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by fetishdj
17 Aug 2022, 09:28
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Hot weather
Replies: 4
Views: 260

Re: Hot weather

I blame Beau Brummel... he was the one who set in place the events that led to the fashion for men to be plain colours. I want fabulous coloured frock coats back! But yes, in terms of hot weather, I agree. On a non kinky note male business dress needs to change as there are still too many places tha...
by fetishdj
16 Aug 2022, 23:07
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Sub drop
Replies: 4
Views: 516

Re: Sub drop

No problem. To be honest I should have figured there would be some who needed more of a definition.
by fetishdj
08 Aug 2022, 14:04
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Sub drop
Replies: 4
Views: 516

Re: Sub drop

It's a phenomenon where a submissive gets low after a session. Basically linked to the high you get from being in the session compared with the feeling afterwards.

It can happen after any form of activity which gives you a rush (LRP community often call it 'event drop')
by fetishdj
07 Aug 2022, 13:17
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hi
Replies: 4
Views: 257

Re: Hi

Hi Gemma! Another UK person here!
by fetishdj
07 Aug 2022, 12:14
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Presentation
Replies: 3
Views: 516

Re: Presentation

Hi and welcome! Yes, it is difficult initially to find people who are into the same things. Not sure what it is like in France but in the UK there are ways to find like. Forums like this are a good start but also places like Fetlife, which has an events section that can be geared to your local area....
by fetishdj
05 Aug 2022, 16:45
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Sub drop
Replies: 4
Views: 516

Sub drop

So, this week, for various reasons, I have had a bit of sub drop... And before anyone asks, yes there was aftercare. Though maybe not enough given the impact... Probably the worst case of it I have had for a long time and it has lasted two days so far... So, in this thread, how do you deal with sub ...
by fetishdj
05 Aug 2022, 16:34
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hello !
Replies: 2
Views: 149

Re: Hello !

Hi and welcome
by fetishdj
02 Aug 2022, 07:07
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: hood vs. blindfold/gag
Replies: 3
Views: 587

Re: hood vs. blindfold/gag

It's a different sensation. That completely wrapped up feeling - like a whole head hug. There is also the element of greater sensory deprivation. You haven't just lost sight but also some hearing (and putting ear plugs in at the same time enhances that) and some touch sensation too. This gives the d...
by fetishdj
17 Jul 2022, 18:26
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ties to sleep in?
Replies: 98
Views: 83093

Re: Ties to sleep in?

No one seems to have mentioned sleep sacks in this discussion (well one person mentioned encased in nylon, which is not quite the same). I've been in one for a short time before and, assuming you have your face uncovered so you can breathe, I cannot see any safety issues with it. Absolute immobility...
by fetishdj
14 Jul 2022, 17:41
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Manchester submissive
Replies: 0
Views: 184

Manchester submissive

HI, I'm a 48 year old male submissive based in Manchester. Been interested in BDSM for a long time and been involved with a number of Mistresses in the past. I was a bondage model back in the day but I am now more likely to be behind the camera (but will happily be in front if needed), I've had some...
by fetishdj
14 Jul 2022, 17:11
Forum: Find a Friend
Topic: So who is in UK???
Replies: 961
Views: 834681

Re: So who is in UK???

I'm in Manchester *waves*
by fetishdj
10 Jul 2022, 16:52
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Slave id registration
Replies: 2
Views: 5482

Re: Slave id registration

No, you don't need anything at all. What you need is between you and your Dominant. If you like the idea of being registered as a numbered slave or having a BDSM contract or anything like that then that is fine, make sure you mention it when you negotiate your likes/dislikes/limits with a potential ...
by fetishdj
10 Jul 2022, 16:39
Forum: Mummification
Topic: bondage sack challenge
Replies: 19
Views: 31067

Re: bondage sack challenge

I love sleep sack bondage. Many years ago, I visited a ProDomme who was also a friend who had a leather body bag in her dungeon. She wanted some images of it in use so she asked if I wanted to be put in it to be the model. This thing was heavy - very thick leather - and very tightly strapped to my b...
by fetishdj
10 Jul 2022, 16:33
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Dirty Panties Used As A Gag
Replies: 3
Views: 1193

Re: Dirty Panties Used As A Gag

I love the idea of dirty panties as a gag. A piece of tape or bondage tape used to secure them.

The dirtier the better to be honest... the more use they have had the better that taste.
by fetishdj
10 Jul 2022, 16:28
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: About gags
Replies: 150
Views: 86256

Re: About gags

Definitely a gagophile here. I absolutely love them and did (unfortunately) once get in trouble for reminding a Mistress that she had forgotten to gag me... :) Some Dommes I've played with have interpreted my love of gags as part of an oral fixation and claim I really want to suck cock... which may ...
by fetishdj
10 Jul 2022, 00:22
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Looking for inspiration!
Replies: 1
Views: 281

Re: Looking for inspiration!

For specific info it would help to know where you are based. I know of places in the UK, for example, but nothing about the US or other countries... You could try to set up a kidnap scenario. Drive her somewhere bound in the back of a van or car, blindfolded, so she had no idea where she is. Make it...
by fetishdj
10 Jul 2022, 00:14
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Looking for someone to bondage
Replies: 9
Views: 931

Re: Looking for someone to bondage

Welcome. As already said I am sure you will get lots of offers... if I were in Poland I might have stepped forward.
I hope you find what you are looking for.
by fetishdj
06 Jul 2022, 16:40
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Is it ok to be dominated by someone with a 20 year age gap
Replies: 8
Views: 882

Re: Is it ok to be dominated by someone with a 20 year age gap

Because I am serving her more out of fear ..that if I disobey her, then she will beat me up badly.. I just feel ashamed that I cannot stand up against a teenager If you are genuinely afraid then you totally need to get the police involved or at the very least walk away for good. As described, this ...
by fetishdj
26 Jun 2022, 12:51
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Covincing genitals...
Replies: 2
Views: 662

Re: Covincing genitals...

For me, the easiest way is to use a gaff, a very tight panty made for cross-dressers. Push the testicles up into their cavities, fold the penis back between the legs, and pull up the panties. It took a bit of getting used to , but is only uncomfortable when trying to get an erection. It's easier if...
by fetishdj
18 Jun 2022, 11:04
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: What to do when bound
Replies: 6
Views: 4921

Re: What to do when bound

Part of this has to be what you want her to do... the other part is what she wants to do. And, personally, when bound I like not knowing what is going to happen. There's a special frission in having less control. OK, as no photos have yet been posted... I am assuming you are fully dressed (skirt, un...