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by therealme28
27 Dec 2016, 03:47
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Currently being punished for watching porn
Replies: 7
Views: 13412

Currently being punished for watching porn

I was told not to watch porn and was caught watching 'submission' on showtime. As punishment: I was only allowed to use a small handheld vibrator in my panties turned on. It really only teased me and gave extremely small orgasms. I was to watch all episodes tonight. I am to wear a small anal plug al...
by therealme28
24 Dec 2016, 20:20
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Understanding my sexuality
Replies: 12
Views: 16444

Re: Understanding my sexuality

Just wanted to update you all and say that in my recent explorations I am slowly learning that the more I try that the more I dislike. I might possibly only enjoy light bondage and light spanking to moderately.
by therealme28
24 Dec 2016, 20:00
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Nervous about bondage with someone
Replies: 7
Views: 10438

Re: Nervous about bondage with someone

Just to let everyone know, I didn't go through with this. Thanks for the advice.
by therealme28
21 Dec 2016, 20:24
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Official Dares and Ideas Thread
Replies: 831
Views: 1076963

Re: Official Dares and Ideas Thread

I had an idea that some of you may like. On social media such as Fetlife, Post a writing or image and for every like or comment you must do something. It might be better used for a dare such: "wear an anal plug an hour per like so if you get 6 likes then you must wear an anal plug for 6 hours.&...
by therealme28
21 Dec 2016, 20:05
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Understanding my sexuality
Replies: 12
Views: 16444

Re: Understanding my sexuality

Yes, I agree.

I'm open to the idea of dating in kink but it makes me very nervous almost to the point that I can't go through with it. Not sure if that is because I only like light kink or if that is just me.
by therealme28
20 Dec 2016, 16:52
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Understanding my sexuality
Replies: 12
Views: 16444

Re: Understanding my sexuality

just enjoy it and dont worry about lables.just be yourself. Good advice. I think I'm just caught up on the idea that I have to date in the kink community even though I only like a little bit of kink. I don't necessarily look at it as a need. However, I've heard so many times that I need to go datin...
by therealme28
19 Dec 2016, 20:55
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Understanding my sexuality
Replies: 12
Views: 16444

Re: Understanding my sexuality

I suppose you may look at me as a submissive or the S type during play. However, I don't identify as a submissive. Even if I may look like one during play.
by therealme28
19 Dec 2016, 01:17
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Older I get, the less I want
Replies: 13
Views: 18759

Older I get, the less I want

I realize that I'm only 28 and about to turn 29 but the older I get the less bondage and kink I want. I still want on a rare occasion, but the more I'm realizing that I want less and less. I'm also realizing that I dislike things that I thought I might have liked, after trying. The odd part to me is...
by therealme28
18 Dec 2016, 23:12
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Nervous about bondage with someone
Replies: 7
Views: 10438

Nervous about bondage with someone

OK, so I am going to get spanked by a man that I've been with a few times. We have known each other for a year and a couple of months. I would really prefer him to tie my hands while spanking me. I'm still a little nervous! When do you know it is too soon to try bondage with someone? Is a nervous fe...
by therealme28
18 Dec 2016, 21:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Going to get spanked. Paddle suggestions?
Replies: 4
Views: 6826

Re: Going to get spanked. Paddle suggestions?

Okay the one I want is back in stock. Also, I noticed it is a bit wider than I thought. So it is not very thin. Perhaps the perfect kind of paddle for the spanking I'm about to receive!!! :D I'm really tempted to be tied up during the spanking session and I know it might sound odd but I don't feel c...
by therealme28
18 Dec 2016, 20:37
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Going to get spanked. Paddle suggestions?
Replies: 4
Views: 6826

Re: Going to get spanked. Paddle suggestions?

Thanks for clearing that up for me. I think I will get the long and wide one. There is one with a purple ribbon that is adorable but they are running out of stock. However, there is another very similar just without the purple ribbon. I'm very excited. Calling a paddle adorable! :lol: I'm not going ...
by therealme28
18 Dec 2016, 06:38
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Going to get spanked. Paddle suggestions?
Replies: 4
Views: 6826

Going to get spanked. Paddle suggestions?

I've been looking at paddles and I have a few picked out. Still not sure what the best one is. I found one that I really like, the appearance, and everything but it is almost out of stock. They only have one more left. Anyway, before I purchase I wanted to get some advice. The difference in the padd...
by therealme28
17 Dec 2016, 21:02
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Understanding my sexuality
Replies: 12
Views: 16444

Re: Understanding my sexuality

I'm 28 and turning 29 in January. Yes, I am treading carefully and so are they. In a relationship, I would only want one man and I can understand what you are saying. I would not draw a significant distinction between a [female] submissive and a sexual submissive. I suspect most (all?) submissives w...
by therealme28
16 Dec 2016, 19:18
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Understanding my sexuality
Replies: 12
Views: 16444

Understanding my sexuality

For the first time, I feel as though I understand myself. I thought I was a sexual submissive for a very long time, for years. After years of exploring in light ways, discussions, dominants, light dominants, and a little bit of therapy I can now say that I am not a sexual submissive. Rather I have s...