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by wildcard
24 Sep 2021, 16:54
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Crossdressing without even really knowing
Replies: 0
Views: 1136

Crossdressing without even really knowing

Just a quick story about how I ended up with some female clothing. I really never and probably still don't considered myself a crossdresser. For a few years now I have worn men's bikini and thong swimsuits and thong underwear. During then my wife and I have experimented with me wearing women's panti...
by wildcard
21 Sep 2021, 14:28
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Does Anyone Else know?
Replies: 0
Views: 1730

Does Anyone Else know?

Does anyone else know you are into or wearing a chastity device? Currently my wife and a female coworker/friend know I wear a cage. My wife does not know my coworker knows about them. The coworker (Vanilla) found out accidently while scrolling through my phone and over the years has found out about ...
by wildcard
13 Jul 2021, 17:10
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 36
Views: 35180

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

I have a female coworker/friend that knows about my mine and my wife’s bondage play. She has seen me with a collar, bull dog harness and ballgag on at different times. We flirt around and never anything more. She has mentioned to me a couple times bondage is not her thing. Now and then I would offer...
by wildcard
07 Jul 2020, 16:11
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 36
Views: 35180

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

If you have read a couple of my stories you will know my female vanilla friend/coworker knows my wife and I are into bondage. With Covid our company is only at about at 25% capacity. The offices are empty and only essential personal have been coming in and wearing a face mask is mandatory on site. M...
by wildcard
17 Apr 2020, 15:25
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 36
Views: 35180

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

While doing yard work I strained my shoulder and couldn't move my arm. The next day at work my friend noticed I was in a little pain and ask what happened. I explained to her what happened and I hurt my shoulder. She immediately assumed it was from bondage sex and kept asking and insisting I tell he...
by wildcard
03 Apr 2020, 15:11
Forum: Chastity
Topic: New to Male Chastity
Replies: 4
Views: 5789

Re: New to Male Chastity

Has anyone tried a wireless remote shocker male chastity cage? We were looking for for one to experiment with. Any ideas would be appreciated.

Thanks
by wildcard
01 Apr 2020, 15:33
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: COVID-91
Replies: 11
Views: 7633

Re: COVID-91

With all the bad news out there, hope every stays safe and does their part.

I have seen some kinky memes come out of it. Many with people wearing latex outfits in public.
by wildcard
01 Apr 2020, 15:01
Forum: Chastity
Topic: New to Male Chastity
Replies: 4
Views: 5789

New to Male Chastity

With more time working from home these days I have time to share some experiences. A year ago or so, I purchased an ill fitting chastity cage with a padlock as more of a joke and showed my wife. We had a few laughs and more or less used it for foreplay. Recently I purchased a clear resin one with a ...
by wildcard
28 Mar 2020, 15:00
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.
Replies: 14
Views: 9279

Re: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.

This is not a bondage fantasies, but involves my co-work friend and over time will help paint a picture. Years ago my coworker and I worked a swing shift and next day people were tired from working the swing shift. I went to my doctor and got some sleeping pills. My coworker asked me for some sleepi...
by wildcard
26 Mar 2020, 16:30
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.
Replies: 14
Views: 9279

Re: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.

I did start the thread "Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage" I have shared some of my fetish experiences with a female co-worker/friend, that my wife and I have done. My experiences are true, it is how she would interpret them would be the fantasy part. For example my wife a...
by wildcard
16 Mar 2020, 23:30
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 36
Views: 35180

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

Yes my wife and I play/talk all the time. My friend seemed to think we are just sex freaks in the beginning but now kind of understands. Her imagination runs wild with the help of the internet.
by wildcard
15 Mar 2020, 16:23
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 36
Views: 35180

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

Over the past few months my friend at work has been asking me questions about my S&M lifestyle. More or less she has been asking how was my weekend was, and if I was tied up? To my surprise I would say yep and she would want to know more details. Compared to years ago she actually knows gear ter...
by wildcard
31 Oct 2019, 21:10
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Leather harness/cuffs quality
Replies: 6
Views: 4962

Re: Leather harness/cuffs quality

Hi All, Newbie here in the process of buying my first harness and set of leather cuffs and have a few questions. 1. When looking at the quality and functionality of the workmanship, for the holes for the buckle latch, does it matter whether they are holes vs. oblong slots? 2. For larger chest sized...
by wildcard
31 Oct 2019, 21:07
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Costumes
Replies: 0
Views: 2085

Costumes

This year's Halloween Costume is already done. But my question is What costume idea is mildly fetish, but you can wear out to a party with close friends? I couldn't wear like a full blown bondage gear with my friends. I thought maybe like a straight jacket or prisoner type stuff. A Latex super hero ...
by wildcard
20 Sep 2019, 13:54
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Does anyone know how to fix ballgags?
Replies: 3
Views: 5004

Re: Does anyone know how to fix ballgags?

Did you try replacing the ball? I bought a couple from here and actually like the silicone ball compare to the old rubber ones.

http://www.pleasureparadox.com/SR/SR-BG0001.htm


Good Luck
by wildcard
10 May 2019, 17:12
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 36
Views: 35180

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

As time has gone on I have shared stories about bondage with my coworker. I tend to keep them on the beginner level if that makes any sense. She asked why I would let anyone handcuffed me to the bed while having sex. I made up a story that my wife enjoys the top and I would tell her I wanted the to...
by wildcard
18 Nov 2018, 16:56
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Help with ballgag
Replies: 7
Views: 11114

Re: Help with ballgag

My wife and I have had the same ballgag for many years. I've search the internet for this answer, but really haven't found it. How to wear a ballgag? The internet describes how to buy one,size,buckle,straps, behind the teeth. But how to wear one? Basically I wanted to know if goes over or under your...
by wildcard
03 Jul 2018, 23:52
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 36
Views: 35180

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

As time has gone on I have shared stories about bondage with my coworker. I tend to keep them on the beginner level if that makes any sense. She asked why I would let anyone handcuffed me to the bed while having sex. I made up a story that my wife enjoys the top and I would tell her I wanted the to...
by wildcard
30 Jun 2018, 15:42
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Straitjacket
Replies: 6
Views: 8108

Re: Straitjacket

I was looking for a straight jacket. I see they make a women's style which is like a cropped style verses a full jacket. Can a man wear this style? The reason I ask is a full style looks like it could be too hot to wear for an extended period of time.

Any advice would be appreciated.