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by FatherOfFour
21 May 2018, 20:12
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Fun predicament self bondage fantasy
Replies: 3
Views: 9990

Re: Fun predicament self bondage fantasy

Yep, doable in a few ways: - Motion detection (camera) - PIR - motion detector - sensor - small under carpet foil switches (DIY style) - motion switch (so called Mercury switch - nowadays only a weight on a spring in a tube - dirt cheap) - accelerometers - tin foil on clothes and wires waved in the ...
by FatherOfFour
26 Jun 2017, 06:31
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: New member..
Replies: 6
Views: 5861

Re: New member..

Hello Pinnie,
Welcome,
You're more advanced than me - I've lived my entire life (almost 50) without even knowing what kink is...
Be glad You know what You want - and do it till the very end...
f4
by FatherOfFour
26 Jun 2017, 06:27
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hello All <3
Replies: 3
Views: 3490

Re: Hello All <3

Welcome,
You both are blessed to share the same kink interest...
Keep exploring and enjoy the journey...
f4
by FatherOfFour
08 Jun 2017, 19:19
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?
Replies: 72
Views: 72484

Re: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?

Does anyone else have the urge to get out of bed and... I did some overnight scenarios, it's also interesting to wake up already bound... ...then even come back and work at my computer in some bondage... My computer, my workbench, my kitchen table - there are places I've anchored myself for the job...
by FatherOfFour
12 Apr 2017, 17:33
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Outdoor session (interrupted)
Replies: 0
Views: 2795

Outdoor session (interrupted)

A couple of weeks ago, as the running season started, I've planned my races mixed with some self-bondage sessions. For the new reader, I'll add that I'm in it for the fun (pain), and not for the happy-end... I have an unknowing vanilla wife, and I use sessions as my foreplay for our sex-life. Let's ...
by FatherOfFour
08 Apr 2017, 10:53
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: When was you last tied up?
Replies: 469
Views: 460686

Re: When was you last tied up?

Well,
tried last night (I'm away from home) but my B&B room's window is watched by three block-houses with perfect view in my room...
and the bathroom is too small.
Bummer!
I'll have to wait for the next trip...

Have fun, kink often,
f4
by FatherOfFour
08 Apr 2017, 10:49
Forum: Story Discussion
Topic: editing a story
Replies: 7
Views: 11335

Re: editing a story

I frequently use notepad++ (a freeware sw) to do multiple document editing, file compares, xml/html, or auto-complete and many other uses... it's a swiss-knife of text editing.

Have fun, text Your stories...
f4
by FatherOfFour
23 Mar 2017, 19:37
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Virgin Saving Self for Marriage a Thing of the Past?
Replies: 26
Views: 27335

Re: Virgin Saving Self for Marriage a Thing of the Past?

Besides technicalities (Your interest in bondage, Your ex-boyfriend, ...) there is a serious trade-off: A. - Usually, by living/having sex together/ being engaged for a time before marriage assures You a trial period , some sort of return policy we're used with as educated customers... Certainly, th...
by FatherOfFour
13 Feb 2017, 17:21
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: So, those backup release methods....
Replies: 3
Views: 4465

Re: So, those backup release methods....

I usually have multiple release methods:
- loose binds
- releasable cable ties
- turnbuckles and carabiners
- multiple knots

The ice unpredictability might be fun if You have a wide enough "window of opportunity" home alone...

Have fun, prolonged...
f4
by FatherOfFour
07 Feb 2017, 19:25
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Wooden shackles
Replies: 9
Views: 11429

Re: Wooden shackles

I tried - no pictures sadly - to improvise some from hazelnut twigs (or willow...)
They are very elastic (or any other basket/chair material), and I could not break them.
If multiple loops are used, they are easier for skin.

It works wonderful with rope...

