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by Hertoy
16 Oct 2017, 03:14
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Open bondage relationship...
Replies: 1
Views: 4186

Re: Open bondage relationship...

Women will always be more popular them men in the BD/SM community.
Perhaps its time for a conversation ? The key to making a relationship work is communication.
by Hertoy
26 Jun 2017, 04:02
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Different Preferences in Bondage
Replies: 10
Views: 11505

Re: Different Preferences in Bondage

I prefer leather wrist & ankle cuffs. The set we have features locking buckles and has "D" rings which may be fastened to steel rings on our bed or to eyebolts on the torture table in the playroom. At times my movements may be restricted by short lengths of chain padlocked to my ankle ...
by Hertoy
05 Jun 2017, 21:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Clothing for Bondage Games
Replies: 12
Views: 17026

Re: Clothing for Bondage Games

I was thinking more of clothing to wear for bondage games not "Clothing AS Bondage", but I will keep your ideas in mind. The problem with using scissors is that I don't think we are as willing to keep replacing items of clothing. It isn't so much the expense as the time needed to go find ...
by Hertoy
01 Jun 2017, 17:18
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Clothing for Bondage Games
Replies: 12
Views: 17026

Re: Clothing for Bondage Games

A nice heavy spandex long sleeve leotard can make an affective straight jacket if the sleeves are sewn shut. Add a bit of webbing and a buckle and its not coming off. A pair of tights layered over support pantyhose so they slide around a little bit keeps me aroused and She keeps a scissor handy when...
by Hertoy
02 Mar 2017, 16:20
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: When was you last tied up?
Replies: 470
Views: 546036

Re: When was you last tied up?

In just a few minutes. The Mrs has the day off and she wants to play so while she's getting ready I have to set out the leather restraints and ropes so she can secure me to the four poster bed and have at me. Her favorite toys are the electrics and she already has they set out. Going to be an intere...
by Hertoy
10 Feb 2017, 15:25
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Modifying Bondage Cuffs
Replies: 20
Views: 31590

Re: Modifying Bondage Cuffs

Perhaps wrapping them with black electrical tape or duct tape might work ?
by Hertoy
24 Jan 2017, 11:55
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Older I get, the less I want
Replies: 13
Views: 16866

Re: Older I get, the less I want

I am part of a lifestyle couple in their 60's, we've been married for 23 years, together for closer to 30. If there's one thing we've learned its how to read each other by picking un cues in body language, speech & general actions. We're both into pretty much the same things. My wife fully embra...
by Hertoy
24 Jan 2017, 11:43
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Combine classic games with bondage
Replies: 2
Views: 6834

Re: Combine classic games with bondage

"Wheel of Misfortune" kinda like from the MadMax Thunderdome movie.

Possible selections:
Public Humiliation
Electro session
Ass Paddeling
Riding crop
Whipping
Needles in ___________
Forced Ejaculation
Suspension
Hot Wax
Her Choice
Spin Again
by Hertoy
19 Dec 2016, 23:14
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Nervous about bondage with someone
Replies: 7
Views: 9418

Re: Nervous about bondage with someone

Trust is an important element of BD/SM, it takes time to build trust in a partner and fully understand each other. I've been with my current partner for 22 years and she reads me like a book. Sexually oriented, erotic pain has been a good part of our relationship and she had to gentle me along for a...
by Hertoy
19 Dec 2016, 22:53
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: These clamps
Replies: 2
Views: 4729

Re: These clamps

I don't know what they are called but a dominatrix I was seeing years ago had a set and they are sweet !

Speaking of sweet, that video clip has me all excited. :idea: Now I have to beg my Mrs for a sesssion tonight. :twisted:
by Hertoy
14 Nov 2016, 16:56
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Public Bondage
Replies: 12
Views: 17421

Re: Public Bondage

tiemeupalso wrote:i dont see a difference in that and someone going out in drag.
Big difference. Drag does not usually include wearing restraints and a gag.
by Hertoy
11 Oct 2016, 16:51
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How involved in the bdsm community are you?
Replies: 8
Views: 12377

Re: How involved in the bdsm community are you?

These days it's mostly private play. The Mrs is a former pro Domme and we used to do demonstrations on piercings and electroplay for select individuals, couples and small groups. On occasion she will instruct a curious potential femdomme and I get to be the training dummy but that's about it.
by Hertoy
11 Oct 2016, 16:39
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Youngsters on Bondage Websites Safe Play or No Play?
Replies: 8
Views: 11388

Re: Youngsters on Bondage Websites Safe Play or No Play?

Internet is one thing, BUT if while online discussing activities of an adult nature one either slips up or proclaims they are a minor then all contact stops and a moderator needs to be notified. Personally after that I'd put the minor on the ignore list. If meeting someone new in person I'd insist o...
by Hertoy
26 Jul 2016, 22:53
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Self bondage stimulation for males
Replies: 23
Views: 48439

Re: Self bondage stimulation for males

One more thing, decades ago I used a device called a "recycling intervalometer" - actual use was intended for a photographer's darkroom - found here: https://www.amazon.com/Gralab-451-Timer-Intervalometer-115/dp/B003KP9THM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1469569106&sr=8-1&keywords=recyc...
by Hertoy
26 Jul 2016, 22:37
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Self bondage stimulation for males
Replies: 23
Views: 48439

Re: Self bondage stimulation for males

I was reading about it a little yesterday and it dawned on me that even if it's easy, electricity is like black magic to me and I probably should not trust myself with a diy self electrocution project. So I went on amazon and saw this http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00NCRE4GO/ref=cm_cr_mpr_bdcrb_top...
by Hertoy
25 Jul 2016, 22:26
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Best Anal Toys for Bondage Play?
Replies: 2
Views: 4951

Re: Best Anal Toys for Bondage Play?

I'd suggest the Aneros prostate massager. Available on Amazon here; https://www.amazon.com/Aneros-VF474-Helix-Prostate-Stimulator/dp/B001AQNSFW I'm not connected to the manufacturer or Amazon, just my personal recommendation. Use plenty of lube and start slow. ;) With the Aneros, it's not about usin...
by Hertoy
20 Jul 2016, 11:35
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Creative and stimulating dick bondage
Replies: 2
Views: 8246

Re: Creative and stimulating dick bondage

When my wife get a run in her tights, she will cut off the good leg and roll up the cut portion to a few inches from the toe then cut the roll in two. This leaves a small pouch with two long ties. She ball sack into the pouch and then wraps the ties tightly around the sack, stretching my balls out a...
by Hertoy
19 Jul 2016, 11:44
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Tying Up in the Car?
Replies: 48
Views: 60637

Re: Tying Up in the Car?

In some vans and SUV's there's enough room in the back for a really secure 4 point restraint. :twisted:
by Hertoy
19 Jul 2016, 11:43
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Your First Time with BDSM
Replies: 5
Views: 6987

Re: Your First Time with BDSM

I was lucky enough to be taken in by a woman my age (25 at the time) who was patient, understanding and methodically worked a plan to get me to slowly accept her wishes and to try new things. I had been experimenting with buttplugs and she had me wear a small one for short periods of time at first, ...
by Hertoy
01 Jul 2016, 12:58
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bondage Furniture - North America
Replies: 12
Views: 14580

Re: Bondage Furniture - North America

Perhaps posting a description of what you are looking for might help.