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by SergioUK
07 Jun 2021, 16:55
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: nervous
Replies: 23
Views: 3591

Re: nervous

I've done similar but with the end of a length of light chain in a 250ml-1l plastic bottle which is frozen and attached to a leg of the bed with cable ties or velcro straps. So for instance one arm is restrained by that, the other by a timer padlock for redundancy.
by SergioUK
17 May 2021, 08:50
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: public bondage, discretely
Replies: 22
Views: 17545

Re: public bondage, discretely

My ex took me for a walk in a straitjacket a few times. I had a fairly large jacket and the sleeves could be tucked into the pockets with some rolled up bubble wrap in them so they looked real. Then she had me put on a t-shirt and underwear (sometimes with a nappy, then the straitjacket and then tro...
by SergioUK
05 Jan 2021, 13:01
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Nylon cross wrist cuffs - opinions?
Replies: 5
Views: 1546

Re: Nylon cross wrist cuffs - opinions?

One other thought is that if you find you can undo the strap by manipulating it against your back, a couple of turns of clingfilm (saran wrap) over the top should fix it, add a couple of turns of parcel or gaffa tape if you're a real escapologist, although I'd hope she'd be keeping you thoroughly di...
by SergioUK
04 Jan 2021, 15:21
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Nylon cross wrist cuffs - opinions?
Replies: 5
Views: 1546

Re: Nylon cross wrist cuffs - opinions?

They should be fine. The main vulnerability of velcro fastenings is that the wearer can undo the velcro by 'scraping' the strap against something - doorframe, chair back etc. - so think about how to apply them so the straps are behind your wrists so you can reach with fingers, and pointing in a dire...
by SergioUK
31 Dec 2020, 18:35
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 44875

Re: Ties to sleep in?

There are two approaches, the cold turkey method of starting as you mean to go on and hoping that eventually the need for sleep will overcome the discomfort or distraction of being tied, and the softly softly method of starting out mildly restricted and increasing the severity each time you get a go...
by SergioUK
01 Dec 2020, 17:47
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Hidden bondage furniture
Replies: 10
Views: 3959

Re: Hidden bondage furniture

An idea for the living room is a freestanding wooden room divider cut out in a sort of oriental pattern of many interlinked circles and lines. Although it appears continuous it's made of an upper and lower panel in a frame with nothing to highlight that there's a join halfway up, but if you know wha...
by SergioUK
01 Dec 2020, 17:00
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 44875

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Some time ago I thought of telling my wife to tie me up when I was already asleep. Maybe that way I can keep on sleeping like this. But so far I haven't been able to convince her to wake up in the middle of the night to do it to me :lol: Try wearing some unchained leather cuffs to bed to get used t...
by SergioUK
14 Nov 2020, 15:57
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: bound in sand
Replies: 31
Views: 38005

Re: bound in sand

The challenge with polyurethane foam is that it takes a while - 10-20 minutes - to expand to its final size and set, and several hours to cure, but the subject could be removed after the initial expansion as long as they don't crush the shape getting out. In the first few minutes it can be shaped bu...
by SergioUK
14 Nov 2020, 15:11
Forum: Mummification
Topic: Blanket mummification
Replies: 21
Views: 23857

Re: Blanket mummification

Oh yes, inescapable and slippery, especially around the genitals which you can't reach but can only stimulate by squirming. :-)
by SergioUK
12 Nov 2020, 16:29
Forum: Mummification
Topic: Blanket mummification
Replies: 21
Views: 23857

Re: Blanket mummification

Plastic wrap has the advantage of getting very slippery inside as you warm up, if you like that sort of thing obviously.

Make sure the wearer is well hydrated though.
by SergioUK
12 Nov 2020, 16:26
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bondage "Curtain Rods"?
Replies: 2
Views: 1341

Re: Bondage "Curtain Rods"?

Check out 'Key Klamp' - it's a sort of modular scaffolding system that you'll have seen all over for handrails, available in several different materials, diameters and finishes and with a huge range of joints and mountings, so chrome or enamelled might work in a bedroom. The 20mm with a chrome finis...
by SergioUK
19 Oct 2020, 17:55
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: bound in sand
Replies: 31
Views: 38005

Re: bound in sand

The way to do it with polyurethane foam is probably to wrap the occupant in something like cling-film, lay a thin layer of foam that they can lie on and part fill the box so it fits the back half of their body. Then once cured, remove them, cut the top surface smooth, put film over that and fill aga...
by SergioUK
17 Oct 2020, 18:55
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Sex positions with Leather Bondage
Replies: 6
Views: 4291

Re: Sex positions with Leather Bondage

Another vote for spreadeagled on the bed. You're helpless, defenceless and entirely reliant on your partner for everything.
by SergioUK
21 Sep 2020, 16:59
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Currently being punished for watching porn
Replies: 7
Views: 9248

Re: Currently being punished for watching porn

My ex would encourage me to spend a couple of hours watching porn on a Saturday, but either wearing a chastity belt or tied to a chair with a neck brace so I couldn't look away. Then we'd go out shopping and then a meal or drinks, maybe with some special underwear on, knowing, in fact playing up the...
by SergioUK
21 May 2020, 10:34
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Is this forum dead?
Replies: 21
Views: 7940

Re: Is this forum dead?

It's not dead, it's, it's just resting, ah, probably pining for the fjords. But seriously, there's another forum for much the same interests and is pretty busy. Unfortunately the two don't distinguish themselves so they end up as a mirror of each other (not helped when some members post exactly the ...
by SergioUK
26 Apr 2020, 12:27
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: A girl wanted to know why men cross dress.
Replies: 5
Views: 2721

Re: A girl wanted to know why men cross dress.

5/ It presses on a man's body in different places, particularly when moving, which may be stimulating.
by SergioUK
27 Mar 2020, 13:42
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Urethral tube too high/not curved enough
Replies: 2
Views: 3520

Re: Urethral tube too high/not curved enough

What type of device is it? Depending on the metal you might be able to bend the tube a little by putting a length of slightly larger tube over it but too much force and you'd either snap it or more likely break it away from the device. Depending on the metal applying heat evenly with a blowtorch mig...
by SergioUK
02 Feb 2020, 13:56
Forum: Answer Archive
Topic: Anyone know where I can find this?
Replies: 13
Views: 5632

Re: Anyone know where I can find this?

It's his own design which he 3D printed, but it's basically a peristaltic pump, a ball gag with holes, some tubing and a frame to hold it all together. You can find everything but the nice frame on AliExpress for less than twenty quid (/bucks/euros).
by SergioUK
16 Oct 2019, 11:38
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Urethra Insertion Trouble
Replies: 1
Views: 1746

Re: Urethra Insertion Trouble

That pain is trying to tell you something so don't use anything to numb it. Keep using plenty of lube, try more and maybe something with a thicker constituency. Unless you're inserting lube with a syringe first it won't stay with the thing you're inserting for very far up. Get a set of sounds in dif...
by SergioUK
21 Sep 2019, 19:03
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Time Lock Safes
Replies: 8
Views: 7999

Re: Time Lock Safes

I must have had mine about ten years.

My spare keys are kept in a combination key holder in a self-store unit that would be a couple of hours round-trip to access.