The Bound Forum

The one I bought on AliExpress is a fairly solid piece of steel that isn't going to reshape without some serious tools to do it without damage. I suspect that just applying leverage could snap it.

Just put small (luggage size) through the hole in the tongue strap after the buckle. I suspect the word 'padlock' is missing, but you could also use small chain links, carabiners or key chain clips that would also make it impossible to undo a buckle by rubbing against something but wouldn't require...

Has Windows ever blue-screened on you? Has your phone every locked up and needed a reset? You want to trust your life to software?

Another vote for saran wrap (aka clingfilm here in the UK) and parcel tape (very cheap). Becomes wonderfully slippery inside after a few minutes of squirming or thrashing about.

Put screw eyes in between and either side of the base of each toe and thread a shoelace through and around each toe. Or drill holes through the stocks in those positions and use a cable tie for each toe.

Do you have a master timer to release you after some maximum time like several hours and can't be overridden remotely, in case either the internet connection fails or the person granted control turns out to not respect agreed limits? Will there be audio so your begging and screaming can be heard? Wi...

Have you or could you share with her your discomfort about it being with other guys? Is it definitely just for bondage photography and would she let you be present at the shoots?

I agree with Laycette. The fit is critical. I've gone nearly four days in a catsuit with feet but no hands or hood so I could actually go about my day, working (at home but with a visit to a datacentre) and shopping. My partner held the keys to the locking zips so I wasn't able to take it off if per...

Sharing ideas sounds interesting. I have many. PM?

Why do you want to make him soft or is it that you want to prevent him having an orgasm? Lidocaine cream would certainly allow 20-30 minutes of sex without any risk of orgasm but he'd be fully erect and this can be repeated several times (note the recommended limits on the packaging). Excellent for ...

I have a lycra bag with internal sleeves, hood and two way zipper. I've added a large metal ring to the lower zip pull and with that one lowered to about crotch level I can get in, pull the hood over and bring that zip down to my chin and get my arms into the sleeves by manipulating and stretching t...

I've done similar but with the end of a length of light chain in a 250ml-1l plastic bottle which is frozen and attached to a leg of the bed with cable ties or velcro straps. So for instance one arm is restrained by that, the other by a timer padlock for redundancy.

My ex took me for a walk in a straitjacket a few times. I had a fairly large jacket and the sleeves could be tucked into the pockets with some rolled up bubble wrap in them so they looked real. Then she had me put on a t-shirt and underwear (sometimes with a nappy, then the straitjacket and then tro...

One other thought is that if you find you can undo the strap by manipulating it against your back, a couple of turns of clingfilm (saran wrap) over the top should fix it, add a couple of turns of parcel or gaffa tape if you're a real escapologist, although I'd hope she'd be keeping you thoroughly di...

They should be fine. The main vulnerability of velcro fastenings is that the wearer can undo the velcro by 'scraping' the strap against something - doorframe, chair back etc. - so think about how to apply them so the straps are behind your wrists so you can reach with fingers, and pointing in a dire...

There are two approaches, the cold turkey method of starting as you mean to go on and hoping that eventually the need for sleep will overcome the discomfort or distraction of being tied, and the softly softly method of starting out mildly restricted and increasing the severity each time you get a go...

An idea for the living room is a freestanding wooden room divider cut out in a sort of oriental pattern of many interlinked circles and lines. Although it appears continuous it's made of an upper and lower panel in a frame with nothing to highlight that there's a join halfway up, but if you know wha...

Some time ago I thought of telling my wife to tie me up when I was already asleep. Maybe that way I can keep on sleeping like this. But so far I haven't been able to convince her to wake up in the middle of the night to do it to me :lol: Try wearing some unchained leather cuffs to bed to get used t...

The challenge with polyurethane foam is that it takes a while - 10-20 minutes - to expand to its final size and set, and several hours to cure, but the subject could be removed after the initial expansion as long as they don't crush the shape getting out. In the first few minutes it can be shaped bu...

Oh yes, inescapable and slippery, especially around the genitals which you can't reach but can only stimulate by squirming.