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by Tesgri
02 Jun 2021, 18:02
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: nervous
Replies: 23
Views: 6909

Re: nervous

I would say it's normal. And a healthy level of it should be kept - things can go wrong doing self-bondage and cause a lot of issues.

Practice and experience are really the only ways to get over it imo.
by Tesgri
30 May 2021, 19:09
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.
Replies: 6
Views: 6836

Re: Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.

I can switch but I prefer not to. Subby all the way.

But sometimes I gotta top if I'm teaching my wife a new rope tie I learned.
by Tesgri
19 May 2021, 05:45
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: public bondage, discretely
Replies: 22
Views: 19581

Re: public bondage, discretely

Cloaks and cold days are great for hiding bondage. I had a friend who really liked to be bound in public; we went to get take-aways a couple of times, with her arms in a box tie under the cloak, once in broad daylight. I've done something similar, never went for take-out but used a big winter coat ...
by Tesgri
10 May 2021, 04:09
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: public bondage, discretely
Replies: 22
Views: 19581

Re: public bondage, discretely

Not sure I'd said that, I've owned a pair of handcuffs for like a decade. If I did it may have been for a specific style of cuffs.

As for its comfort, I don't mind it, it's basically just like holding my hands clasped in front of me.
by Tesgri
08 May 2021, 20:51
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: public bondage, discretely
Replies: 22
Views: 19581

Re: public bondage, discretely

I have a hoodie we cut the pockets out of to do stuff like this, though it works with just regular handcuffs. Done it a few times, it's rather fun.
by Tesgri
29 Mar 2021, 23:12
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Start with bondage
Replies: 8
Views: 3789

Re: Start with bondage

Just my own, personal opinion, here: The safeword/safe signal should always, always, ALWAYS be held absolutely sacred. There is no "misuse" of it. If the 'prisoner' uses it, even if they "simply want out", then it should be respected, full stop. A top that ignores the agreed-upo...
by Tesgri
29 Mar 2021, 07:58
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: rip
Replies: 3
Views: 1686

Re: rip

I've been busy. We moved house; and still working on editing my book. I just don't always think to check the forums :)
by Tesgri
29 Mar 2021, 07:55
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: When was you last tied up?
Replies: 469
Views: 469184

Re: When was you last tied up?

Ropes, ballgag, simple stuff.

Though since I last posted we had to enjoy the new place - so I ended up in a strappado. Never done it before, didn't hurt in the places I thought it would.
by Tesgri
21 Mar 2021, 19:59
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: When was you last tied up?
Replies: 469
Views: 469184

Re: When was you last tied up?

I think it was the 11th. Just before moving house wife and I figured we had to give it one last goodbye. Ended up bound, gagged and used rather repeatedly for about two hours. I tell ya, my new chastity belt with attachments is fun. Can't escape what's in ya if it's locked in place.
by Tesgri
16 Mar 2021, 21:35
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Latest Bondage Toy in your collection
Replies: 6
Views: 2917

Re: Latest Bondage Toy in your collection

Mine would be my new chastity belt. Plenty of stuff on the wishlist still to come.
by Tesgri
12 Mar 2021, 15:35
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hi, I'm Sandra
Replies: 4
Views: 1328

Re: Hi, I'm Sandra

Hey Sandra, welcome to the forum. Hope you like it here. :)
by Tesgri
06 Mar 2021, 17:20
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Tonight’s predicament.
Replies: 3
Views: 2329

Re: Tonight’s predicament.

Sounds like a great night, I'm sure you'll both enjoy it :)
by Tesgri
28 Feb 2021, 01:43
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How's your 2021?
Replies: 3
Views: 936

Re: How's your 2021?

Started okay, lots of time with my books, and ropes. Gonna be moving soon, so yay... packing and cleaning. Eight years worth of junk to sort through and get rid of. But new place has a garage, and suspension anchors...
by Tesgri
26 Feb 2021, 22:39
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Am I Alone?
Replies: 15
Views: 7336

Re: Am I Alone?

I can attest to the collar thing too. I've worn my steel collar 24/7 for 16 years (since I was 18) and it's something you have to keep clean and lubricate every now and then. Especially in the summer. Though as an aside a steel collar in summer can also be a blessing, a quick trip into the freezer w...
by Tesgri
26 Feb 2021, 15:41
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 45303

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Has anyone tried a way to sleep tied with ropes (not handcuffs or metal elements) so that you can still fall asleep? I've often fallen asleep with ropes, not exactly on my wrists though if that was the qualification. Mostly it's things like chest harnesses or tortoise shell style ties. I find that ...
by Tesgri
26 Feb 2021, 15:38
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Am I Alone?
Replies: 15
Views: 7336

Re: Am I Alone?

It does. For me mostly around my hips. And that's due to sweat build up and friction. It can lead to small rashes or sore spots - but with proper care (ie cleaning, adjusting, making sure no spot is being rubbed just because the belt is sitting funny, etc) can alleviate them. Of course taking the be...
by Tesgri
21 Feb 2021, 16:19
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Your most recurrent fantasy
Replies: 74
Views: 23628

Re: Your most recurrent fantasy

all this talk about get tied up in car trunk remind me of my fantasy of selfbondage on trunk secretly on public, shopping complex underground parking lot. love to try but my car is small hatchback which is kind of crampy. The wife and I have actually talked about doing something like that with a tr...
by Tesgri
20 Feb 2021, 19:16
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Uh, hello I suppose!
Replies: 5
Views: 972

Re: Uh, hello I suppose!

Welcome.

Great picture :)
by Tesgri
18 Feb 2021, 23:45
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 90
Views: 45303

Re: Ties to sleep in?

Damn and here when I actually remember my dreams (which is rare) it's just walking around the backyard of childhood home.
by Tesgri
04 Feb 2021, 05:18
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Female chastity
Replies: 8
Views: 2810

Re: Female chastity

Not sure how old I was, it's just been an interest/fetish of mine for as long as I can recall. Probably back even in my teenage years. I don't usually have issues with clothing, besides jeans, skirts and dresses of course are easy, other pants (dress, cargo, yoga) are alright though if to snug can s...