Have fun, grow a bush...
f4
by FatherOfFour
24 Jan 2017, 15:24
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 41985

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Well, this could so easily done almost without equipment: - tight running pants and technical t-shirt - two feet of 8mm rope at my ankles - sleeping bag right on the floor - office binders on my nipples - another two feet of rope for my hands, not a tight knot, but enough to keep my hands "occu...
by FatherOfFour
04 Jan 2017, 19:12
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Older I get, the less I want
Replies: 13
Views: 13566

Re: Older I get, the less I want

Last couple years, since discovering kink, my vanilla sex life is better: my selfbondage sessions give me more "playfulness" and while my wife is pure vanilla, I'm more satisfied with her, keeping sex out of my sessions. I too have a few weeks of not even dreaming, and then three sessions ...
by FatherOfFour
29 Oct 2016, 15:17
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Nipple Clamp Help.
Replies: 5
Views: 8430

Re: Nipple Clamp Help.

My own experience: - for heavy metal clamps (office binders, curtain alligators, ...) I use 15-25 minutes timing - for medium (clothespin spring, custom made, ...) max 30-35 (I have a running park track under 40min) - for lighter clamps, no more than 45-50 - If using vacuum or vacuum and rubber ring...
by FatherOfFour
27 Sep 2016, 19:08
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: What are you wearing right now?
Replies: 137
Views: 119847

Re: What are you wearing right now?

Very tight knee-height spandex, tight cyclist t-shirt over swollen nipples (vacu-play).
In public, traveling without car ten miles thru the city...

I don't think it's my cup of tea, but I had to try it...

Have fun, break the habits,
f4
by FatherOfFour
25 Aug 2016, 07:58
Forum: Answer Archive
Topic: Pain, pleasure, sex and politically corectness
Replies: 15
Views: 37228

Re: Pain, pleasure, sex and politically corectness

Well, Thank You snego, I feel I have to report on my evolution: - Yet no CD - I like the feeling of silk garments, I don't like the hairy monkey with the Flinstone beard from the mirror... - Also no anal play... But (pun intended) during some ointment application, tried with my finger: It could get ...
by FatherOfFour
25 Aug 2016, 07:38
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Strappado: the Safe and Simple way
Replies: 0
Views: 6076

Strappado: the Safe and Simple way

I cannot compete in Heavy league (suspension, mummification, etc.) but I've evolved somehow in the last half year, although my burning questions remained unanswered... (see http://boundforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=102622 ) So I've started to do some strappados, and got to refine them to the following r...
by FatherOfFour
27 Jul 2016, 19:47
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Tying Up in the Car?
Replies: 48
Views: 49099

Re: Tying Up in the Car?

inallwaysbound wrote:...or else Id be very tempted to hook up the brake light relay...
Better mercury switch, or it's less dangerous alternatives: any pothole, speed-bump or corner became "Points of Interest"...

(also my car have tinted windows in the back!)

Have fun, travel in kink,
f4
by FatherOfFour
25 Jul 2016, 20:33
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Tying Up in the Car?
Replies: 48
Views: 49099

Re: Tying Up in the Car?

Thank You, I thought it would be dangerous, but, on the other hand, year by year I witness (big crowdy city) some dick-head fender-bending for looking at some bimbo on the sidewalk... I feel safer with my eyes glued on the road while my body is tormented... I also drive mostly at night... And also, ...
by FatherOfFour
23 Jul 2016, 13:28
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Tying Up in the Car?
Replies: 48
Views: 49099

Re: Tying Up in the Car?

Have anyone tried a similar method of tying in the driver's seat as mine? (previous post: http://boundforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=10&t=102699#p904939) I also would like to know if You consider it safe to kink while driving? I did it and didn't felt "distracted" and I also know drivers th...
by FatherOfFour
22 Jul 2016, 11:48
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Your First Time with BDSM
Replies: 5
Views: 5521

Re: Your First Time with BDSM

Hi, my story is somehow different: - I'm a late bloom, with four kids and vanilla wife (sex in the dark under covers...), - I discovered one day that I like pain - I started clamping my nipples, and trying shibari patterns with climbing cords - Not quite sure what I'm into, but taking baby steps... ...