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While I'm not as good at the role play the rest of the things you stated are a lot of fun

Ya shipping tends to be the killer for me, for some reason Canada is expensive to ship to. There was one item I've been looking at that's like 12$ but the shipping is 50$. It makes it a bit hard to justify that kind of expense. A friend of mine has a PO box just across the border but of course can't...

Wow. I had no idea. Are you at liberty to disclose what they did? As far as I know I'm not under any kind of expectation to remain quiet, but personally I also don't want to derail any thread or conversation. Suffice to say the person in question began to advocate for non-consensual actions such as...

Ah, that clarifies it, thank you.

Sort of turning it from "I can escape any time I want" to "I can mitigate this until I'm more ready to take it".

They were asked to leave.

The joys of a wife who is a car mechanic and loves her vintage vehicles. The bedroom is the fun toys, the living room is car parts. You'd think that right now, with covid and being unemployed, that I'd spend more time being restrained but it just hasn't been the case. It's so easy to fall into a rou...

To me, the idea of sticking glass up my backside just is so scary! How much damage is it going to do if it breaks, or splinters! Rubber is enough for me. Thanks for that mental image... Mine are stainless steel, cold at first but easy to clean and long lasting... also slotable into my belt so yay l...

I suppose that's true enough, still I would advise against risking life and limb due to the desire for an idyllic bound lifestyle. Perhaps I'm being overly dour about the subject but I'd much rather people take things slowly and safely and if that means leaving more to fantasy even if they can handl...

I also fantasize about being kidnapped, but my kidnapper is infatuated with me and is extra careful not to hurt me. That's actually quite literally the plot of my book I'm writing. Dealing with the concepts of stockholm syndrome to form a two way relationship between captor and victim. Based off a ...

Don't expect a response, they're no longer on the forum. I also wouldn't doubt if some of it is to fantastical to be real, a week in an arm binder? That would cut off circulation and cause nerve damage to my knowledge. Personally I'm rather flexible, I've done reverse prayer before and it didn't rea...

Seems a bit odd to punish, even later, for use of a safeword. Or is it only if you use the first variety? Because to me safewording is encouraged if I need out - and sometimes that's because the dom did something I don't like, and it hardly seems fair to be punished later for their choices.

SubmissiveAmy wrote:The right amount is what the man chooses. Your feeling on how much you can take or should take is irrelevant.

And if there are no men present? Then what? If it's just my wife and I, two woman, then who says when to stop?

My wife (domme) normally holds the key, though she's not as dedicate to making me wear it long terms as I would like some days. We've been together eight years and only in the past little while have we started trying to establish a proper D/s dynamic so it's a learning process

Well it might be a bit unfair for me to answer since I have a relatively small sex drive to begin with... but I'd say a couple weeks by this point. I've been known to go months, with or without my belt.

I liked it. A bit more blunt/concise then I'm used to but it's a good start.

One thing that stood out to me was your reference to the iron maiden but the way you described it invoked the image of a gibbet to me instead.

I would enjoy reading a story like that I think

While I don't seem to be as 'old school' as dsteve (while I am pre-internet it came about in my childhood) I certainly can share the feelings of growing up thinking I'm the weird one. Especially given more religious backgrounds that just love to make you feel guilty for any thoughts. It is perfectly...

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That is what I can suggest, I own one and I love it - fits really snugly, though it is a ball not a plug.

I have a fantasy about being kidnapped, I know if it ever actually happened it would scare the shit out of me. To be inserted into a situation where I'm in no real danger but I don't get to decide when it stops is just so hot to me, I think about it a lot. They slap me and hit me, grab me, choke me...

Ouch, ya there is always that concern. We woke up today with a few bruises, and scrapes, and a pair of broken glasses. But it was fun, though definitely caution is advised as you say.