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by dsteve
29 Dec 2023, 20:34
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Mistress / Master clothes
Replies: 3
Views: 13872

Re: Mistress / Master clothes

Of course a true mistress would dress just to please herself, but I would like:
boots with heels
tight leather skirt or pants
sleeveless blouse with bra showing
long leather gloves.
by dsteve
21 Dec 2023, 19:58
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: 30 days slave and 1 choice
Replies: 11
Views: 30102

Re: 30 days slave and 1 choice

I like the idea of multiple days, but could we add other restraints? Strait jacket? ropes?. I think I could last in a strait jacket for many hours and maybe days. I have not tried but am willing to give it a go. I have been tied with ropes in positions that could be endured for several hours at leas...
by dsteve
03 Nov 2023, 16:34
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bucket list
Replies: 12
Views: 39037

Re: Bucket list

I have always liked the idea of being tied to something. I like images of pole tied and tree tied victims, tied spread eagle on a bed, standing spread eagle fixed to floor and ceiling. If not fixed to something solid you might be able to roll around and find something to aid in escape. The pillory h...
by dsteve
31 Oct 2023, 21:18
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Dream
Replies: 1
Views: 21544

Dream

Last night I had the following disturbing dream. And, I was not even caged during this night: I was wearing a cock cage, but the tube part was made out of poultry wire. That is, the kind of fencing used for poultry cages that is made of thin wire twisted into hegagons. I got erect and my cock grew t...
by dsteve
31 Oct 2023, 21:11
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bucket list
Replies: 12
Views: 39037

Re: Bucket list

yours are so much more detailed than mine. I am humbled. One of these days I will buy a straitjacket. I am interested if anyone has any suggestions for type, brand, retailer. Also one of these days I will build a pillory. Mine will be custom designed to my size. I want to be bent over, but not too m...
by dsteve
31 Oct 2023, 21:01
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?
Replies: 34
Views: 116247

Re: Should handcuffs be worn in front or in the back?

police (at least in the U.S.) never cuff in front. Behind is the only secure and safe method.
by dsteve
25 Oct 2023, 00:40
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bucket list
Replies: 12
Views: 39037

Bucket list

I have had some very nice experiences with a few partners, but I have some things that I fantasize about and have not tried. Who else has some thing in the back of their twisted minds that they want to try but have not had the opportunity yet. Here are two of mine: 1. Strait jacket. Both being in on...
by dsteve
26 Sep 2023, 15:37
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: When was you last tied up?
Replies: 481
Views: 685752

Re: When was you last tied up?

I too, count myself lucky. Wife and I have enjoyed bondage play for several decades. Of course, that doesn't stop me from wishing for more.
by dsteve
25 Jul 2023, 16:15
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: attention vs waiting
Replies: 5
Views: 7212

Re: attention vs waiting

Unpredictable is the important part for me. If she had never left me bound for a long time then I would always know that release is imminent. Since I have been left bound for hours, I know that is a possibility. The uncertainty is part of the turn on.
by dsteve
24 Jul 2023, 16:17
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: attention vs waiting
Replies: 5
Views: 7212

Re: attention vs waiting

I had forgotten about the "abandonment" phase. That, too, is very arousing for me. Sometimes, she will say something like "bye now, I'm going shopping, be back later" while I am tied spread eagle to the bed and blindfolded. Of course she does not leave (safety, you know). Then I ...
by dsteve
24 Jul 2023, 00:52
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: attention vs waiting
Replies: 5
Views: 7212

attention vs waiting

When I am tied down I like to be left alone for a while. Of course I also like all the attention given to teasing and tormenting later, but I enjoy a half hour or so of anticipation, where I am securely restrained, blindfolded, and gagged. It gives me a chance to let the fantasies run wild. How abou...
by dsteve
22 Jul 2023, 18:42
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Unusual Handcuffs
Replies: 48
Views: 154154

Re: Unusual Handcuffs

btw I think the name of those is "french handcuffs"
by dsteve
17 Jul 2023, 21:44
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Unusual Handcuffs
Replies: 48
Views: 154154

Re: Unusual Handcuffs

These look very sexy to me. Looks like they would be very restrictive, but with the rounding, quite comfortable. Ordinary handcuffs can keep your hands close to each other, but that is about it. You can move your hands all around. These would only allow movement around one axis (the pin). But, I hav...
by dsteve
06 Jul 2023, 18:30
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: blindfold in sb
Replies: 11
Views: 14617

Re: blindfold in sb

Not at all too mild or weak. Sounds like a very pleasant and relaxing period of time. Best wishes to you and your wife.
by dsteve
06 Jul 2023, 18:26
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bilboes
Replies: 12
Views: 21796

Re: Bilboes

really nice metal work. You should be proud.
by dsteve
26 Jun 2023, 23:43
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: blindfold in sb
Replies: 11
Views: 14617

Re: blindfold in sb

With a blindfold, I like the unexpected noises. I am always careful and the chance of being interupted by another person is nearly zero. Still, you can fantasize about being discovered. A fair number of fictional accounts of self bondage include being discovered, and then having the discoverer becom...
by dsteve
26 Jun 2023, 15:23
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: blindfold in sb
Replies: 11
Views: 14617

Re: blindfold in sb

Question is: Do you enjoy, at least a bit, those "panicky moments"?
by dsteve
24 Jun 2023, 16:23
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: blindfold in sb
Replies: 11
Views: 14617

blindfold in sb

I almost always use a blindfold in self-bondage. It helps me fantasize about what I would like to be going on with a partner. And, if there are keys involved, it makes escape a bit harder. How many of you like to see what is going on, and how many prefer a blindfold. By the way, my shopping wish lis...
by dsteve
13 Jun 2023, 15:35
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Always cuffed when home
Replies: 4
Views: 6784

Re: Always cuffed when home

In an old movie= "Cool Hand Luke" - the star, Paul Newman, is in prison. As punishment for trying to escape he is put in leg irons. As I recall, perhaps imperfectly, these are riveted on and therefore permanent. Another inmate asks how he changes pants. There is a discussion of how this is...
by dsteve
05 Jun 2023, 16:10
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Unusual Suspension Position
Replies: 0
Views: 5379

Unusual Suspension Position

I have been thinking about this image for some time now: https://boundforum.com/download/file.php?id=1497 https://boundforum.com/download/file.php?id=1497 It is from the comix "The Adventures of Sweet Gwendoline" by John Willie. Perhaps many of you have seen this book of bondage related st...