The Bound Forum

yes to the reply by Stahlketten. Keep it simple, reliable (ice will always melt eventually), and inexpensive. On a related note, I find the standard pillory much to uncomfortable to be used for more than a few minutes. The problem may be unique to me, but with my wrists at the same elevation as my n...

I hate zip ties. The hurt and for me they do not have the slightest erotic effece. I generally like the soft stuff like rope, cloth strips, scarves, leather straps. I also hate duct tape. Or any tape at all for that matter. I think it just looks ugly and shows a lack of care and attention. I don't w...

Spread eagle is definitely the way to go. Best position is standing with wrists tied or chained to rings in ceiling and legs apart. All parts accessible.

Of course a true mistress would dress just to please herself, but I would like:
boots with heels
tight leather skirt or pants
sleeveless blouse with bra showing
long leather gloves.

I like the idea of multiple days, but could we add other restraints? Strait jacket? ropes?. I think I could last in a strait jacket for many hours and maybe days. I have not tried but am willing to give it a go. I have been tied with ropes in positions that could be endured for several hours at leas...

I have always liked the idea of being tied to something. I like images of pole tied and tree tied victims, tied spread eagle on a bed, standing spread eagle fixed to floor and ceiling. If not fixed to something solid you might be able to roll around and find something to aid in escape. The pillory h...

Last night I had the following disturbing dream. And, I was not even caged during this night: I was wearing a cock cage, but the tube part was made out of poultry wire. That is, the kind of fencing used for poultry cages that is made of thin wire twisted into hegagons. I got erect and my cock grew t...

yours are so much more detailed than mine. I am humbled. One of these days I will buy a straitjacket. I am interested if anyone has any suggestions for type, brand, retailer. Also one of these days I will build a pillory. Mine will be custom designed to my size. I want to be bent over, but not too m...

police (at least in the U.S.) never cuff in front. Behind is the only secure and safe method.

I have had some very nice experiences with a few partners, but I have some things that I fantasize about and have not tried. Who else has some thing in the back of their twisted minds that they want to try but have not had the opportunity yet. Here are two of mine: 1. Strait jacket. Both being in on...

I too, count myself lucky. Wife and I have enjoyed bondage play for several decades. Of course, that doesn't stop me from wishing for more.

Unpredictable is the important part for me. If she had never left me bound for a long time then I would always know that release is imminent. Since I have been left bound for hours, I know that is a possibility. The uncertainty is part of the turn on.

I had forgotten about the "abandonment" phase. That, too, is very arousing for me. Sometimes, she will say something like "bye now, I'm going shopping, be back later" while I am tied spread eagle to the bed and blindfolded. Of course she does not leave (safety, you know). Then I ...

When I am tied down I like to be left alone for a while. Of course I also like all the attention given to teasing and tormenting later, but I enjoy a half hour or so of anticipation, where I am securely restrained, blindfolded, and gagged. It gives me a chance to let the fantasies run wild. How abou...

btw I think the name of those is "french handcuffs"

These look very sexy to me. Looks like they would be very restrictive, but with the rounding, quite comfortable. Ordinary handcuffs can keep your hands close to each other, but that is about it. You can move your hands all around. These would only allow movement around one axis (the pin). But, I hav...

Not at all too mild or weak. Sounds like a very pleasant and relaxing period of time. Best wishes to you and your wife.

really nice metal work. You should be proud.

With a blindfold, I like the unexpected noises. I am always careful and the chance of being interupted by another person is nearly zero. Still, you can fantasize about being discovered. A fair number of fictional accounts of self bondage include being discovered, and then having the discoverer becom...

Question is: Do you enjoy, at least a bit, those "panicky moments"?