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by fetishdj
09 Jun 2022, 00:28
Forum: Find a Friend
Topic: So who is in UK???
Replies: 967
Views: 877857

Re: So who is in UK???

I'm in the north west, Hi!
by fetishdj
08 May 2022, 17:39
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: type of ball gag
Replies: 20
Views: 21548

Re: type of ball gag

I have a collection of gags as I love the feel of them. My favourite is a leather 'stuffer mouth gag' that completely fills my mouth but is soft and comfortable to wear for long periods (I once got a compliment from a Domme for wearing it for an entire photoshoot of several hours but it is so comfor...
by fetishdj
02 May 2022, 20:28
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Looking for a Self Bondage Control Dashboard
Replies: 2
Views: 6628

Re: Looking for a Self Bondage Control Dashboard

Not aware of anything directly like this (but I think I will check out what is suggested above) but there are a few things out there that may work for you too. SexScripts is a piece of software (which can also be a phone app now) which is very customisable which means it can be easily edited for you...
by fetishdj
01 May 2022, 16:35
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Official Dares and Ideas Thread
Replies: 831
Views: 989672

Re: Official Dares and Ideas Thread

This weekend I (potentially) have the weekend in the house all to myself. I say potentially because plans are still nebulous and may be cancelled but I should know for certain by Wednesday... So, that means time from Friday evening until Sunday morning for play... In this time I will have to make su...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 22:18
Forum: Latex & Rubber
Topic: Rainwear
Replies: 10
Views: 24818

Re: Rainwear

Oh I always love the look of raincoats and boots, especially if there is very little underneath :)

You can also have a submissive in different forms of shibari bondage under there and no one would know...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 22:08
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: leg soring after trying high heels in strappado bondage
Replies: 5
Views: 5088

Re: leg soring after trying high heels in strappado bondage

My Mistress currently has me doing extended time standing in high heels. No bondage, just wearing the heels. Not even walking, just standing. Sometimes she cuffs my hands behind my back because that forces a more straight backed posture. And it really hurts. A lot. Mostly in the calves because you h...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 21:34
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Injured
Replies: 1
Views: 1482

Re: Injured

I'd not do anything with the arm that has been broken. You don't want to stress it too much and, you know, it really isn't that long before you can get the cast off and be back to normal. You're lucky its not tendon or ligament damage - that can take months to heal and sometimes not heal at all full...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 16:51
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Found out girl I have been saying is a bondage model
Replies: 9
Views: 6708

Re: Found out girl I have been saying is a bondage model

Speaking as a fetish and bondage photographer, I hope I can put your mind at rest. Though I think this thread is quite an old one so I may be too late... I can totally get why you may feel there are concerns and I cannot say with all honesty that there isn't reason to be concerned. Though not from a...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 16:39
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Tell me your handgag experience in real life
Replies: 2
Views: 4484

Re: Tell me your handgag experience in real life

I much prefer an actual gag to a handgag but I have had some experiences of this. One time I was helping my then Mistress move house (we were unpacking all her clothes and things at the other end, she gifted me some of her old clothes and underwear to add to my cross dressing collection) and she fou...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 12:11
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Remote control bondage
Replies: 22
Views: 24901

Re: Remote control bondage

I did see a blog post a while back about this very topic and I wrote a post myself that included this... https://sakuraslave.wordpress.com/2018/11/14/long-distance-bdsm/ is the link to my blog https://owned-by-princess-shelle.blogspot.com/p/remote-control-box.html?zx=a93b3a3155c1d01 is the link to t...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 08:48
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How did your kink manifest in childhood?
Replies: 63
Views: 49670

Re: How did your kink manifest in childhood?

I don't recall when this started, but like others here it was largely based on the media of the time (characters in TV shows getting tied up and gagged). One very early fantasy that I can actually relate to being sorta vaguely sexual is the idea of escaping bonds or being rescued while under a time ...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 08:29
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: boobs
Replies: 5
Views: 8574

Re: boobs

I've got a pair of silicon inserts that I use. They work well because they also mimic the weight and 'physics' of real breasts (how they move, affect your balance etc.) better than many other options. If you are going for full on real breasts, it does get complicated and it is also generally a perma...
by fetishdj
28 Apr 2022, 08:20
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Housework
Replies: 4
Views: 6620

Re: Housework

Just a quick note about safety - you seem to have locked out all emergency escape options there, do you have a plan in case something goes wrong? A person you can call to get you out if there is a problem? I have in the past done a lot of kinky housework tasks. A few things I add to make them even m...