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- 18 Mar 2024, 00:51
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: I feel like selfbondage is a waste
- Replies: 11
- Views: 17170
Re: I feel like selfbondage is a waste
What do you feel is the purpose of self bondage here? It feels to me like the purpose for you is to cum. Once you have done it, you are done and want to be freed. Not everyone has that dynamic, some like the humiliation, the feeling of helplessness, the denial of orgasm. I usually end the session of...
- 18 Mar 2024, 00:41
- Forum: General Discussion
- Topic: Autism
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1004
Re: Autism
I'm not formally diagnosed but I hit a lot of ADHD traits and there may be a touch of autism in there too...
But I am fairly sure that many in the lifestyle are ND...
But I am fairly sure that many in the lifestyle are ND...
- 26 Aug 2023, 13:56
- Forum: Find a Friend
- Topic: gagged guys to chat with
- Replies: 7
- Views: 9267
Re: gagged guys to chat with
Very much in to gags and have a bit of a collection. Always open to DMs and random chats about them.
- 22 Aug 2023, 23:44
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: T shaped Pantyhose
- Replies: 0
- Views: 23224
T shaped Pantyhose
Not sure this is quite the right board for this question as it is mainly about nylon fetish rather than crossdressing, but I suppose you may know the answer... I've recently heard about T shaped crotch pantyhose in a context that suggests it is somehow better than non T shaped from a fetish point of...
- 13 Apr 2023, 09:04
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: First step into the bondage world, where to begin?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1977
Re: First step into the bondage world, where to begin?
I don't think I have ever heard of a company that offers such a service before so this is completely new to me. The most likely source of this sort of service would be a professional dominant (mostly female, though I believe some males ones do exist) and they would usually offer whatever services yo...
- 12 Apr 2023, 11:14
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: Buying Heels
- Replies: 18
- Views: 42859
Re: Buying Heels
Five inch heels take a LOT of practice! You might try something lower for cooking and other housework. I have a nice pair of wing-tip oxfords with a 3" block heel that are quite comfortable for all day wear. They aren't as sexy looking as stilettoes with 4" or 5" spikes, but they loo...
- 12 Apr 2023, 00:01
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Cage experience
- Replies: 19
- Views: 12171
Re: Cage experience
I did a pro session at a location (actually a night club used for fetish and kink nights) which had a basement with cells in it. I was in a small (size of a toilet cubicle) room with iron bars for a door, sat on a bench with my arms chained above me at the start of the session. Later in the session ...
- 11 Apr 2023, 19:33
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Gag strap problem
- Replies: 11
- Views: 6967
Re: Gag strap problem
I own something called a 'stuffer mouth gag' which is basically a ball of soft leather that is stuffed into the mouth and completely fills it. It has a face plate and a strap attached to that. You cannot push it with the tongue at all because it immobilises the tongue completely. Another option migh...
- 20 Jan 2023, 20:32
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: Nipple Clamps
- Replies: 7
- Views: 6673
Re: Nipple Clamps
The sudden rush of blood to the area that has been deprived? Possibly. There may be other causes too.
- 20 Jan 2023, 01:28
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: Nipple Clamps
- Replies: 7
- Views: 6673
Re: Nipple Clamps
The medical issue is that you risk ischaemic reperfusion injury if you cut off the supply of blood to an area completely for more than 15 minutes and then reintroduce the supply suddenly. First aiders get the same advice for people trapped - if they have been trapped for longer than 15 minutes you d...
- 10 Jan 2023, 00:05
- Forum: Chastity
- Topic: Sleeping in cage 24/7 and risks
- Replies: 3
- Views: 6224
Re: Sleeping in cage 24/7 and risks
I've had a chastity device on overnight before. First thing I will say is that there is a lot to be said for finding the right device to fit you. Not every device fits every person perfectly so you have to play around with different styles and types of device to see what works for you. Biologically ...
- 05 Jan 2023, 00:47
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: not sure
- Replies: 12
- Views: 9759
Re: not sure
I think there are as many definitions of 'crossdressing' as there are kinky people to be honest. It's therefore difficult to pin down. In most cases, it comes down to whether YOU feel like a crossdresser or not. There is also a variance in the reasons for crossdressing. As in, there are different 'k...
- 02 Jan 2023, 20:03
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: Solo Newbie
- Replies: 7
- Views: 6724
Re: Solo Newbie
What experience do you already have? Always happy to provide ideas.
- 02 Jan 2023, 16:09
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Drinking while gagged
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2477
Re: Drinking while gagged
In situations where I have been in the position of being gagged for extended periods, there were multiple occasions where the dominant would remove the gag to allow me to drink. It only takes a short while to remove it, allow a sub to drink, then replace the gag. And a good dominant should be making...
- 02 Jan 2023, 15:36
- Forum: General Discussion
- Topic: How would an online forced orgasm work
- Replies: 1
- Views: 6619
Re: How would an online forced orgasm work
Without toys? What you are talking about here is basically a form of JOI (jerk off instructions). You don't specify male or female for the sub but I guess it works as well for both (though generally JOI is the male masturbating). The idea is that the dominant and submissive are both online, using vi...
- 02 Jan 2023, 15:27
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: Official Dares and Ideas Thread
- Replies: 831
- Views: 1076850
Re: Official Dares and Ideas Thread
This weekend I (potentially) have the weekend in the house all to myself. I say potentially because plans are still nebulous and may be cancelled but I should know for certain by Wednesday... So, that means time from Friday evening until Sunday morning for play... In this time I will have to make s...
- 04 Sep 2022, 17:54
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: New Self Bondage Setup
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7949
Re: New Self Bondage Setup
Good luck! Hope it all works well!
- 29 Aug 2022, 23:06
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: Hi from Italy
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1196
Re: Hi from Italy
Hi and welcome!
- 17 Aug 2022, 09:28
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: Hot weather
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2916
Re: Hot weather
I blame Beau Brummel... he was the one who set in place the events that led to the fashion for men to be plain colours. I want fabulous coloured frock coats back! But yes, in terms of hot weather, I agree. On a non kinky note male business dress needs to change as there are still too many places tha...
- 16 Aug 2022, 23:07
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Sub drop
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2911
Re: Sub drop
No problem. To be honest I should have figured there would be some who needed more of a definition.