The Bound Forum

I would say it's normal. And a healthy level of it should be kept - things can go wrong doing self-bondage and cause a lot of issues.

Practice and experience are really the only ways to get over it imo.

I can switch but I prefer not to. Subby all the way.

But sometimes I gotta top if I'm teaching my wife a new rope tie I learned.

Cloaks and cold days are great for hiding bondage. I had a friend who really liked to be bound in public; we went to get take-aways a couple of times, with her arms in a box tie under the cloak, once in broad daylight. I've done something similar, never went for take-out but used a big winter coat ...

Not sure I'd said that, I've owned a pair of handcuffs for like a decade. If I did it may have been for a specific style of cuffs.

As for its comfort, I don't mind it, it's basically just like holding my hands clasped in front of me.

I have a hoodie we cut the pockets out of to do stuff like this, though it works with just regular handcuffs. Done it a few times, it's rather fun.

Just my own, personal opinion, here: The safeword/safe signal should always, always, ALWAYS be held absolutely sacred. There is no "misuse" of it. If the 'prisoner' uses it, even if they "simply want out", then it should be respected, full stop. A top that ignores the agreed-upo...

I've been busy. We moved house; and still working on editing my book. I just don't always think to check the forums

Ropes, ballgag, simple stuff.

Though since I last posted we had to enjoy the new place - so I ended up in a strappado. Never done it before, didn't hurt in the places I thought it would.

I think it was the 11th. Just before moving house wife and I figured we had to give it one last goodbye. Ended up bound, gagged and used rather repeatedly for about two hours. I tell ya, my new chastity belt with attachments is fun. Can't escape what's in ya if it's locked in place.

Mine would be my new chastity belt. Plenty of stuff on the wishlist still to come.

Hey Sandra, welcome to the forum. Hope you like it here.

Sounds like a great night, I'm sure you'll both enjoy it

Started okay, lots of time with my books, and ropes. Gonna be moving soon, so yay... packing and cleaning. Eight years worth of junk to sort through and get rid of. But new place has a garage, and suspension anchors...

I can attest to the collar thing too. I've worn my steel collar 24/7 for 16 years (since I was 18) and it's something you have to keep clean and lubricate every now and then. Especially in the summer. Though as an aside a steel collar in summer can also be a blessing, a quick trip into the freezer w...

Has anyone tried a way to sleep tied with ropes (not handcuffs or metal elements) so that you can still fall asleep? I've often fallen asleep with ropes, not exactly on my wrists though if that was the qualification. Mostly it's things like chest harnesses or tortoise shell style ties. I find that ...

It does. For me mostly around my hips. And that's due to sweat build up and friction. It can lead to small rashes or sore spots - but with proper care (ie cleaning, adjusting, making sure no spot is being rubbed just because the belt is sitting funny, etc) can alleviate them. Of course taking the be...

all this talk about get tied up in car trunk remind me of my fantasy of selfbondage on trunk secretly on public, shopping complex underground parking lot. love to try but my car is small hatchback which is kind of crampy. The wife and I have actually talked about doing something like that with a tr...

Welcome.

Great picture

Damn and here when I actually remember my dreams (which is rare) it's just walking around the backyard of childhood home.

Not sure how old I was, it's just been an interest/fetish of mine for as long as I can recall. Probably back even in my teenage years. I don't usually have issues with clothing, besides jeans, skirts and dresses of course are easy, other pants (dress, cargo, yoga) are alright though if to snug can s...