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by fetishdj
26 Jun 2022, 12:51
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Covincing genitals...
Replies: 2
Views: 374

Re: Covincing genitals...

For me, the easiest way is to use a gaff, a very tight panty made for cross-dressers. Push the testicles up into their cavities, fold the penis back between the legs, and pull up the panties. It took a bit of getting used to , but is only uncomfortable when trying to get an erection. It's easier if...
by fetishdj
18 Jun 2022, 11:04
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: What to do when bound
Replies: 6
Views: 4544

Re: What to do when bound

Part of this has to be what you want her to do... the other part is what she wants to do. And, personally, when bound I like not knowing what is going to happen. There's a special frission in having less control. OK, as no photos have yet been posted... I am assuming you are fully dressed (skirt, un...
by fetishdj
18 Jun 2022, 10:47
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Losing the desire to get dressed
Replies: 15
Views: 8407

Re: Losing the desire to get dressed

COVID definitely stopped me from dressing as regularly as I used to. I simply did not have as many opportunities. However, even after things opened up and I had opportunities I didn't take them. For example, I did a recent visit to Mistress. Usually I would turn up there and get changed into female ...
by fetishdj
16 Jun 2022, 23:45
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Covincing genitals...
Replies: 2
Views: 374

Covincing genitals...

I am curious to learn how you manage the genitals when cross dressed. Do you leave as is and have a bulge? Use chastity to minimise it in some way but still with a bulge? Fold it up in some way to give a smooth appearance? Use a prosthetic vagina to both cover up and give a convincing shape? I've fo...
by fetishdj
16 Jun 2022, 23:39
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Unusual Gag Ideas
Replies: 13
Views: 10571

Re: Unusual Gag Ideas

It is isn't it... and the real kicker is that most of the time the only way to remove the egg is to bite it and break it... so whatever happens, at some point you get covered in egg goo.
by fetishdj
12 Jun 2022, 16:12
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Unusual Gag Ideas
Replies: 13
Views: 10571

Re: Unusual Gag Ideas

Eggs. A professional dominatrix I knew many years ago used this technique. It requires a raw egg that fits the subs mouth (most eggs don't fit into mine, I have a very small mouth but you can experiment with different sizes). You slot the egg into the mouth. Simple. You could hold it in place with s...
by fetishdj
12 Jun 2022, 16:06
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Headbox
Replies: 3
Views: 459

Re: Headbox

Looking at one of the images it looks like the small hole is there to allow mouth and nose to protrude for breathing (and presumably easy blocking) which means the eyes will be very close to the front of the box and therefore completely unable to see (though there will be light). The back of the box...
by fetishdj
09 Jun 2022, 00:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Breath control software
Replies: 4
Views: 791

Re: Breath control software

It's a good point about safety... always need to have that in mind when doing any self bondage alone. I guess the solution here would be to have a safety mechanism in place so that if the power went out or the connection to the device preventing breathing was lost or whatever, the valve opens. But e...
by fetishdj
09 Jun 2022, 00:28
Forum: Find a Friend
Topic: So who is in UK???
Replies: 956
Views: 824277

Re: So who is in UK???

I'm in the north west, Hi!
by fetishdj
08 May 2022, 17:39
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: type of ball gag
Replies: 19
Views: 17486

Re: type of ball gag

I have a collection of gags as I love the feel of them. My favourite is a leather 'stuffer mouth gag' that completely fills my mouth but is soft and comfortable to wear for long periods (I once got a compliment from a Domme for wearing it for an entire photoshoot of several hours but it is so comfor...
by fetishdj
02 May 2022, 20:28
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Looking for a Self Bondage Control Dashboard
Replies: 2
Views: 4785

Re: Looking for a Self Bondage Control Dashboard

Not aware of anything directly like this (but I think I will check out what is suggested above) but there are a few things out there that may work for you too. SexScripts is a piece of software (which can also be a phone app now) which is very customisable which means it can be easily edited for you...
by fetishdj
01 May 2022, 16:35
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Official Dares and Ideas Thread
Replies: 829
Views: 929303

Re: Official Dares and Ideas Thread

This weekend I (potentially) have the weekend in the house all to myself. I say potentially because plans are still nebulous and may be cancelled but I should know for certain by Wednesday... So, that means time from Friday evening until Sunday morning for play... In this time I will have to make su...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 22:18
Forum: Latex & Rubber
Topic: Rainwear
Replies: 10
Views: 21282

Re: Rainwear

Oh I always love the look of raincoats and boots, especially if there is very little underneath :)

You can also have a submissive in different forms of shibari bondage under there and no one would know...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 22:08
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: leg soring after trying high heels in strappado bondage
Replies: 4
Views: 3236

Re: leg soring after trying high heels in strappado bondage

My Mistress currently has me doing extended time standing in high heels. No bondage, just wearing the heels. Not even walking, just standing. Sometimes she cuffs my hands behind my back because that forces a more straight backed posture. And it really hurts. A lot. Mostly in the calves because you h...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 21:34
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Injured
Replies: 1
Views: 823

Re: Injured

I'd not do anything with the arm that has been broken. You don't want to stress it too much and, you know, it really isn't that long before you can get the cast off and be back to normal. You're lucky its not tendon or ligament damage - that can take months to heal and sometimes not heal at all full...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 16:51
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Found out girl I have been saying is a bondage model
Replies: 7
Views: 3487

Re: Found out girl I have been saying is a bondage model

Speaking as a fetish and bondage photographer, I hope I can put your mind at rest. Though I think this thread is quite an old one so I may be too late... I can totally get why you may feel there are concerns and I cannot say with all honesty that there isn't reason to be concerned. Though not from a...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 16:39
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Tell me your handgag experience in real life
Replies: 1
Views: 1656

Re: Tell me your handgag experience in real life

I much prefer an actual gag to a handgag but I have had some experiences of this. One time I was helping my then Mistress move house (we were unpacking all her clothes and things at the other end, she gifted me some of her old clothes and underwear to add to my cross dressing collection) and she fou...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 12:11
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Remote control bondage
Replies: 17
Views: 18942

Re: Remote control bondage

I did see a blog post a while back about this very topic and I wrote a post myself that included this... https://sakuraslave.wordpress.com/2018/11/14/long-distance-bdsm/ is the link to my blog https://owned-by-princess-shelle.blogspot.com/p/remote-control-box.html?zx=a93b3a3155c1d01 is the link to t...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 08:48
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How did your kink manifest in childhood?
Replies: 61
Views: 41644

Re: How did your kink manifest in childhood?

I don't recall when this started, but like others here it was largely based on the media of the time (characters in TV shows getting tied up and gagged). One very early fantasy that I can actually relate to being sorta vaguely sexual is the idea of escaping bonds or being rescued while under a time ...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 08:29
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: boobs
Replies: 5
Views: 7232

Re: boobs

I've got a pair of silicon inserts that I use. They work well because they also mimic the weight and 'physics' of real breasts (how they move, affect your balance etc.) better than many other options. If you are going for full on real breasts, it does get complicated and it is also generally a perma...