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by dsteve
28 Feb 2023, 22:33
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Chained in Leg Irons
Replies: 36
Views: 3785

Re: Chained in Leg Irons

an armbinder (single glove) is definitely a specialty item. The image of a woman with her elbows touching does something for me. I don't think there are any men who could get into that position (elbows touching). Just the way our shoulders work.
by dsteve
26 Feb 2023, 18:30
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Chained in Leg Irons
Replies: 36
Views: 3785

Re: Chained in Leg Irons

fancybondage.com is selling a leather armbinder for $19.00. I am wondering how good that can be at that price.
by dsteve
27 Jan 2023, 17:09
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: source for gloves
Replies: 0
Views: 333

source for gloves

Looking for the best pair of long gloves. Must be: leather black well above the elbow, prefer to the armpit large enough for male hands I have seen some incredible looking ones here https://www.inesgloves.com/collections/classic-leather-gloves/products/long-opera-leather-gloves and incredibly expens...
by dsteve
27 Jan 2023, 16:59
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Nipple Clamps
Replies: 7
Views: 1212

Re: Nipple Clamps

I enjoy the painful rush when they are released. But, it takes more than half an hour in clamps to get that rush. I have had them on, quite tight, for up to an hour and my nipples have recovered. Haven't fallen off yet.
by dsteve
27 Jan 2023, 16:56
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Chained in Leg Irons
Replies: 36
Views: 3785

Re: Chained in Leg Irons

Nothing like the sound of heavy chain dragging on the floor. Hope you enjoyed the time.
by dsteve
12 Jan 2023, 17:51
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Wife wants to feel vulnerable
Replies: 2
Views: 1091

Re: Wife wants to feel vulnerable

What does "vulnerable" mean to her? I suppose it means different things to different people. For me, it means being ready to be used at any time, without knowing when or where. JaniceNoyb has some good ideas for this. Tied to the bed is perfect because, with legs apart, you are "ready...
by dsteve
06 Jan 2023, 15:46
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: permanent cuffs
Replies: 27
Views: 36979

Re: permanent cuffs

for the hex bolt type closures I think a tiny drop of epoxy on the threads prior to screwing it in would do the job. Actually, a drop of epoxy in almost any lock or key hole would be pretty permanent. Too bad that welding requires such a high temperature. I think what everyone is looking for is a sm...
by dsteve
05 Jan 2023, 17:51
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: not sure
Replies: 11
Views: 1260

Re: not sure

All I can say is : Thank god for this forum. Thanks for letting us all know that we are not alone, and that there is no real explanation for the diversity of wants and needs we all have. We just have them.
Hope everyone is looking forward to a great 2023.
by dsteve
05 Jan 2023, 17:46
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Solo Newbie
Replies: 7
Views: 1082

Re: Solo Newbie

I think of two distinct sets of self-bondage: one where you provide yourself with some means of escape, and two, where you are dependent on someone to release you. I am fortunate to have someone to do that. One of my favorites is hands over head to a ring in the ceiling. First get your wrists tied i...
by dsteve
24 Dec 2022, 18:08
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: billionaire wish list
Replies: 12
Views: 1683

Re: billionaire wish list

I like the idea of being sugar daddy to a set of both dommes and subs. That way all your need can be met with people you know and trust. What about something with a castle dungeon motif? You know: stone walls, torches on the wall, twisting steps leading down to the below ground space, lots of chains...
by dsteve
21 Dec 2022, 16:38
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: not sure
Replies: 11
Views: 1260

Re: not sure

What about the specifics. Does anyone else have a fetish for really long leather gloves. I know this is not unique to me because I see them used in bondage porn with some frequency. The look dates to those early Irving Klaw photos with Betty Page. Dating myself here.
by dsteve
20 Dec 2022, 17:46
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: not sure
Replies: 11
Views: 1260

Re: not sure

Interesting that JaniceNoyb is only interested in being bound while dressed and I am only interested in being dressed with bondage.
I do want to hear about any other specific and limited fetishes. I hope others respond.
by dsteve
19 Dec 2022, 19:14
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: not sure
Replies: 11
Views: 1260

not sure

Not sure if I can be called a real crossdresser, but here I am: I have very limited and specific fantasies about cross dressing. I have never had the desire to put on a dress or to "pass" in public. My list of preferences include corsets, long gloves, suspender belts, stockings and heels. ...
by dsteve
19 Dec 2022, 18:27
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Cage experience
Replies: 18
Views: 3789

Re: Cage experience

my fantasy cage would be a cell in a dungeon. It would have stone walls and a heavy timber door. The door would have a grate over a small window where my tormentor could peek in before closing the panel over the grate, leaving me in almost total darkness. There would be rings set into the wall where...
by dsteve
15 Dec 2022, 19:54
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: billionaire wish list
Replies: 12
Views: 1683

Re: billionaire wish list

I picture myself shuffling in chains with the other cleaners, wearing a kinky maid outfit. Thanks for the prompt. Another favorite room for me would be in the mansion. I picture something like the estate in "Lady Chatterly's Lover" now on Netflix. Large wood paneled bedrooms with heavy fou...
by dsteve
14 Dec 2022, 15:44
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: billionaire wish list
Replies: 12
Views: 1683

Re: billionaire wish list

Maybe a mix of slaves and paid workers. After all, I want the kitchen staff to be top notch. The folks crafting the bondage and torture devices and the leather costumes need to be the finest artisans. I guess the clean-up could be slaves working under the direction of very strict supervisors. I thin...
by dsteve
14 Dec 2022, 01:03
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Is this a 24/7 relationship?
Replies: 11
Views: 1285

Re: Is this a 24/7 relationship?

I think having "something to do" detracts from the prisoner experience. He should be locked there, in the dark, with nothing but his thoughts. And, I think hand cuffs and shackles would be a must. For me, at least.
by dsteve
13 Dec 2022, 15:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: billionaire wish list
Replies: 12
Views: 1683

billionaire wish list

A famous billionaire just spent 42 billion to buy twitter. I can think of more exciting ways to spend that much. I would want to build a bondage fantasy land. Start with an enormous piece of land. There would be a prison (both modern and from various time periods) a castle with dungeon, an English m...
by dsteve
13 Dec 2022, 15:20
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Is this a 24/7 relationship?
Replies: 11
Views: 1285

Re: Is this a 24/7 relationship?

sounds like full time 24/7 to me.
by dsteve
28 Nov 2022, 23:30
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Semi New SB and a couple questions
Replies: 5
Views: 1276

Re: Semi New SB and a couple questions

Since you have a husband to play with, my fantasy would involve "Being discovered ". That is, get yourself dressed up and tied up as much as you can. Then he comes in, is "shocked " to find you like that. He removes whatever escape mechanism you have, and proceeds to " teach...