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by rmcingle
15 Mar 2023, 22:12
Forum: Story Discussion
Topic: Compulsion to finish a story?
Replies: 2
Views: 724

Re: Compulsion to finish a story?

I will start a story, and then work on it for years! I may get the story basically told in a reasonable amount of time, but I will keep going back and tweaking it. No matter how many times I have edited a story I will always find a typo or poorly phrased section, especially if I haven't read it over...
by rmcingle
10 Feb 2023, 22:31
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: self cbt on cam
Replies: 1
Views: 589

Re: self cbt on cam

Welcome!

Where do you do the Cam ?

R.Mc.
by rmcingle
10 Feb 2023, 22:27
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Wives: Do you ever tie your husband up and just watch tv or chill?
Replies: 14
Views: 2435

Re: Wives: Do you ever tie your husband up and just watch tv or chill?

There has been a few times that my wife did this as a form of punishment. Some people will have the TV on just as background noise, but for me, the TV demands my attention. When we go to a restaurant that has a TV playing, even with the sound off, I will try to take a seat where I can't see the TV, ...
by rmcingle
05 Jan 2023, 01:10
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Solo Newbie
Replies: 7
Views: 1637

Re: Solo Newbie

KnottyGirl: Yes, I would love to see pictures of your breast harness! I am sure we all would. If you would like to get some ideas for self bondage, give us some information so we know what we have to work with. Do you live alone, or do you have roommates? Do you live in a house, condo, apartment, ??...
by rmcingle
31 Dec 2022, 22:45
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: billionaire wish list
Replies: 12
Views: 1858

Re: billionaire wish list

What about something with a castle dungeon motif? You know: stone walls, torches on the wall, twisting steps leading down to the below ground space, lots of chains and shackles hanging from the walls. And, if underground, would not upset the neighbors. I wonder what the county building department w...
by rmcingle
23 Dec 2022, 00:31
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: billionaire wish list
Replies: 12
Views: 1858

Re: billionaire wish list

If I won a billion dollars in the lottery . . . I think I would buy a couple of properties to use as BDSM play spaces. One would be in the city close to where I would be living. Perhaps an old Victorian, something with a large basement! I would have it set up as a BDSM dungeon and then have regular ...
by rmcingle
23 Dec 2022, 00:18
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Cage experience
Replies: 19
Views: 5269

Re: Cage experience

Was it difficult to stay 2 hours in the fetal position? I am fairly flexible in that direction. I can't do the splits and all I can manage is to touch my toes when bending at the waist, but I can fold my legs up tight to my butt. I frequently will sit on my heels when working on something on the fl...
by rmcingle
26 Oct 2022, 20:11
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Cage experience
Replies: 19
Views: 5269

Re: Cage experience

I have locked myself in a cage as selfbondage. It was a medium sized dog kennel, not large enough to stretch out, I had to stay in a fetal position. A simple combination padlock to keep me securely in place (I had zip-tied all the rods that would collapse the cage if removed). The room was dark with...
by rmcingle
11 Oct 2022, 02:49
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Semi New SB and a couple questions
Replies: 5
Views: 1606

Re: Semi New SB and a couple questions

There are a couple real simple release mechanisms that will provide the thrill of being inescapable. One is to throw some ice cubes into a sack, then tie a cord to the neck of the sack and pass it and the neck of the bag through a steel ring. The bulk of the ice cubes will keep the rest of the bag f...
by rmcingle
16 Sep 2022, 16:14
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Deep Throat Training Need help designing an electro shock device.
Replies: 3
Views: 1360

Re: Deep Throat Training Need help designing an electro shock device.

It would be feasible to make something. You need to get or make a dildo that has a hollow tube running through it. The back of the dildo will have a hose attached that will lead to a vacuum switch. In addition to the hole at the tip of the dildo there will be one near the base. The idea is that the ...
by rmcingle
08 Sep 2022, 17:51
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Suggestions for a Forfeit ?
Replies: 1
Views: 927

Re: Suggestions for a Forfeit ?

Well, first idea that came to mind was a monetary forfeit, but after a moments reflection I thought better of that. It would not do good to have your pro Domme profit by pushing you beyond your limits. A second safeword is fairly common: Yellow means you are getting close, Red means stop uncondition...
by rmcingle
08 Sep 2022, 17:43
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Humbler and house chore
Replies: 6
Views: 1923

Re: Humbler and house chore

I have only a couple of experiences with a humbler, and those were relatively brief. I am sure that everyone's experiences will vary, at least a little, mainly dependent upon how "low hung" you are. I have seen pictures of guys who have stretched their balls out so far that I am sure that ...
by rmcingle
06 Sep 2022, 05:50
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: New Self Bondage Setup
Replies: 5
Views: 3065

Re: New Self Bondage Setup

Be wary of residual magnetism. When the electric current in the electro-magnet shuts off, it is common for the system to retain a bit of magnetism. It will be weak, but it could continue to hold a key indefinitely. Be sure to test this setup multiple times. One way that you can dramatically decrease...
by rmcingle
31 Aug 2022, 20:48
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Remote control bondage
Replies: 22
Views: 25011

Re: Remote control bondage

I have had very poor results using X-10. I am surprised that system still exists. There are lots of options for remote control of lights and/or electrical outlets/plugs. For example, I can as Siri to turn my porch lights on from anywhere. I have WiFi connected plug switches that I can turn on using ...
by rmcingle
03 Nov 2021, 01:09
Forum: Find a Friend
Topic: Looking for online Dom for bondage
Replies: 4
Views: 3509

Re: Looking for online Dom for bondage

I wish I had spotted this thread a month earlier!

I do enjoy online domination, either by email exchange or video chat. I have had a few partners that I dominated for months.

If you ever have the need to do this again, I would be happy to oblige

R. Mc.
by rmcingle
03 Nov 2021, 01:05
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.
Replies: 11
Views: 20581

Re: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.

I used to be all submissive, but then I discovered that it was a lot easier to find a submissive than a domme.

I do prefer to have one role per partner. There are those I dominate, and those I submit to, but I don't swap roles with a single partner.

R. Mc.
by rmcingle
17 Aug 2021, 23:25
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Time outs for rule breaking
Replies: 3
Views: 3453

Re: Time outs for rule breaking

I am envious of your situation! I would have thought that an uncomfortable chair for a timeout would have been part of the punishment! A timeout in a nice comfy chair is a nap! Whatever works for you, though. I like the idea of there being a strict rule for something minor and easy to follow, and a ...
by rmcingle
08 Sep 2020, 17:37
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hi from a dominant woman in India
Replies: 6
Views: 4397

Re: Hi from a dominant woman in India

Welcome!

Do you have any of your own stories to share?
by rmcingle
30 Aug 2020, 22:12
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.
Replies: 14
Views: 13086

Re: Bondage fantasies with friends, co-workers, etc.

Many years ago I had a situation at work that has left me fantasizing for over 30 years. I am an electrical engineer, and I managed a group that included engineers, technicians and a few 'assemblers'. The assemblers were almost always female, for some reason they could do the delicate work so much b...
by rmcingle
30 Aug 2020, 22:06
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Dom Education
Replies: 2
Views: 2463

Re: Dom Education

In the Los Angeles area I highly recommend Sanctuary LAX

They have classes, seminars, demonstrations, etc.

Unfortunately, they are closed right now due to the pandemic. They are doing some online things so something might come up that you might enjoy.

R. Mc.