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by rmcingle
16 Sep 2022, 16:14
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Deep Throat Training Need help designing an electro shock device.
Replies: 2
Views: 347

Re: Deep Throat Training Need help designing an electro shock device.

It would be feasible to make something. You need to get or make a dildo that has a hollow tube running through it. The back of the dildo will have a hose attached that will lead to a vacuum switch. In addition to the hole at the tip of the dildo there will be one near the base. The idea is that the ...
by rmcingle
08 Sep 2022, 17:51
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Suggestions for a Forfeit ?
Replies: 1
Views: 350

Re: Suggestions for a Forfeit ?

Well, first idea that came to mind was a monetary forfeit, but after a moments reflection I thought better of that. It would not do good to have your pro Domme profit by pushing you beyond your limits. A second safeword is fairly common: Yellow means you are getting close, Red means stop uncondition...
by rmcingle
08 Sep 2022, 17:43
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Humbler and house chore
Replies: 6
Views: 658

Re: Humbler and house chore

I have only a couple of experiences with a humbler, and those were relatively brief. I am sure that everyone's experiences will vary, at least a little, mainly dependent upon how "low hung" you are. I have seen pictures of guys who have stretched their balls out so far that I am sure that ...
by rmcingle
06 Sep 2022, 05:50
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: New Self Bondage Setup
Replies: 5
Views: 1098

Re: New Self Bondage Setup

Be wary of residual magnetism. When the electric current in the electro-magnet shuts off, it is common for the system to retain a bit of magnetism. It will be weak, but it could continue to hold a key indefinitely. Be sure to test this setup multiple times. One way that you can dramatically decrease...
by rmcingle
31 Aug 2022, 20:48
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Remote control bondage
Replies: 20
Views: 20816

Re: Remote control bondage

I have had very poor results using X-10. I am surprised that system still exists. There are lots of options for remote control of lights and/or electrical outlets/plugs. For example, I can as Siri to turn my porch lights on from anywhere. I have WiFi connected plug switches that I can turn on using ...
by rmcingle
03 Nov 2021, 01:09
Forum: Find a Friend
Topic: Looking for online Dom for bondage
Replies: 4
Views: 2984

Re: Looking for online Dom for bondage

I wish I had spotted this thread a month earlier!

I do enjoy online domination, either by email exchange or video chat. I have had a few partners that I dominated for months.

If you ever have the need to do this again, I would be happy to oblige

R. Mc.
by rmcingle
03 Nov 2021, 01:05
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.
Replies: 11
Views: 19682

Re: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.

I used to be all submissive, but then I discovered that it was a lot easier to find a submissive than a domme.

I do prefer to have one role per partner. There are those I dominate, and those I submit to, but I don't swap roles with a single partner.

R. Mc.
by rmcingle
17 Aug 2021, 23:25
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Time outs for rule breaking
Replies: 3
Views: 2906

Re: Time outs for rule breaking

I am envious of your situation! I would have thought that an uncomfortable chair for a timeout would have been part of the punishment! A timeout in a nice comfy chair is a nap! Whatever works for you, though. I like the idea of there being a strict rule for something minor and easy to follow, and a ...
by rmcingle
08 Sep 2020, 17:37
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hi from a dominant woman in India
Replies: 6
Views: 3946

Re: Hi from a dominant woman in India

Welcome!

Do you have any of your own stories to share?
by rmcingle
30 Aug 2020, 22:12
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.
Replies: 14
Views: 12288

Re: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.

Many years ago I had a situation at work that has left me fantasizing for over 30 years. I am an electrical engineer, and I managed a group that included engineers, technicians and a few 'assemblers'. The assemblers were almost always female, for some reason they could do the delicate work so much b...
by rmcingle
30 Aug 2020, 22:06
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Dom Education
Replies: 2
Views: 2130

Re: Dom Education

In the Los Angeles area I highly recommend Sanctuary LAX

They have classes, seminars, demonstrations, etc.

Unfortunately, they are closed right now due to the pandemic. They are doing some online things so something might come up that you might enjoy.

R. Mc.
by rmcingle
15 Jul 2020, 16:11
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Your most recurrent fantasy
Replies: 74
Views: 50544

Re: Your most recurrent fantasy

My recurring fantasy is of a dominant role. I have recently acquired some property in a rural area, which includes a run down barn. As I am inspecting the property I discover a woman, naked save for the various forms of bondage, bound and gagged in the barn. It is obvious to me that she has put hers...
by rmcingle
16 Jun 2020, 19:34
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Looking for new idea for my online sub
Replies: 3
Views: 4679

Re: Looking for new idea for my online sub

I had an online sub that I tormented for a while. Here are some of the things I did. I would have her wear a skirt to work (a fairly common occurrence). On her lunch break I would make her go outside, find a grassy spot where she could just sit and enjoy the sunshine! Bring her lunch, eat it outside...
by rmcingle
03 Jun 2020, 06:46
Forum: Media Share
Topic: A Select Few
Replies: 23
Views: 17536

Re: A Select Few

I figured it had to be at least that old, if not older. It looks like the front seat is a bench. You don't see that anymore! Bench seats were great when you wanted to hold your girl close while you drove!

R.Mc.
by rmcingle
02 Jun 2020, 05:27
Forum: Media Share
Topic: A Select Few
Replies: 23
Views: 17536

Re: A Select Few

I am curious about the car you are in! Looks like an old classic!
by rmcingle
28 May 2020, 22:28
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: submissive to wife
Replies: 2
Views: 2929

Re: submissive to wife

Welcome!

I am also in a 'wife led' marriage! It's just that my wife doesn't do any form of BDSM with me, or hardly anything sexual at all!
by rmcingle
28 May 2020, 16:52
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: What do you most often use?
Replies: 31
Views: 25713

Re: What do you most often use?

Petrajane: is that a self bondage scene you described? I am wondering what your release mechanism is.

Sounds delicious though!

R.Mc.
by rmcingle
27 May 2020, 17:02
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: What do you most often use?
Replies: 31
Views: 25713

Re: What do you most often use?

Hmmm, I guess I would have to say the leather wrist cuffs, as they are the usual way that I secure my hands. A butt plug is a common addition. A medium sized one if the bondage is for the entire night, a large one if the duration is a few hours or less. Next would probably be nipple clamps, if the d...
by rmcingle
26 May 2020, 19:20
Forum: Story Discussion
Topic: My Novel
Replies: 24
Views: 18113

Re: My Novel

Tesigri: I would be interesting in proof reading your novel! I have written a lot of BDSM stories myself: most posted for free on various websites, a couple that are being sold on Amazon. I know from my own experience that having an 'editor' would have helped me a lot! Shoot me a PM if you are inter...
by rmcingle
26 May 2020, 19:17
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Am I Alone?
Replies: 15
Views: 15420

Re: Am I Alone?

I have chatted with several women who were locked in chastity, so you certainly are not alone, although I will admit that you are probably a minority compared to the number of men that are into it. One of the women that I used to chat with occasionally was a lesbian pair, and they were both locked i...