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by lotharj
11 Jun 2020, 12:35
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How long have you been in bondage
Replies: 90
Views: 129378

Re: How long have you been in bondage

There was a time, when my wife would gag me and tie me up while we watched television, which meant I would stay bound and gagged(sometimes blinded) for four to seven hours. There was also a time, when she would gag me, blindfold me, and tie me up for bed, and I would have to sleep that way the enti...
by lotharj
11 Jun 2020, 12:31
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How long have you been in bondage
Replies: 90
Views: 129378

Re: How long have you been in bondage

Just shy of 13 hours but not entirely by choice as I got a little stuck. This was many years ago not long after I first learned how to hogtie myself with rope and have it be relatively inescapable. I was quite reckless back then with no backup mechanisms. Wow, that just have been very scary! What w...
by lotharj
27 May 2020, 12:46
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How long have you been in bondage
Replies: 90
Views: 129378

Re: How long have you been in bondage

It was very nice, a lot more comfy than I expected, also totally inescapable. Sometime during the night I woke up because my back was sore (would later come to find out that a board on the bottom of the bed had come loose causing it) and for a while I genuinely tried to get out, zero headway. Didn'...
by lotharj
13 Apr 2020, 04:00
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Forced exercise automation
Replies: 2
Views: 6368

Forced exercise automation

All this shelter in place (and being shackled continuously during most of it) is starting to make me a little out of shape. I know there are a few DIY folks here and was wondering if anyone could share some thoughts or experience with forced exercise. I have a stationary exercise bike that I'm think...
by lotharj
13 Apr 2020, 03:32
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How long have you been in bondage
Replies: 90
Views: 129378

Re: How long have you been in bondage

I love it--honestly a little TOO much at times. I've fought myself to exhaustion, in the past, even to the point of almost dozing off. When the restraints are unyielding and holding you immobile and still, you can really throw yourself into it. ...also, it's a great workout. ;) So I'm going on week...
by lotharj
07 Apr 2020, 19:37
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How long have you been in bondage
Replies: 90
Views: 129378

Re: How long have you been in bondage

I am curious: Are you gagged at all, during this time? I concur on the "getting bored" part. This is why I prefer really strict, really tight bindings. If I start to get complacent or bored, I fight my restraints. It keeps me interested, and also keeps me "interested", if you ge...
by lotharj
07 Apr 2020, 05:43
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How long have you been in bondage
Replies: 90
Views: 129378

Re: How long have you been in bondage

Given the recent shelter in place, I've now gone 24/7 almost a week now with collar, stainless/silicon wrist and ankle cuffs, waist chain, all locked together with chains 12-18 inches between cuffs, connecting chains, and padlocks. No access or opportunity to escape with locked mittens at times as w...
by lotharj
18 Mar 2020, 11:57
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: How long have you been in bondage
Replies: 90
Views: 129378

Re: How long have you been in bondage

The longest for me has been about 18 hours (although becoming common event to start the weekend). Everything possible on me cuffed, chained, and mostly blindfolded to bed. Really started to get a bit of cabin fever at that point and fortunately my owner let me go as we needed to go to dinner. Though...
by lotharj
06 Oct 2019, 11:58
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Time Lock Safes
Replies: 8
Views: 12785

Re: Time Lock Safes

Another angle would be to use the item below. For solo play I would imagine coming up with a very long passcode written down on a sheet of paper and sealed in an envelope for someone to have. You would likely know the code at the time but wouldn't remember it after a few days. Then you can use the a...
by lotharj
06 Oct 2019, 11:38
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Computerised box lock.
Replies: 1
Views: 3247

Re: Computerised box lock.

This works great for that very purpose (from personal experience :) ). Key holder can text you a one time code to open remotely. Also keep a code in a sealed envelope (signed by key holder) to be used in emergency . Igloohome Smart Keybox 2 - Storage Lockbox for Keys - Grant & Control Access Rem...
by lotharj
24 Nov 2018, 16:40
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: What's the biggest mistake you've ever done in self-bondage?
Replies: 28
Views: 53223

Re: What's the biggest mistake you've ever done in self-bond

When I was in my teens, I tied myself to a four poster bed. For my remaining wrist I just tied a knot in a small loop not knowing that it would self tighten (what I have later known as a slip knot). After panicking for about 30 minutes realized I could wiggle my wrist in the rope side to side to ope...
by lotharj
24 Nov 2018, 16:26
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Ice lock in practice
Replies: 7
Views: 16034

Re: Ice lock in practice

I find this very effective to put keys in (but pricey)

Kitchen Safe: Time Locking Container (White Lid + Clear Base) - 5.5" Height https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00E9J3MLM

It also has a built in safety in that you can smash it in emergency (penalty of costing $$$ to replace)
by lotharj
11 Sep 2018, 05:08
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Car bondage
Replies: 8
Views: 16887

Re: Car bondage

During a 4hr road trip recently, my owner put me into a leather straitjacket, leather collar, locked a chain leash to the headrest behind my head, locked leather cuffs on my ankles and chained each of them to the under seat supports. Occasionally I was teased as we drove. This was during the day and...
by lotharj
07 Jul 2018, 06:16
Forum: Self-Bondage
Topic: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?
Replies: 96
Views: 383833

Re: Anyone else walk around their house in leg irons?

Screenshot_20180707-011727_Photos.jpg My owner recently has me wear these on my neck, wrists, and ankles almost the entire time I'm in the house and then sometimes out and about (look sorta like jewelry at least to the naive observer). I'm even sleeping with them on as well for the past few weeks. ...
by lotharj
21 Apr 2018, 13:54
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage
Replies: 65
Views: 172124

Re: Do Friends,Family,CoWorkers know your into Bondage

Yes. Sometimes my spouse talks too much to co-workers, friends, and family. Their are a few inside jokes now that go around. Also one day a coworker was over to visit with their family and their little one discovered a toy that they shouldn't have. the parents just laughed and winked when they grabb...
by lotharj
21 Apr 2018, 13:50
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: In need of blindfold advice
Replies: 14
Views: 19791

Re: In need of blindfold advice

tiemeupalso wrote:the best thing I have found is a set of swinimg goggles.the small ones.paint them black and you cant see through them and they are hard to get off,if they are good ones.
+1. Also did this to a pair of cheap motorcycle glasses.
by lotharj
21 Apr 2018, 13:48
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: When was you last tied up?
Replies: 481
Views: 685079

Re: When was you last tied up?

Last night after we got home from a Florida/Cruise vacation. We sail on Carnival Cruise Line, one of the items prohibited believe it or not are handcuffs. So we didn't pack any for our cruise. We made good use of the luggage straps that proved more than adequate. BTW: handcuffs aren't approved, but...
by lotharj
01 Apr 2018, 05:17
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Do you sleep in bondage?
Replies: 15
Views: 37175

Re: Do you sleep in bondage?

I sleep most nights restrained for the past couple of years. Surprisingly I still find it exciting every night when my owner puts me to bed. I guess I am just addicted to the intimacy and feeling of being wanted. Details here: http://boundforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=16&t=106453 Sometimes I fall as...
by lotharj
01 Apr 2018, 04:45
Forum: Bondage & BDSM
Topic: Straitjacket
Replies: 1
Views: 4028

Re: Straitjacket

If it's the same seller on eBay from Pakistan, I can vouch for the awesome quality it has. We are amazed at how well it is constructed and feels.