It's a phenomenon where a submissive gets low after a session. Basically linked to the high you get from being in the session compared with the feeling afterwards.
It can happen after any form of activity which gives you a rush (LRP community often call it 'event drop')
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- 08 Aug 2022, 14:04
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Sub drop
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4111
- 07 Aug 2022, 13:17
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: Hi
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2924
Re: Hi
Hi Gemma! Another UK person here!
- 07 Aug 2022, 12:14
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: Presentation
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3004
Re: Presentation
Hi and welcome! Yes, it is difficult initially to find people who are into the same things. Not sure what it is like in France but in the UK there are ways to find like. Forums like this are a good start but also places like Fetlife, which has an events section that can be geared to your local area....
- 05 Aug 2022, 16:45
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Sub drop
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4111
Sub drop
So, this week, for various reasons, I have had a bit of sub drop... And before anyone asks, yes there was aftercare. Though maybe not enough given the impact... Probably the worst case of it I have had for a long time and it has lasted two days so far... So, in this thread, how do you deal with sub ...
- 05 Aug 2022, 16:34
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: Hello !
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1693
Re: Hello !
Hi and welcome
- 02 Aug 2022, 07:07
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: hood vs. blindfold/gag
- Replies: 3
- Views: 6438
Re: hood vs. blindfold/gag
It's a different sensation. That completely wrapped up feeling - like a whole head hug. There is also the element of greater sensory deprivation. You haven't just lost sight but also some hearing (and putting ear plugs in at the same time enhances that) and some touch sensation too. This gives the d...
- 17 Jul 2022, 18:26
- Forum: Self-Bondage
- Topic: Ties to sleep in?
- Replies: 100
- Views: 164629
Re: Ties to sleep in?
No one seems to have mentioned sleep sacks in this discussion (well one person mentioned encased in nylon, which is not quite the same). I've been in one for a short time before and, assuming you have your face uncovered so you can breathe, I cannot see any safety issues with it. Absolute immobility...
- 14 Jul 2022, 17:41
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: Manchester submissive
- Replies: 0
- Views: 2299
Manchester submissive
HI, I'm a 48 year old male submissive based in Manchester. Been interested in BDSM for a long time and been involved with a number of Mistresses in the past. I was a bondage model back in the day but I am now more likely to be behind the camera (but will happily be in front if needed), I've had some...
- 14 Jul 2022, 17:11
- Forum: Find a Friend
- Topic: So who is in UK???
- Replies: 971
- Views: 1139639
Re: So who is in UK???
I'm in Manchester *waves*
- 10 Jul 2022, 16:52
- Forum: General Discussion
- Topic: Slave id registration
- Replies: 2
- Views: 8278
Re: Slave id registration
No, you don't need anything at all. What you need is between you and your Dominant. If you like the idea of being registered as a numbered slave or having a BDSM contract or anything like that then that is fine, make sure you mention it when you negotiate your likes/dislikes/limits with a potential ...
- 10 Jul 2022, 16:39
- Forum: Mummification
- Topic: bondage sack challenge
- Replies: 19
- Views: 61070
Re: bondage sack challenge
I love sleep sack bondage. Many years ago, I visited a ProDomme who was also a friend who had a leather body bag in her dungeon. She wanted some images of it in use so she asked if I wanted to be put in it to be the model. This thing was heavy - very thick leather - and very tightly strapped to my b...
- 10 Jul 2022, 16:33
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: Dirty Panties Used As A Gag
- Replies: 7
- Views: 8077
Re: Dirty Panties Used As A Gag
I love the idea of dirty panties as a gag. A piece of tape or bondage tape used to secure them.
The dirtier the better to be honest... the more use they have had the better that taste.
The dirtier the better to be honest... the more use they have had the better that taste.
- 10 Jul 2022, 16:28
- Forum: Bondage & BDSM
- Topic: About gags
- Replies: 150
- Views: 113118
Re: About gags
Definitely a gagophile here. I absolutely love them and did (unfortunately) once get in trouble for reminding a Mistress that she had forgotten to gag me... :) Some Dommes I've played with have interpreted my love of gags as part of an oral fixation and claim I really want to suck cock... which may ...
- 10 Jul 2022, 00:22
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: Looking for inspiration!
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1430
Re: Looking for inspiration!
For specific info it would help to know where you are based. I know of places in the UK, for example, but nothing about the US or other countries... You could try to set up a kidnap scenario. Drive her somewhere bound in the back of a van or car, blindfolded, so she had no idea where she is. Make it...
- 10 Jul 2022, 00:14
- Forum: Introduce Yourself
- Topic: Looking for someone to bondage
- Replies: 9
- Views: 4070
Re: Looking for someone to bondage
Welcome. As already said I am sure you will get lots of offers... if I were in Poland I might have stepped forward.
I hope you find what you are looking for.
I hope you find what you are looking for.
- 06 Jul 2022, 16:40
- Forum: General Discussion
- Topic: Is it ok to be dominated by someone with a 20 year age gap
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3796
Re: Is it ok to be dominated by someone with a 20 year age gap
Because I am serving her more out of fear ..that if I disobey her, then she will beat me up badly.. I just feel ashamed that I cannot stand up against a teenager If you are genuinely afraid then you totally need to get the police involved or at the very least walk away for good. As described, this ...
- 26 Jun 2022, 12:51
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: Covincing genitals...
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2671
Re: Covincing genitals...
For me, the easiest way is to use a gaff, a very tight panty made for cross-dressers. Push the testicles up into their cavities, fold the penis back between the legs, and pull up the panties. It took a bit of getting used to , but is only uncomfortable when trying to get an erection. It's easier if...
- 18 Jun 2022, 11:04
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: What to do when bound
- Replies: 6
- Views: 8906
Re: What to do when bound
Part of this has to be what you want her to do... the other part is what she wants to do. And, personally, when bound I like not knowing what is going to happen. There's a special frission in having less control. OK, as no photos have yet been posted... I am assuming you are fully dressed (skirt, un...
- 18 Jun 2022, 10:47
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: Losing the desire to get dressed
- Replies: 15
- Views: 18551
Re: Losing the desire to get dressed
COVID definitely stopped me from dressing as regularly as I used to. I simply did not have as many opportunities. However, even after things opened up and I had opportunities I didn't take them. For example, I did a recent visit to Mistress. Usually I would turn up there and get changed into female ...
- 16 Jun 2022, 23:45
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: Covincing genitals...
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2671
Covincing genitals...
I am curious to learn how you manage the genitals when cross dressed. Do you leave as is and have a bulge? Use chastity to minimise it in some way but still with a bulge? Fold it up in some way to give a smooth appearance? Use a prosthetic vagina to both cover up and give a convincing shape? I've fo...