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by dsteve
25 Jul 2021, 17:29
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.
Replies: 8
Views: 13121

Re: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.

definitely a switch. I would like to know what the proportions are in the general population. That is: what proportion of males fantasize about being a dom, sub, switch what proportion of females do the same. My believe, from being in chat sites, is that most men are doms and a few are subs and also...
by dsteve
24 Jul 2021, 15:58
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: nervous
Replies: 24
Views: 15565

Re: nervous

But, don't get too comfortable. Isn't being nervous part of the excitement of self bondage? I want to be able to pretend that I am totally helpless, even if I can get free. There is that moment, when all of the other restraints are in place, and you start to close the last lock or handcuff. click . ...
by dsteve
24 Jul 2021, 15:43
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Premium Total Sensory Deprivation Leather Hood
Replies: 1
Views: 16429

Re: Premium Total Sensory Deprivation Leather Hood

No experience here, but sounds amazing. Locked in the hood, even with hands free you would be pretty helpless. How is the sensory deprivation working in your hood. White noise, or just earplugs?
by dsteve
24 Jul 2021, 15:39
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How would you recommend making a Padded Cell
Replies: 2
Views: 10404

Re: How would you recommend making a Padded Cell

there is a sound deadening product used in high rise condos and apartments. It is meant to go between the concrete and the wood flooring so the downstairs neighbor is not driven mad by upstairs neighbor walking around. https://www.soundproofcow.com/product/impact-barrier-qt-flooring-underlayment/ Ab...
by dsteve
16 May 2021, 17:22
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: public bondage, discretely
Replies: 23
Views: 21165

Re: public bondage, discretely

Once in college, I took my girlfriend out for a walk with hands handcuffed in rear. It was after midnight and I put her coat on over her shoulders so cuffs were not visible. We walked around campus for a while, pausing in dark corners to kiss and neck, then walked back to the apartment. Must have be...
by dsteve
16 May 2021, 17:14
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: help me find this
Replies: 0
Views: 11951

help me find this

I recently saw a device for quick bondage. It was fabric sewn in such a way that there were 4 holes (think of two highway tunnels intersecting at right angles). then there were two straps sewn in diagonal to the openings. The idea was wrists go into the holes crossed and then the straps could be pul...
by dsteve
24 Apr 2021, 18:10
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Cock Cage Advice
Replies: 7
Views: 19686

Re: Cock Cage Advice

Anyone have experience with https://lockthecock.com/ ? I am looking at two possibilities for a cage. https://lockthecock.com/collections/metal-male-chastity-devices/products/stainless-steel-silver-extreme-confinement-chastity-device and https://lockthecock.com/collections/metal-male-chastity-devices...
by dsteve
10 Mar 2021, 18:57
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?
Replies: 72
Views: 77080

Re: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?

I am pretty sure you can find links in different weights that can be closed and riveted for permanence. https://www.amazon.com/Stainless-Steel-Connecting-Marine-Connector/dp/B07DPWC3KK/ref=pd_vtp_5?pd_rd_w=jT6A7&pf_rd_p=1e5e2e9b-6ac2-492a-b1ba-b50c43095367&pf_rd_r=JHXG5VSBHH49VVEK5F07&pd...
by dsteve
15 Jan 2021, 21:46
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How to deal with frustration?
Replies: 5
Views: 3103

Re: How to deal with frustration?

hello Andino, First, don't worry about language. I personally know how hard it is to work in a second language. I envy those who learn languages easily. Second, I don't have any perfect solution. I can only tell you that you are not alone. I would love to have a relationship with a serious Domme. Se...
by dsteve
11 Jan 2021, 21:42
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: planning
Replies: 6
Views: 2446

planning

I find that planning and anticipating a session is almost as much fun as the session itself. Once I know I am going to have some private time I always start thinking. What am I going to wear, what am I going to use, what position will I be in, and what kind of release? So, does anyone just grab a pi...
by dsteve
26 Dec 2020, 18:37
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Tips to get my girlfriend to tie me up more often?
Replies: 8
Views: 2627

Re: Tips to get my girlfriend to tie me up more often?

tell her you would like to be tied then forced to give her oral.
by dsteve
09 Dec 2020, 00:06
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Single leg
Replies: 13
Views: 3518

Re: Single leg

very nice story. I envy your writing ability. I liked the sensory deprivation (earplugs, hood) and the anonymity of the 'handler'. If you have more you should post them here for all to read.
Thanks
by dsteve
02 Dec 2020, 22:06
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Single leg
Replies: 13
Views: 3518

Re: Single leg

I bet that feels nice. Specially when doubled. But, can you not just wiggle your legs a little and get them off? How do you make sure they stay in place?
by dsteve
29 Nov 2020, 17:29
Forum: Author's Corner
Topic: Hostage - Chapter 5 (conclusion)
Replies: 0
Views: 1264

Hostage - Chapter 5 (conclusion)

The Hostage – Chapter 5 So, there we were, Wendy and I, hanging by shackles and chains in the dark. Did I forget to tell you that the girls turned out the lights as they left and shut the door. The dungeon was in total darkness so I could not see Wendy and she could not see me. She was against the ...
by dsteve
25 Nov 2020, 22:58
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Hidden bondage furniture
Replies: 10
Views: 4868

Re: Hidden bondage furniture

If you made the cross piece (the part with the holes for wrist and neck) removable you would be left with a stand that could be anything. A drafting table, a stand for a flat tv. Also, I have been thinking about a headboard and footboard for a bed that had wrist and ankle holes. I think this could b...
by dsteve
14 Nov 2020, 20:24
Forum: Author's Corner
Topic: Hostage - Chapter 4
Replies: 0
Views: 1096

Hostage - Chapter 4

The Hostage – Chapter 4 While Wendy is fastening the busk of my corset and Kat and Red are getting ready to tighten the laces, perhaps now is a good time to talk about my wardrobe. I don’t know what sort of transvestite I am. Either a good partial one or a poor one. Let me explain. I have never had...
by dsteve
09 Nov 2020, 19:34
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: What outfit on the opposite sext does it for you?
Replies: 13
Views: 4574

Re: What outfit on the opposite sext does it for you?

gloves and boots for me. Long (shoulder length) black leather gloves. And knee high boots. These items are just begging to be tied with rope.
But, how about the women here? What do you like to see men wearing?
by dsteve
07 Nov 2020, 23:56
Forum: Author's Corner
Topic: Hostage - Chapter 3
Replies: 0
Views: 1102

Hostage - Chapter 3

Hostage – Chapter 3 On hands and knees, naked, chained at wrists, ankles, and neck, I waited. Ali had the whip now, a braided leather single tail about 5 feet long. Possibly the most cruel choice possible from my collection. She let it drape over my back and ass, teasing me with it. “Let’s start ag...
by dsteve
04 Nov 2020, 17:59
Forum: Author's Corner
Topic: Hostage - Chapter 2
Replies: 0
Views: 1083

Hostage - Chapter 2

Hostage – Chapter 2 I could feel a gentle motion, back and forth, and perhaps twisting a bit. I could see nothing. I had built this room to be totally isolated from anything outside. Accordingly, there was no light whatsoever. Darker than any blindfold. There was a steel bar directly in front of my ...
by dsteve
04 Nov 2020, 16:47
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Cartoons and Bondage
Replies: 7
Views: 2384

Re: Cartoons and Bondage

Lois Lane in the Superman comics and films was a frequent wearer of ropes.
And chains.
Batman had a few.