I get an error saying, "the experiment is inactive", which given that this was posted back at the start of February, isn't really a surprise.
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- 25 Mar 2024, 00:45
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: The Psychology of Kink: Does relational trauma impact interest in BDSM? (academic research)
- Replies: 3
- Views: 613
Re: The Psychology of Kink: Does relational trauma impact interest in BDSM? (academic research)
- 19 Mar 2024, 08:24
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Gag strap problem
- Replies: 11
- Views: 6952
Re: Gag strap problem
The best gag I've ever found is called "The Big One", sold by Silencilicone. But stupidly expensive! No matter, there is the cheap Chinese knock-off (although I have reason to suspect that it's not so much a "knock-off" as a "product re-positioning"): https://www.aliex...
- 28 Nov 2023, 21:34
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?
- Replies: 34
- Views: 115268
Re: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?
Aliexpress is good but I had bad experiences with shipping, long waiting times and in the end I received a refund because I didn't receive anything. I use AliExpress a lot - literally hundreds of orders. To be honest, I've found it more reliable than eBay - if something doesn't turn up you do get t...
- 27 Nov 2023, 23:56
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?
- Replies: 34
- Views: 115268
Re: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?
Those don't look very "home made" ... more like these: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005002611272355.html ... but twice the price plus shipping ... That's one of my pet hates about Etsy. it's flooded with people reselling stuff you can get on AliExpress. It makes finding unique and diff...
- 27 Oct 2023, 03:47
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: A new metal bondage lover
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4442
Re: A new metal bondage lover
And a very nice leg shackle it is. Chinese? Where did you get it?
- 27 Jun 2023, 06:28
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: blindfold in sb
- Replies: 11
- Views: 14515
Re: blindfold in sb
Question is: Do you enjoy, at least a bit, those "panicky moments"? I should note that usually these panicky moments are despite having double or triple checked everything, and put backups in place. Two timers - but I can't see either of them so ... are they both set? (Of course they are....
- 26 Jun 2023, 10:16
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: blindfold in sb
- Replies: 11
- Views: 14515
Re: blindfold in sb
I do like blindfolds or hoods for SB. They do complicate getting in and out though, especially if other sensory deprivation factors are involved (e.g gloves / mitts). I've had some panicky moments when I haven't been 100% sure they keys were where I put them ... or that I've set a timer correctly, o...
- 09 Apr 2023, 05:41
- Forum: General Discussion
- Topic: utopiastories.com offline
- Replies: 18
- Views: 24628
Re: utopiastories.com offline
It is working for me ... The site works, for small values of "works". Static content, including the stories and links, but excluding the image galleries, is present, but no updates are being done, no new stories are being added, and the active components such as keyword search are no long...
- 07 Apr 2023, 12:09
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: What would you do if you saw me in this situation?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 8583
Re: What would you do if you saw me in this situation?
I'd get you down and safe. Then, ask how you got there, and whether you need anything and whether I should call police, get medical assistance, et c.
So you'd sexually assault a helpless stranger without asking if they consented?
- 26 Feb 2023, 22:00
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Chained in Leg Irons
- Replies: 53
- Views: 54450
Re: Chained in Leg Irons
fancybondage.com is selling a leather armbinder for $19.00. I am wondering how good that can be at that price. I didn't even need* to see the item to tell you it will be made from crappy PU, including the straps which won't take much abuse, and it'll be on the small side. The PU won't hold the eyel...
- 08 Jan 2023, 05:24
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: permanent cuffs
- Replies: 28
- Views: 51019
Re: permanent cuffs
It was a 10mm thick neck ring type collar. Here's the actual product: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/32955245494.html . It's passable enough to wear to work; my current partner also wore an identical collar 24/7 (but not "permanently" attached) for an extended period to her public service...
- 07 Jan 2023, 00:27
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: permanent cuffs
- Replies: 28
- Views: 51019
Re: permanent cuffs
for the hex bolt type closures I think a tiny drop of epoxy on the threads prior to screwing it in would do the job. Epoxy or a threadlocker like Loctite Red will do it. The latter is really the "right" tool for the job. I had a "permanent" collar on a former partner locked with...
- 02 Aug 2022, 02:38
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: hood vs. blindfold/gag
- Replies: 3
- Views: 5613
Re: hood vs. blindfold/gag
I prefer hoods for their coverage and non-removability - single strap blindfolds always seem to slip with only a little eyebrow waggling. They also inevitably let in light around my (largish) nose.
A set of headband style headphones inside with a noise source makes that even more isolating.
A set of headband style headphones inside with a noise source makes that even more isolating.
- 13 Jun 2022, 23:58
- Forum: General Discussion
- Topic: Headbox
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2624
Re: Headbox
I'd note that a rigid head box actually causes very little trouble with breathing as long as it's not actually sealed to the body - when you breath out it pressurises the box and the air escapes; breathing in does the opposite, so while it can be a bit stuffy, if you breathe normally there is regula...
- 27 Feb 2022, 23:11
- Forum: Chastity
- Topic: Does Anyone Else know?
- Replies: 40
- Views: 131543
Re: Does Anyone Else know?
I think your friend is less "vanilla" than you or she have been making out ... and also a bit of a flirt.
- 18 Feb 2022, 03:33
- Forum: General Discussion
- Topic: utopiastories.com offline
- Replies: 18
- Views: 24628
Re: utopiastories.com offline
Totally get not wanting to push to some random in the Internet. I wonder if it's worth passing the stories to an existing site like Gromet's Plaza . I'm not sure if Teann ( teanndaorsa ) is up for curating a bunch of stories, not all of which will be appropriate for that site or its sub-sites, but i...
- 17 Feb 2022, 04:19
- Forum: Author's Corner
- Topic: Angel's Chastity Belt Part 2
- Replies: 14
- Views: 29061
Re: Angel's Chastity Belt Part 2
The full story is here: https://web.archive.org/web/20201112022 ... ecid/63298
It's an archive link since UtopiaStories is not in a good way.
It's an archive link since UtopiaStories is not in a good way.
- 15 Jan 2022, 10:57
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
- Replies: 11
- Views: 6835
Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Why don't they make them oval instead of round? :/ There are plenty of oval cuffs out there. I'd note that oval cuffs don't easily rotate around your wrist like round ones do, so you often find the chain pulling at a funny angle, trying to rotate your wrist for you. But, yes, oval cuffs are a lot s...
- 18 Dec 2021, 03:35
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
- Replies: 11
- Views: 6835
Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
I have a theory that maybe the fact that im bathing with it, and my conditioner/soaps are getting between my cuffs and skin and since I cant really get under the cuffs to dry it, maybe the residue of the conditioner/soaps or maybe even just the water not being able to dry and the skin being constan...
- 15 Dec 2021, 23:26
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
- Replies: 11
- Views: 6835
Re: Q Re: Skin Irritation for Permanent/Long Term Cuffs
Could it be a nickel allergy from rivets or any other hardware in contact with the skin? Most "silvery" types of leatherworking hardware is, sadly, nickel plated. I'd note that rashes from nickel allergies usually show up within hours rather than days, and they're usually highly localised ...