corner
Topic: Angel's Chastity Belt Part 2
Replies: 14
Views: 22613

Re: Angel's Chastity Belt Part 2

The full story is here: https://web.archive.org/web/20201112022 ... ecid/63298

It's an archive link since UtopiaStories is not in a good way.
by ruru67
15 Jan 2022, 10:57
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Replies: 11
Views: 2673

Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs

Why don't they make them oval instead of round? :/ There are plenty of oval cuffs out there. I'd note that oval cuffs don't easily rotate around your wrist like round ones do, so you often find the chain pulling at a funny angle, trying to rotate your wrist for you. But, yes, oval cuffs are a lot s...
by ruru67
18 Dec 2021, 03:35
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Replies: 11
Views: 2673

Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs

I have a theory that maybe the fact that im bathing with it, and my conditioner/soaps are getting between my cuffs and skin and since I cant really get under the cuffs to dry it, maybe the residue of the conditioner/soaps or maybe even just the water not being able to dry and the skin being constan...
by ruru67
15 Dec 2021, 23:26
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Replies: 11
Views: 2673

Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs

Could it be a nickel allergy from rivets or any other hardware in contact with the skin? Most "silvery" types of leatherworking hardware is, sadly, nickel plated. I'd note that rashes from nickel allergies usually show up within hours rather than days, and they're usually highly localised ...
by ruru67
10 Oct 2021, 10:10
Forum: Links & Site Reviews
Topic: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8
Replies: 119
Views: 177470

Re: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8

Just an update on this thread - it seem Richy passed away recently. RIP.
by ruru67
25 Jun 2021, 11:47
Forum: Links & Site Reviews
Topic: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8
Replies: 119
Views: 177470

Re: Captivekink.com (free site) - updated 18/8

He's still around - occasionally posts to DeviantArt and pops up on FetLife as well.

If you're a paid-up FetLife supporter, he has some videos posted there; if not there's still a couple of thousand photos to perv over.
by ruru67
17 May 2021, 00:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: public bondage, discretely
Replies: 26
Views: 33053

Re: public bondage, discretely

Cloaks and cold days are great for hiding bondage. I had a friend who really liked to be bound in public; we went to get take-aways a couple of times, with her arms in a box tie under the cloak, once in broad daylight.
by ruru67
09 May 2021, 03:35
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: welcome back online
Replies: 22
Views: 16010

Re: welcome back online

Shrug, I always preferred images to be available, so you can use them inline, and because image hosting sites, IME, aren't very stable. It's not like this site encourages dick pics...

Does phpBB have the ability to scale images down to a reasonable size? Or just limit the upload size?
by ruru67
30 Apr 2021, 08:31
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: welcome back online
Replies: 22
Views: 16010

Re: welcome back online

The old site worked on HTTP and just operated insecurely; this updated version redirects you to HTTPS, and it looked like it was picking up the bondagejunkies certificate, and producing a warning because it was for the wrong domain.
by ruru67
16 Mar 2021, 01:12
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?
Replies: 85
Views: 108172

Re: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?

I just use 5mm or 6mm steel chain, and open/close it. Basically: Cut through one side of a link - I usually cut the original weld. Stick one end of the link firmly in a vice, close a big crescent (adjustable) spanner over the other end, and twist. You want the cut ends to move parallel to the cut - ...
by ruru67
24 Feb 2021, 23:30
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: The Straitjacket Megathread
Replies: 11
Views: 14870

Re: The Straitjacket Megathread

I myself want a canvas jacket, and this one looks to be the perfect one- https://www.etsy.com/listing/765214896/heavy-straitjacket-for-bdsm-play-with I have the earlier version of that same jacket, but all light coloured, more like this one, with the turtle neck option . It's nice - it's not too he...
by ruru67
19 Feb 2021, 02:20
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 98
Views: 83092

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Re getting a Darbys open without a key, I just opened a pair by tying a simple slip knot in a piece if paracord inner (thin, strong string) and placing it over the inner screw with a the small tweezers from my mini Swiss army knife. Pull the sliding end to tighten the loop (holding the fixed end dow...
by ruru67
23 Jan 2021, 02:11
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Dungeonmouse is back
Replies: 11
Views: 10124

Re: Dungeonmouse is back

Ooh, nice to see you and your stories back online! Been a while!
by ruru67
03 Dec 2020, 10:56
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Losing Hope :(
Replies: 6
Views: 6832

Re: Losing Hope :(

The belt is just aluminium strip. I rounded the edges a bit, but what stops it digging in too much is simply not being tight.. The lock is one of these, cut short and filed down a bit: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/32824137126.html I do know how to pick a cylinder lock, and I don't expect this one...
by ruru67
03 Dec 2020, 01:26
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Losing Hope :(
Replies: 6
Views: 6832

Re: Losing Hope :(

I'm similarly constructed. What worked for me is a simple stainless steel ball trap device, coupled with a metal hip belt: IMG_0303.jpg Note that the belt does not hold the device up. It's fairly loose - I can push it over my buttocks if I want, and I don't even open it to get in (the latch is just ...
by ruru67
30 Nov 2020, 22:32
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Posey straitjackets
Replies: 6
Views: 6881

Re: Posey straitjackets

You might try Harry Tasker's site: https://www.zwangsjacke.net/ (FetLife: @HarryTasker)

He has both original and replica Posey jackets listed under Sales -> Straitjackets. No prices on the site - you'll probably need to start a conversation about exactly what you want, pricing et c.