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by lotharj
25 Mar 2021, 05:05
Forum: Mummification
Topic: Blanket mummification
Replies: 20
Views: 22478

Re: Blanket mummification

Me a few days ago for a night. I was blindfolded during most of it so I not sure exactly what I was put in, but from sound/touch and this picture that was taken here is my guess. I was blindfolded with goggles and made to stand next to the bed. My wrists were leather cuffed behind my back and ankles...
by lotharj
25 Mar 2021, 04:17
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: The wife's point of view on crossdressing
Replies: 1
Views: 1837

Re: The wife's point of view on crossdressing

It's an interesting read and I think this easily applies to any other fetish/kink. Thanks for collecting those thoughts! I made the same mistakes mentioned in it in my first long term partnership regarding BDSM. Kept it a secret, dropped hints, once out went crazy, never considered my partners pov, ...
by lotharj
16 Mar 2021, 05:06
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Unusual Handcuffs
Replies: 18
Views: 3017

Re: Unusual Handcuffs

If I had run into the same problem, I would have put the hinge side against a grinding wheel and burned through the hinge. Replacing the hinge would not be expensive and it would save the work that was done on the wooden cuffs and hasp. If you don't have a bench grinder in the garage, then a sandin...
by lotharj
16 Mar 2021, 04:38
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Latest Bondage Toy in your collection
Replies: 6
Views: 2303

Re: Latest Bondage Toy in your collection

Don't know if this qualifies, but we purchased a bike recently and the ubolt bike lock ended up securing my neck to the car seat headrest posts. I was tortured and teased a little upon coming home from the store. Haven't even used it on the bike yet :D
by lotharj
04 Mar 2021, 14:12
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: What kind of transparent tape is this?
Replies: 1
Views: 792

Re: What kind of transparent tape is this?

Its just clear pvc tape found anywhere bondage toys are sold.

https://kinkstore.com/products/clear-bondage-tape
by lotharj
26 Feb 2021, 19:05
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Am I Alone?
Replies: 15
Views: 6415

Re: Am I Alone?

It does. For me mostly around my hips. And that's due to sweat build up and friction. It can lead to small rashes or sore spots - but with proper care (ie cleaning, adjusting, making sure no spot is being rubbed just because the belt is sitting funny, etc) can alleviate them. Of course taking the b...
by lotharj
26 Feb 2021, 16:05
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 41972

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Has anyone tried a way to sleep tied with ropes (not handcuffs or metal elements) so that you can still fall asleep? A while ago I would be either be forced to tie myself or my my partner would with rope before bed. Usually consisted of double column ties around my insoles, ankles, knees, and wrist...
by lotharj
26 Feb 2021, 15:44
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: The Straitjacket Megathread
Replies: 5
Views: 1341

Re: The Straitjacket Megathread

The straight jacket I am made to wear is made of black leather, has a turtle neck collar, straps to keep my arms secured in front and straps that go through my legs. It is one of the few restraints my partner brings out that still makes my heart flutter in excitement and and also get nervous as it i...
by lotharj
20 Feb 2021, 04:43
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Unusual Handcuffs
Replies: 18
Views: 3017

Re: Unusual Handcuffs

Long time ago, I made some simple wrist stocks out of a 2x6, a hinge, and one of those hasp locks. I didnt have a partner at the time and liked to fantasize about being locked in them. Played with them for a few months and one time when closing it on myself, the hasp actually caught and latched. The...
by lotharj
20 Feb 2021, 04:36
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 41972

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Have you tried leather cuffs? i've got the bonn wrist cuffs but everything from here ive gotten is really comfortable https://www.vpleather.com/collections/ankle-cuffs We have quite an extensive collection including leather. I am always restrained at home (sleeping / showering as well) and leather ...
by lotharj
19 Feb 2021, 15:37
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 41972

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Re getting a Darbys open without a key, I just opened a pair by tying a simple slip knot in a piece if paracord inner (thin, strong string) and placing it over the inner screw with a the small tweezers from my mini Swiss army knife. Pull the sliding end to tighten the loop (holding the fixed end do...
by lotharj
19 Feb 2021, 15:08
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Quiet vacuum solution for vacuum bed?
Replies: 2
Views: 705

Re: Quiet vacuum solution for vacuum bed?

Don't have experience with anything other than a shop vac vac bed. I've been in one for about 30 minutes with it running and it didn't have a problem other than it being really warm to touch. Wasn't too loud. I suppose you could get a long hose and run it in a different room. Depending on the qualit...
by lotharj
25 Jan 2021, 05:29
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Am I Alone?
Replies: 15
Views: 6415

Re: Am I Alone?

Darwinism is based on evolution which is based on genetic mutation. Quite simply men being submissive may likely be a recessive trait being that it is infrequent and seemingly has no advantage. Or it could simply be environmental where there was either no gender stereotype male role model available ...
by lotharj
25 Jan 2021, 01:16
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 41972

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Looks like the threads came out of the key? Are they sitting in front of the key? That was the actual key housing shredded by the stuck pin. As it was being turned hard it cracked and pulled apart. A jig saw and several blades were all we could come up with to remedy it in the end. We will keep you...
by lotharj
24 Jan 2021, 23:47
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Why are ballgags so erotic?!
Replies: 8
Views: 1944

Re: Why are ballgags so erotic?!

I think they are exciting to wear as well, however, my partner doesnt like them as much because it interferes with other oral pleasure. If I do wear one it is usually when I am alone or asleep and really have nothing to say anyway which kinda deadens the experience. If I try to be bratty and speak ...
by lotharj
22 Jan 2021, 22:41
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Why are ballgags so erotic?!
Replies: 8
Views: 1944

Re: Why are ballgags so erotic?!

Alright people, is it just me or when I see a captive with a ball gag that continuously tries to spit/push it out, I'm getting instantly turned on? I dunno but there is something sentimental when it comes to oral restriction. The rush of euphoria when you make her silent non-consensually where she ...
by lotharj
22 Jan 2021, 22:36
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Too much of a good thing?
Replies: 5
Views: 2014

Re: Too much of a good thing?

That was eloquently put, Lotharj! I know a lot about changing relationship expectations, my spouse was really upset when she found out that I liked to crossdress and so far has not wanted to change our relationship's expectations at all.. don't blame her since I was not upfront with the information...
by lotharj
22 Jan 2021, 22:16
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 41972

Re: Ties to sleep in?

To throw out a pair of metal cuffs that are fully functional seems rather silly. One can always remove the sharp edges with a file, especially if the alternative is that they are trashed. If you screw them up, there isn't much that is lost." They are fun for temporary restraint but the thin me...
by lotharj
20 Jan 2021, 00:39
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 41972

Re: Ties to sleep in?

I've been cuffed behind my back lots of times at night with leather cuffs, but no way I would do it with metal ones in the picture. I actually had to safe word out of those as it's too painful for me after a while (left some serious bruising) My partner and I just decided to throw them out from then...
by lotharj
15 Jan 2021, 17:53
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: planning
Replies: 6
Views: 1506

Re: planning

Self bondage planning is very exciting for me as well. When I am alone I can spend hours researching rope techniques and thinking about stages of release. Kinda a fun hobby and arousing at the same time. My Dom is sometimes very impressed with different things and they learn from my self bondage adv...